Does anyone still believe in no sex before marriage?

I think that there just exist ppl which are lame in bed. I dont wanna have such husband, thats all :P

no woman does.

Ha, i think so ;)
Even more: man doesnt want it either :D

what is lame in bed?? of course no woman wants it but all women want different things right, one mans cave is another mans castle and all that.

true, so i guess thats the same for men and women

that's a good question. I don't understand that concept. Does it mean you're going to sit back and depend on the other person to satisfy you?

(my question is meant for whoever said it)

yes i guess so, or being selfish, for example a man just being quick to please himself and not care about the woman

Haha, the hell no! Wanted only say that there are good lovers and bad lovers. I prefer to meet one from the first group ^^

lame in bed

I think she means she draws the line at splints :)

ok so what makes a good lover and a bad lover??? its an open question?? is there a definition, i don't think there is, for everybody i mean

Is this something that wouldn't be apparent before having sex with someone or does it just show up when you're in that situation? Wouldn't there be signs that this person is selfish before that? Maybe there would be signs and you could run the other way before getting there. I don't know.

Haha, damn english. At least its more funny :P

You sound very experienced. I'm not as familiar with this.

ok you may have a point there, but what about the lazy lovers, the ones who just lie there like a sack of spuds :)

is it an irony? :)

lol. You sound like you've had that experience before with someone.

So, if you met the most wonderful and kind man in the world but they weren't the best between the sheets you would ditch them for an utter b*stard if they happened to ring your bell?

I've never been in a situation before where I've needed to test drive someone. I can tell just by their body language, and through other forms of contact if they're aggressive or passive.

yes, i guess so, you know what they say, you have to have the bad one because then you enjoy the good ones all the more :)

On a serious note, you can't tell if somebody is going to be good at sex, unless you have prior knowledge from ex partners etc. You can look at somebody and wow i bet she's a fox in the bedroom, then when you get her there actually she's the most overrated than pop idol :)

Open 'relationship'

Any clues heaving into view? Worst of both worlds with no added guilt or emotional baggage.
Eight out of ten struck off relationship councillors recommend it :)

There is no "most wonderful man in the world". There are many of them. I dont have to choose between nice boy which is bad in sex and scurvy basta*rd which is good lover. I can find 2in1.

All what i can say: if someone like it, then its cool (can call me:P) If not, no problem. There are ppl which are looking for stable relationship. Im not, thats all. U can do what u want.

this just goes to shw that everybody is individual, some people like relationships to be serious, others don't. Its the same for sex, some people like certain things that others would find lame

You're lucky to be in a position to choose. Many aren't so lucky.

what do you mean?

Everyone is. Show me a reason why someone hasnt got choice.

everybody has the chance to choose a partner surely?? i don't get what you mean mate?

Not everybody.

Explain hun. Some woman has imprison u and now u cant choose another? oO

I can hear violins in the background so i think he's gently nudging us slowly but surely towards 'nobody wants me territory.'