Grounded:
How can you ever get "close" to someone if you're afraid to touch them?
Why would you be afraid to touch some-one? If there wasn't something attractive about the person, then you wouldn't get to know them in the first place. The point I was making is that meeting a woman shouldn't in my opinion be like ordering something from a catalogue -- colour and size ?!! It should be the whole package - looks, mannerisms, personality etc. That's all. I know we all obviously have preferences like I prefer dark and chunky men for a relationship. But if a man had a great personality and other attributes but was blond and skinny then that wouldn't matter to me - it's everything about the man that matters to me.