I am heart-broken by my polish guy

i have been waiting for his response every day, either email, call or text. and he has left me without saying goodbye. the last word he said was that he will still like to see me again. but i have been waiting for 2 months. he has been avoiding me, i am really confused and sad. he used to say how he like me, but he said he not sure whether he will stay or go. Should i stay or go.. but i am not willing to let him go. i really in love with him, but he doesn't trust me. that hurts me more. d0825

I'm sorry...

Were you together long? Why doesn't he trust you?

is this a male - male relationship. Or do you need to change your profile.

just curious

good call wroclaw ...

what makes him not trust you dee is what you need to work out .. and if he is leaving maybe he wasnt ready for a full on relationship ...

He's married and probably has kids back in the fieldland

he wouldnt be the first

Yep...sounds like another one who forgot he was married....till he got back home....

yes, we are in gay relationship for a brief period though i totally trust him. i am not polish. and he is my 1st guy to kiss and to go to bed. he said he will bring me to Poland, go for tour together. he said what happened between us has gone too fast for him and he wants space. and i have been respecting that, but i don't know if he still wants me after a long torturing silence. i m very lonely and feeling so empty inside.

He doesn't. Move on.

Because he is a womani... oops, sorry, a manizer. Typical of Polish guys...

I would simply say that because of the length of time... he is not going to contact you again.
That's how some people do business. And I am sure that deep down you understand this.
Time to start afresh... get yourself out and mingle.

thanks guy.. i don't know how to do it, but i will try to be strong

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follow up to the previous, i finally bumped into him in a gay club last Saturday. he was with his two friends. i gave him hug and asked why he hasn't contacted me for 2 months. he said he mobile dropped into water, and he still need space.. when i danced with him, he didn't even look at me. when i hugged him, he didn't touch me. his two polish friends teased me, showing cross-fingered on me like i m a bad spirit, and laughed at me, pushed me away and treated me like a dirt. worst case, he did see how his friends treated me, and did nothing. he then said he left earlier home and so i bid him goodbye. but i saw him again at 4 am with his friend, and this time he danced so intimately with him and i was hurted again. and i received mail from him today.. saying..

Hi,
I'm happy you found a nice guy i club :)
I wish you good luck.
Have a nice day :)

i was why i would find a guy while i was crying all time in the club knowing how he was so cold with me? i texted him saying this is not fair accusation and he said he trusted his friend, but his friends were so nasty to me. i begged him to call me as he didn't pick up his phone, but he said we are not together. i am not with him and he is not with me. he said i don't understand him, saying my approaches and behavior was the causes of this, saying we have different culture. yes, he's a polish and i m a malaysian, but i love him as who he is, regardless culture.

i am all heart-broken now. i said to him, "wojciech, you don't appreciate my love. i m leaving you and free myself. i still like to see you smile and find your love".. and that love is not going to be me.. cause you have hurted me and there is nothing more hurt and pain i can take anymore..

why he's not listening to me? has he ever liked me before.. he said he wants space, i gave him space and i respect that.. my heart is so cold now.. and i am numb in love and relationship.. friends said he's bottom of the crap, liar, and worthless and furthermore ugly looking.. but i just like him who he's.

guess that make me more sense to leave now and free myself. i have no more tears to cry for him.. i think he has done enough damage on me, and i wish he is happy doing that to me.. i will leave him in peace to find his own world and i will deal with mine to retrieve my dignity & self worth again..

i did say "lubie cie tak bardzo" to him for the last time, take care Wojciech!

I hope you feel better soon.