How can a black man get a Polish women

It's good to know that narrow-minded bigots are alive and well. Congratulations! Vanguard--You seem to fancy yourself an expert on the subject of race. Are you a social scientist? What are your credentials?

I'm a bi-racial American woman--my mother is of Polish descent and is not deficient mentally, emotionally, or physically as you've suggested, and my parents have been married for over 30 years. Contrary to your beliefs, neither my siblings nor I have felt like we were "in the middle of two opposites" and are quite well-adjusted. ...And to further upset you and your bigoted forum pals, I'm currently dating a lovely Polish man. So there! :P

Good for you girl. Im a bi-racial (afro-asian) women and I have been with my Polish boyfriend for over a year and we are so happy and in Love. I wish you and your boyfriend the very very best.

Couldn't agree more with you.



Every forum gets their share of bigots who nobody would listen to in real life. Be assured that most people on here are not like Vanguard. Most of us are sane. rational people who have a great deal of tolerance nad are certainly not bigots.

I Second that..
Iv'e met some really nice people here. Great freinds too.
Most of them have helped me in ways even they dont know..

Dont let one or two dimwits. spoil it for you..
Better to ignore the rantings of fools..

After all. the 10cents they contribute. Isnt worth that much. :))

Murzynka, thank you for your reply. You and your boyfriend are beautiful and will have some gorgeous children. :)


Firestorm and szarlotka-- it's good to hear that most of the people here are kind. I've been lurking here for a while and came across some nasty posts, but that one just made me lose it...Thanks for your nice words.

You're welcome. No more lurking! There is a lot of good debate and information on here and I see you've joined up now so I look forwards to your contributions. All the best.

what is so interesting about polish girls 2 a black man? seems to me those girls r egzotic to u guys as well? isn't it?

its true! i know alot of guys... i even went out with a couple and they all seem to want a white girl (which i am).... i mean white people like white people so why can black people not just like black people!?

lol, i know that :)



if thats aimed at me i never even mentioned getting close to you. As for go and get a life, your jumping the gun here a bit, you have to get to know me to you know :) it can't be just one way

k, thats crazy sh*it

there are no rules, trust me

and better finish with this topic or ppl will think that ure some kind of racist

btw: maybe they just want to date with u cuz ure cute, not cuz ure white ^^

My sense is that there are a lot of Polish girls that seem to like black guys as well.... it doesn't work just one way!

Welcome back Wyps :)

oh hi sweety :D
awwww next person which cares when i wasnt online
ahh love.. well adore ur avatar! Now just a bit smile and im urs :D

As a black man, i can tell you that, even though we love our black women, the white cousins are more adventurous when it comes to sex and they are a lot easier to have a relationship with as opposed to all the nagging & flexing we normally get from our black sistas.

For example, last week i started seeing a childhood white friend - we had sex for the 1st time after having known each other for 'many US presidents' ago and the sex was ok but then again, we were both nervous around each others secret garden..

Yesterday we sort of dropped our inhibitions and went for it like a barn door caught in a hurricane and that woman did things to me which i never knew existed. I could have sworn she was giving me a 'karma sutra' lesson (though it wasn't all one sided cuz she said she'd never had it soo big and deep before). She even gave me a deep throat which i could never have asked a black sista to give.

I mean i'm not trying to belittle our sistas or label our cousins but <imho> the cousins are a lot easier going than our sistas and are a lot less demanding .

And the cousins also understand that when it's time to f*ck, you f^ck and not nag. Y'all excuse my french pls

so... how is it then..........what is it that those black sis won't give ya? don't get it, u with whithe1 and u shout at em but u don't wan 2 go 2 ur lashin' sis cous she's worst... what u black guys r really lookin' 4, what is it?

hey, listn' u I'm sooooo into black u won't belive ... but still got sooo many questions u know kin a love u and hate u thin' goin on in me. any1 got some help on that?

hahah i am not a racist!!
i just meant that there are more white people going out with white people than white people going out with black people ;)

thanks ^^

That was from Firestorm to me. I think he thought I was talking to him, but I wasn't. That reply about me blowing up too close to you if you tried to throw me like a grenade was to you and he for some reason thought it was to him. I probably did something wrong with the quote button to cause the confusion . - Sorry

Thank you very much and you are very welcome. Just keep loving that gorgeous Polish man of yours. Has he cooked for you yet? Mine has and he is a better cook than me Lol : ) Take good care both of you XxXxXxX

Love the man for the man he is. If he is black thats not the most important thing about him. Black men won't appreciate the comment about having the love/hate thing going on for them. I'd keep that comment in this forum if I were you. Good luck anyway.

oh no my dear it's not just about black man. what I mean is that black ppl, and don't start on me pls, are misterious... u never know when they consider u've said somthin' wrong. sometimes it's enough to look and they commin' with fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuul power. it's like they like 2 fight fare too much. and hey I know not all of them r like that, ok?! I've got many friends girls which r black and we do understand each other. I know that many still want 2 show that slavery is done. we all know that. and just cous I'm lookin it ain't mean I'm resist. I do not see color never did, however some black ppl were resist against me. anyway, it ain't bother me I know my hart and mind just don't like the over the top atitude. hope I didn't start 3rd world war. thanks murzynka

Thought you were talking about men, seeing as the title of the forum directly relates to them. Also, often I have found that what is expressed as quite a normal attitude to an English or American person in terms of the way things are written, in this forum, it is sometimes totally taken out of context by some Polish people like yourself. This is due to the language barrier and the different ways in which we communicate. My attitude is not over the top and anyone reading this who understands the English language would not consider what I said to be over the top. They may agree/disagree, but over the top means extreme and Im afraid you are using the wrong words.

