Does anyone still believe in no sex before marriage?

Has this tradition died out altogether?
Was it ever much of a tradition in the first place?
Is the traditional concept of marriage a thing of the past also?

no because i am not religious, so i don't have a preference either way, i just believe you have sex when the time is right

Its not good idea to wait with sex till marriage. Just imagine that ure a virgin, then have first sex after taking marriage. Lets say ur husband is bad lover, what means u will have bad sex whole life (if u wont leave him) Sucks.
Im not telling its good to fuc*king around haha. Everything has some borders.

That is a good point, lol.

I don't think we ever did. If you study Genealogy you are likely to find a few children in your family born out of wedlock.

Personally, I just can't see myself ever getting married, I just don't like the idea of being tied down like that.

Ha, i think the same! Actually im in open relationship :P Its a best exit

It's not about being tied down. If you marry someone you truely love it won't be such an inconvenience.

and there are too many dirty std carrying people out there to play the field nowadays

i agree, what is marriage no a days??? it means nothing its just a piece of paper that 'officially' signifies your partnership. It is a religious ceremony, so i don't see the point unless you are religious.

If you love somebody being married to them or not should not make any difference :)

Does that mean you both are free to see others?
Sounds good but I don't think I would be strong enough mentally to deal with that.

Well, its possible that im just different than u. Never love someone really much. Maybe one day i would like to have husband but hey, right now im 18 and having fun as long as i can

A "marriage" doesn't mean paper. Look up the word.

It might to your partner.

Absolutely! Go enjoy your youth.

No!!!! :P

At first we were together as a couple. But he was too jealous. Asking me for every day which i spent without him ("how many boys u met on a concert?") so it pissed me off and i broke up. But we still meet each other and treat like partners. Just when i wanna go to the party alone im making it. And im never jealous.
He knows im meeting with many many boys. Come on, im a nice girl :)

Never believed in not having sex before marriage but also don't believe in sleeping around. Can't be bothered with one night stands etc but I don't see the problem in having sex with a boyfriend because it's important that you know everything about each other before you commit to marriage and you have to know if you are sexually compatible or not.



It's not about being tied down. It's a commitment to each other that says you love each other (faults and otherwise) and that you will be there for each other, among many other things.

its a religious ceremony, i couldn't really care what it is, religion is the real problem in the world.

I'm happy for you to explain the exact meaning of marriage, although in todays society it dosen't really stand for much considering the amount of divorces or separated couples :)


you could be right there, however i won't be getting married just to please somebody

That is a super quality you possess.
I'd be a very jealous person, I'm not proud to admit that but it's hard for a leopard to change its spots.

Hmm... just chill out. Think about many girls which u can meet. That one person isnt indispensable. Its even good and more interesting to meet with couple of ppl than with one

in these cases jealousy is linked with trust, people get jealous in these situations because they cannot trust their partner. That is what should form as part of a good relationship, trust, then with trust there is no jealousy :)

Marriage

I've been told to tell you it's just beautiful what more do you need to know can't it just exist out there without having to be about something all the time and another thing you never listen I said thick sliced wholemeal bread and a tin of pineapple chunks not ten Marlboro Lights and a bottle of scotch

Mrs Noddy

No, it hasn't died out. There are so many people out there who don't believe in sex before marriage. More than people realize. Nobody really discusses it. That's why it doesn't seem like it.

To big risk! Arent they worry about their sexual life in future? Well, everyone has his own philosophy

its just dying out :)

sex before marriage is like test driving a car you are about to buy. if drives nice and smooth (good sex) then you are more likely to buy the car (marry).

if they turn out to be no good, tie them up and have your way with them. :) Seriously, if you're not getting satisfied by someone, you're obviously not making your needs clear or you're not doing what you have to do to get yourself satisfied.

And the new Brides and Grooms can't confirm or deny anything they're in Jamaica probably. This plot seems to be thickening nicely. Simmer time

sometimes its to do with communication, talk to your partner about what you and they want from their sex life, however if they are just not listening or are useless then maybe do what shewolf said :)

Hes got my point ^^