Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies

Quoting: southern

It also seems that polish girls use to party a lot.This causes some misunderstandings because some people think for first time polish girls party in their country and so they are available.In your opinion if you start talking to a polish girl in a club for example and she does not make a gesture to stop or nodes with her head without talking but actively talks and laughs,it means that she is definitely interested or is just friendly behaviour?

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 09:39 / #
Quoting: dannyboy No-no, I have the polish woman already, she is my trophy, on the mantelpiece next to the wall with the lion's head and the elephant tusks. eee. . it wasnt funny what u wrote:P and. . if she needs 'intensive force' as u said. .hmn. . maybe she just want make u try harder?:P show u thta she s not that easy? that u need to work a bit before u reach ur goals?;p maybe u dont pay as uch attention to her as she would like u to and that s the way to focus u on her! i dotn know

southern	May 17, 07, 09:43 / #
I also found that polish girls respond well to touching.Even if they do not know you,they let you easily touch their legs etc.Is this common in Poland?I mean is there a lot of physical contact between boys and girls,boys hugging girls etc,so that girls are used to boys' touching or is this a sign of interest?

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 09:43 / #
Quoting: southern It also seems that polish girls use to party a lot.This causes some misunderstandings because some people think for first time polish girls party in their country and so they are available.In your opinion if you start talking to a polish girl in a club for example and she does not make a gesture to stop or nodes with her head without talking but actively talks and laughs,it means that she is definitely interested or is just friendly behaviour? hmnmn it s hard question! rather impossible to answer;) for sure we like to party;p in summer when i have a lot of time i party 3-4times a week even:P i like to be active:p and. . about body language, i really dont know, there s no rule for that! whta do u expect me to tell u? if girl is spontanious, enjoyes conversation, it doesnt neccesary mean that she s interested in u!

southern	May 17, 07, 09:46 / #
Because it happened to me to kiss polish girls in club and the next date they did not appear in date.I wondered if it is common to make out a little,get some interest,they like getting attention?

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 09:48 / #
Quoting: southern Quote . Today, 09:43 . #95 I also found that polish girls respond well to touching.Even if they do not know you,they let you easily touch their legs etc.Is this common in Poland?I mean is there a lot of physical contact between boys and girls,boys hugging girls etc,so that girls are used to boys' touching or is this a sign of interest? it depends what kind of touching u mention;p hugging? it s natural,spontanious behaviour i think, sign of sympathy! i have lot of friends, male and female, and i kiss the closest of them for greeting (i dotn mean french kiss:P ) 'Touching legs'. . hmn. . it s specific kind of touching, sign that u wanna sth more from a girl;p and who told u that we easily let ppl touch us?;p for me it s embarassing when stranger interfere in my privacy by touching me! Quoting: southern cause it happened to me to kiss polish girls in club and the next date they did not appear in date.I wondered if it is common to make out a little,get some interest,they like getting attention? there are easy girls too, if u kissed some unknown at the party, u apparently met one of them:P and sure, all girls need attention, no matter what country they are from! if girl didnt appear at date, maybe she simply forgot coz he drunk too much^^

southern	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 09:53 / #
Not all of them.However some of them do.For example once a topless polish girl in the beach let me touch her.It was hot.I noticed also other topless talking to black men for example and being very loose and relaxed.Also polish girls seemed a bit jealous of their friends.One advised me not to meet any polish girls.She told me she was jealous everytime I met her friends. I got to her apartment and met her next day.They were with bikinis in balcony drinking.We kissed again,she let me touch her but next day she did not appear again on date. I mean this is controversial.She did not come to meet me prefering to stay to drink with her friend but when I came,she was with me again.

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 09:56 / #
Quoting: southern Quote . Today, 09:54 . #101 I got to her apartment and met her next day.They were with bikinis in balcony drinking.We kissed again,she let me touch her but next day she did not appear again on date. ok, so she liked u:P but didnt take u seriously

southern	May 17, 07, 10:04 / #
Yes I see.I will tell you about another one.She was gorgeous blonde,told me she had sb who was as semi-boyfriend(!).We met three times,she let me hold her hand,touch her legs,thighs below skirt,kissed me but did not give me her phone number.We met through her friend who I introduced to one of my friends and she became his girlfriend.So my friend was with his girl in the car and I was with the other girl in cafe,then walk to beach etc.Then both left to Poland.Her friend told me she got back to her boyfriend with who she had a serious relationship. I still think that had not crashed my car one day before we met,I would easily be with her in car and do the same as my friend.Is it true?I mean did it to have with lack of car or it was because as she told me we had known each other only for three days?She told me if I had met her ten days before,she would be mine but now we spent few time together.Does it make sense to you?

