 |
Jul 28, 07, 14:35 #1
I was hoping to get a few answers on the subject of where to meet polish girls in chicago Age range 21- 25.
Around freshman year in high school, I formulated an opinion on my beliefs regarding Polish people and the culture. Need less to say it wasnt positive. Reason being the Polish kids or demographic in my burbs was either attempting to be ghetto or awkardly wierd.
The sad part of it all was, my parents are Polish immigrants, I was forced to go to Polish school but treated the kids rather poorly there, and as a result never maintained any true frienships there either. I was too conceided and caught up with the idea of my popularity in high school, being on the football team, and chasing all the hot tail around which unfortunantly none were Polish.
After College, I reflected on all my relationships and hook ups and realized I was never with a polish women or had a polish grilfriend. At first I just assumed I never found Polish women attractive and truth be told I never really did untill a few months ago.
I went to a Polish office and the women were not only beautiful yet still had a hotness about them, BUT were sharp witty, attractive, and intelligent. But the underlining factor was my father and mother were right! Polish women have a sweet and nurturing spirit in them. You can immediatly see the way they interact and genuinly care. I know other cultures and ethnicities poses such traits but I am sure some of you know what I am talking about.
So I admitted I was Polish and began speaking them but unfortunantly one had a boyfriend the other was married. At 24 too! I am only 23 so I was a little confused by this.
Anyhow excuse my ramblings... the primary point to this is. I regret letting popularity, and loosing myself block my Polish culture. But more importantly I regret treating Polish people the way I did, the comments I made, and the perception I carried.
I now more then anything want to re connect with that side of me... I want to meet an attractive athletic Polish women who has strong roots but can also relate with my All American embodiment. Please accept my apologies and give advice. I dont have any Polish friends either so places where I can go solo would be great too. And i have heard of Jedynka but thats not my style, way too club headed for me.
P.S if your on here
I am 23, 5'10. 170 athletic and tone. I have dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I maintain a very acctive lifestyle in part which forces me to work out twice a day. The mornings bc I have dog which needs a 2mile run at 6 days a week. I gradualted college, and now work with contractual agreements for a prestigious firm, and will be attending grad school in a year or two.
So if you think you can relate let me know. Sorry to all for this long and absurd post but I am really passionate in this new self realization.
|
Guest
|
top of page