World War 3? Darling little comments like yours wouldn't start anything let alone a war. I am a Londoner, we are far too busy to care about comments like that. We enjoy our diversity with all of its people from all over the world. We are the most tolerant people and the coolest city on earth. We don't do war, we just enjoy.

There is no language barrier. I wasn't talkin' bout u or ur atitude. U seem to me very tolerant and cool. What I was referin' to was some ppl on London streets. and yes London is a bussy city and thats what the problem is. As 4 diversity whit all ppl from over the world big NO I've been here 4 loooooooooong enough 2 know that IS a problem 4 many english/british ppl.Cant agree on the tolerance neither brits don't have much choice. they r aware of law... as 4 takin' some things out of context...if I don't understand I ask. So I don't consider anything u said to 2 b over the top, I was not referin' 2 u whatsoever. I'm talkin about Londons streets. But yes I must agree whit u on 1 thing we polish do have diffrent point of vieu on many things and thats were the missunderstanding is commin' from. its not even missunderstanding is lack of aceptance 4 some things that r happening. But that is with many nations not only polish. So what u saing is u do enjoy the war in Irak, do u?

Sorry you are wrong. I have lived here all of my life. I was born here and I am telling you that Londoners especially are very very tolerant. Go to Paris, Rome etc and you will see the difference. They are years behind us in term of acceptance of other people.

I love my London Streets because I know them like the back of my hand even though I get **** from people also. I walk along with my Polish boyfriend who looks like a skinhead and people say things or stare - especially black guys and I dont give a f**k. I stare right back at them. I am not afraid. Londoners are street wise because we live here. I feel safe all of the time because I know what to avoid.



NO that is not what I am saying. I meant we enjoy life and our city for all of the great things it has to offer culturally.

yes murzynka I do know what u ment. I was pullin' ur legs ok. sorry.
U know I'm not wrong.. u just said exaclly what I wanted to say... u know what's safe... I'm here ,I don't talk bout Paris or all that... we all know they r racist, just recall the football in madrit, hey... till now I get angry, ok. I love London, too. very mach and that's the reason I'm here. U say u get the looks... u wait till u got a baby 4 that man, if... all I say prepare ur self couse no matter how toff u r u need it. the looks will feel more painfull than ever! trust me. well let me stop there, ok. for the record I've been with my man 4 more than 10 years, yes he is black, he educates me on black history and all that, we ,very often have arguments about SOME black ppl atitudes and we have kids. Its not like I don't know what I'm talkin' 'bout. OK?!
murzynka, 4 some reason I do like u. I just hope u not more white than white... u know what I mean, don't u?

który troszczyć się jeśli czarny dzień człowiek puszka metalowa dostać pewien polski kobiety albo nie? co pewien głupi temat

no sweethard don't get u whatsoever. diside which language u talkin' in b4 u say anything, ok. or even better go open ur own side pls.

First of all I already have two children with my ex-partner who I was with for 13 years. He was English and Italian so I already have children people look at. However, when people look at them they are thinking how beautiful they are. I have had men and women who are strangers come up to me in the street and in shops just to tell me how beautiful they think my son and daughter are. When I flew to St Lucia, the air stewardess on Virgin Atlantic Airlines came up to me and asked me if the two children in the seats on the other side of the aisle were mine and I said yes. She said you really are the beautiful family, which was very nice of her to say. I have also been complimented on their intelligence and good manners. I have never had bad looks regarding my children, never. Only smiles and compliments.

Also, my Polish boyfriend wants children with me 100% and he said that he will be the happiest man in the world to have a brown baby. He said it would make him proud. I don't know where you live, but I am lucky enough to live in a nice area and most of London has couples like us everywhere. So I have already experienced having mixed race babies and what you are talking about has not happened to me. Even if it did I wouldn't care. You don't need to be tough. Thats got nothing to do with it. It is about loving who you are and your family. No one else matters.

ok murzynka, so u know what ppl think? well done u can read their mind good 4 u. Just resently read sthin' on this side that mixed raised kids looks like ghost sthing sthing. whatever. it got me well angry. just hopin' u would understand.but no, ur not polish ur experence would b different to mine. havin' said that I don't c the point discussin this subject any further. U know what u talki' 'bout . I know my point of vieu i know what I get from pols. Well lets leave it at that. as u said this one is about how black man can get polish girl or sthing in those lines. I wish u good life. pice 2 all mixed raiced OK.