What does a Polish girlfriend expect from a relationship?

I have a polish girlfriend( from the country ) in nyc. I dont understand her mood swings at times.Sometimes she is showering too much love and at other times she is cold and distant. I had wanted a stable relationship with her where i can predict her at all times to see if she is suitable for longterm.

Is this is a sign of immaturity on her part? or is she testing me to see how much i want her ? If she is testing me, this is red flag for a relationship with her as she is not direct and into games.

What does a polish girl expect from a relationship in general? Any polish girls care to comment?

Your advise is welcome.

Appreciate your time

you've got to be kidding


on yours it is

You didn't find what you were looking for. A leopard won't change it's spots, move on...

with posts like this one I am always very coutious to comment at all, because there is ALWAYS more to the story:).
I will join in discusison in post #100 or so......

Sorry Glowa would you care to elaborate? Because that makes no sence..

@ Miranda you are right but this is enough for now.

@ glowa : you dont know me or her. moreover It is not like judging her . I merely asked how polish girls think.

what does a polish gf want or expect in a relationship in general ?

Stay on topic please !!

the guy expect the girl to be totaly predictable! have you heard of such a woman? dead man's wish, isn't it?
only teenagers have such dreams and often demands - a person who's perfect, predictable all set as I want her/him to be. Does that answer?

ny02116, indeed, I don't know you, but its you who throws the immaturity card. and from what you have written, i dare to doubt your being fair in it

The guy expects the girl to show reasonable behaviour,that is to react according to the circumastances.If one minute she is curling him affectionately and the next minute yells at him,the guy has reasons to feel worried.

Women are as predictable as the weather in the uk, dont plan a picnic lol

I meant what southern said in the quote but not the rest.

its ok to expect reasonable behavior in your partner . It is not a sign of immaturity. If you think its immatured you should grow up first. I don't think there are many adults who post their views here lol there might be many 12 year old immature children pretending to be older.

Not all women are like this. Exactly how cold and distant does she get and is it for no reason? You express that it is an unstable relationship. That doesn't sound like a good relationship.



It could be. Young women sometimes don't understand how fortunate they are to have someone who loves them. They can easily take a man for granted.



If you really want to continue with this type of relationship, just be consistent. Don't let her mood swings affect you and cause you to treat her differently.

just be a gentleman, and express your feelings with her. Who nows why she is distant? Do you know about her past? I think that just talking things out with her will help and of course shower her with admiration at all times

read it again but a little more slowly then because it does make sense. haha


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I have the same question.

same as girls from any country...a house , car , maybe children , and then her freedom....

butterflies....

you forgot FUN. hehe




marek s? LOL