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ok so ive been single for a bout a year ive seen a few ppl but nothing serious only problem is theres always this one guy who ive been getting to know for a fair few months nearly a year ......we are friends but i do really like him alot and i think he might too but im not sure like he will send me kisses when we chat on msn or he just does little things that r a bit confusing (but very nice things) like fixing a lock on my door when i needed one. he really seems to care about how i am and is always interested to know if im dating or if i mention a guy he will ask who he is etc but when ever i go round his or he comes tom mine i never know what to say i get tongue tied and im way to shy to tell him how i feel although i think he may already know. he has gone to france for a holiday but will be back in a week he said he'd bring me something nice back .......

im not sure if im even making sense but id appreciate some good advice . im scared that if i tell him he will have to "let me down gently" and id not be able to look him in the eye again cos that is soo embarrassing but please some friendly advice :)

Well its worth a go, hes either a nice person or a nice person whos interested in you, nothing to lose.

You make perfect sense, I've exactly the same emotions around someone I'm attracted to. Its really annoying isn't it, you can be fine around most people but then you meet someone you like and you go into your shell and you act like a different person.
A couple of years back I fell for a girl who works in the gym I go to. I was crazy about her but being too shy, instead of approaching her I sent her a card telling her how much I liked her only later to find out she had a long term boyfriend. Very embarassing every time I meet her and like you say I find it very difficult to look her in the eye ever since. If the same thing happens to you,(hopefully it will not, it could work out great) my advice would be to use humour to diffuse the situation. Where I went wrong was to treat the whole episode very seriously when in reality I didn't do her any harm, it's not like I drove over her pet cat or anything. If I had the opportunity again, I would have made light of the whole situation, used some self depreciating line of humour which would have broken the ice and made it a bit easier to be around the person in the future. Not sure how much sense I'm making here, finding it hard to translate information from brain to keyboard!

Why dont you drop hints and see how he reacts to the hints, thats what i do and it works for me everytime for me.

thanks guys :) ill keep posted

Thanks for that Ryan.Must try that one hahahhahaaha

JUMP HIS BONES!!

you miss 100% of the shots you never take and 99% of the ones you do. - Wayne Gretzky

If he hasnt made any moves there are reasons. Move on and find someone who is interested. Because after reading the post it would seem you are just friends, some guys are nice and do things because they are that kind of person.