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 10:10 / #
Quoting: southern So my friend was with his girl in the car oooomg. .. what is it?? was his girl in the car. . why r u afraid or words?;p he f** her in the car;p and u wish u could too? so u also didtn take her seriously, u wanted only one thing from her. . and explainin like; if we knew each other 3 days and 20hours more, i would make love with u. . eee it s stupid^^ is it ur only goal? to spend as much time as needed, to finally take her to ur place??

southern	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 10:14 / #
I mean I was jealous of my friend because he managed to get a girl who I first met and introduced to him,while I failed with mine.He proceeded so quickly that it struck me I could have the same under better circumstances.If I managed to do sth more with her,maybe I would not lose her so easily because I really liked her and wanted her for the long term. She was very beautiful,a real star and she had a very nice soul.

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 10:18 / #
haha;d typical man. nvm;d anyway, it s always hard to create relationship between ppl from different countries. i know something about it;) i was twice in such situation. didnt work.

LoboThreads: - Posts: 100 Joined: May 5, 07	May 17, 07, 10:28 / #
Quoting: unicornes but generally i dotn consider it as anythin wrong! do u? Nothing wrong at all. But it will drive men crazy!

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Edited by: sapphire May 17, 07, 10:45 / #
zzzzzzzzzzzzz. he is a twat

szarlotkaThreads: 14 Posts: 3,349 Joined: Feb 20, 07	May 17, 07, 10:48 / #
Quoting: sapphire he is a twat Perhaps - but he is the last of the Great Lovers..... I read it on the Internet

southern	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 10:20 / #
I met another one and on the second date she came with a towel.I asked myself what she needed the towel for,then in the night we went to the beach,she spread the towel and...followed what you already described.I guess in this case I was not the one to blame for the quick result. It also happened to me that polish girls picked me up,talked to me without me knowing them.Is it common in Poland for the girl to make the first move?

LoboThreads: - Posts: 100 Joined: May 5, 07	May 17, 07, 10:22 / #
Quoting: southern She told me if I had met her ten days before,she would be mine but now we spent few time together.Does it make sense to you? My interpretation of this is that she did not want to get involved with you because she was going back to Poland so soon. Then the extra pleasure of the involvement would be cancelled by the stress of getting intimately involved and having to part. This ia always hard for a woman. It is also the reason women sometimes don't want to get sexually involved with you if they think you are going to be appart too much. That is my take.

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 10:23 / #
hahahah booyyy sounds like u met a lot of polish girls in ur life:P and sex is ok, i ve never said it s sth wrong. even if it comes fastly, before relationship really starts;) i m not tellin from my experience, but it s my opinion Quoting: southern Quote . Today, 10:21 . #110 It also happened to me that polish girls picked me up,talked to me without me knowing them.Is it common in Poland for the girl to make the first move? ohohooo of course:D i m tellin from my experience again:P i like to make first move!! it s neccesary sometimes if man is too shy for example!;p with my N it was me who first asked him out:P this one was a mistake, but generally i dotn consider it as anythin wrong! do u?

southern	May 17, 07, 10:34 / #
Another girl I met was 30 years old and still virgin.I was surprised.Is this still common in Poland?

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	May 17, 07, 10:42 / #
Quoting: southern Another girl I met was 30 years old and still virgin.I was surprised.Is this still common in Poland? I think you most likely already know the answer to that.. oh man of much wisdom when it comes to women... you are just looking for some titillating chat to brighten up your dull life.

szarlotkaThreads: 14 Posts: 3,349 Joined: Feb 20, 07	May 17, 07, 10:45 / #
Quoting: sapphire you are just looking for some titillating chat to brighten up your dull life. On the other hand it could be the equivalent of actors ' resting' - a sort of between relationships pass the time of day before the next trip sort of thing

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Edited by: sapphire May 17, 07, 10:50 / #
must be true then.

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	May 17, 07, 11:32 / #
Quoting: southern Quote . Today, 10:34 . #106 Another girl I met was 30 years old and still virgin.I was surprised.Is this still common in Poland? OLOL!! no it s not common. was she ugly?

LoboThreads: - Posts: 100 Joined: May 5, 07	May 17, 07, 11:52 / #
Here is my penny’s worth from my experience with polish girls (applies to conventionally very good looking women who are also vivacious): • Tall and elegant. Dressed to kill. • Cultured personality and easy going. • Extrovert and really enjoying talking to men and even teasing them. • Easy to get into relationships. • Polite but strong willed in their desires. • A little naïve about the consequences of too many simultaneous relationships, but fast learners and quick correction. • Stronger than most western man in being able to form and break relationships. • Drive for independence away from all the help that men usually provide. • Very truthful about real feelings even if truth is dead scary. • The above being extremely addictive to western males who love a chase (probably to all males).

southern	May 17, 07, 12:04 / #
No,she was not ugly.In fact she had boyfriends and was sexually experienced,she just did not let them you know conquer the last castle.I was wondering if it is common in Poland but now I am relieved.I think unicornes is an adverisement of Poland.After her answers some people will think of travelling there.It is always refreshing to chat with a polish girl. Unicornes,now I have affairs with a married polish woman.I was told marriage in Poland is sacred and things like that.However she seems to need a lover to fill the gap that husband's inattention fills.Does it happen often in Poland?I mean do women prefer to have a lover than to get a divorce?

Proud2bNaijaThreads: - Posts: 12 Joined: May 17, 07	Edited by: Administrator May 17, 07, 12:45 / #
Quoting: unicornes with my N it was me who first asked him out Now we are getting somewhere ! We've been following your thread from work and we couldn't believe how quick people jumped on the band-wagon to slag off us Nigerians - yet, all that time you sat there lapping up the sympathy while you failed to mention that it was you who actually approached the brotha first. If you had approached a polish guy, would he have told you that he couldn't touch you because he has a family?

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 13:31 / #
Quoting: southern Does it happen often in Poland?I mean do women prefer to have a lover than to get a divorce? ya. indeed, marriage is something very respected, in meaning, ppl prefer to prolong this even if it doesnt make sense. i know a couple who hate each other,still quarrel, but live together and even share bed, only to show off and not let anybody think that their marriage is comin to and end. ridiculous. me personally , i would divorce-it s a chance for new, satysfaying relationship, than remain in such a sick situation! here is something i found recently in net. . maybe it s a bit too schmaltzy and sticky, but for sure true; [polishmarriage.org/polishwife.html Quoting: Proud2bNaija We've been following your thread from work and we couldn't believe how quick people jumped on the band-wagon to slag off us Nigerians - yet, all that time you sat there lapping up the sympathy while you failed to mention that it was you who actually approached the brotha first. If you had approached a polish guy, would he have told you that he couldn't touch you because he has a family? it s not fair what u r saying now. i made first step, ok, but does it mean that he was allowed to lie at me brazenly, make a fool of me and finally tell that all poles are b**?? there was no my foult in this situation. and it s not about slaggin off Nigerians, i respect u, i have nothing against. I will not judge all nation basing on experience with one refugee! am i right?;p Quoting: Proud2bNaija If you had approached a polish guy, would he have told you that he couldn't touch you because he has a family? i ve never met polish guy who would lie so good^^

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,947 Joined: May 17, 07	Edited by: Moderator May 17, 07, 13:48 / #
Do you think polish girls are desperate to marry soon or do they wait til they find the proper one?Are there girls who have children without being married like in Czech Republic? I also noticed some polish girls dating girls in cafes.Are bisexual girls common?Are they generally accepted?

LoboThreads: - Posts: 100 Joined: May 5, 07	May 17, 07, 13:53 / #
Quoting: southern Are there girls who have children without being married like in Czech Republic? In the UK it is 30 or 40%. In france it is probably similar. Remember the Female presidential candidate who had 5 chieldreen but was not married... it is the way things are going I expect Poland will just join the club...

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06	May 17, 07, 13:54 / #
Quoting: southern Are there girls who have children without being married like in Czech Republic? I know a student in PL who is a single mother. The BF left. Thhis happens regardless of where you're from. Quoting: southern Do you think polish girls are desperate to marry soon Guess I'm lucky not to have a "desperate" gf :) So... guess not all PL women

unicornesThreads: 1 Posts: 108 Joined: May 16, 07	Edited by: unicornes May 17, 07, 13:59 / #
Quoting: southern Do you think polish girls are desperate to marry soon or do they wait til they find the proper one?Are there girls who have children without being married like in Czech Republic? nooo we are not desperate to marry soon! we realise it s kind of slavery:P sure we prefer to wait for this special one. . and yes, we prefer to get hitched than to shack up with man for a long time. we are pretty so we dont have to catch first one who shows interest:P no noo. . . and yes, single mothers are common. Quoting: southern also noticed some polish girls dating girls in cafes.Are bisexual girls common?Are they generally accepted? why bisexual? maybe they are just friends? i also meet with my friends (females) in cafees;p and. . i know only one lesbian and 2gays. i dotn know if it s common, but for example in my city (poznań) there are special pubs for homosexuals , even a lot of pubs;p friend of mine says, (heterosexual male), that he likes to go there coz he mets the prettiest and hottest chicks there^^ ok, i ll be tomorrow morning;) time to watch some movie and go sleep:P here in poland it s 9pm;) keep fillin up my thread:P