Quoting: shewolf Apparently, it's not uncommon for Polish women to behave this way. I guess in other cultures, people explain why they're leaving you.
Quoting: paulo66 Can anyone offer any insight please?
I don't think its a matter of culture, but more a question of maturity. When I was younger, I admit, when I didn't want to see someone anymore, I would just blow him off. I figured he'd get the hint. I was just a coward. I thought it was because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, but really, I just didn't want to face the fact and accept the responsibility for hurting someone. It wasn't until it happened to me that I came to the conclusion that its much better to be honest, even if it hurts, then to leave someone guessing. The turmoil it causes, especially when everything seems to be going well, is just unbearable. I had something similar happen and I truly thought something terrible had happened to the guy. I ended up hearing from him again, many months later, to find out he was engaged (to someone he was with before me). I won't go into anymore detail, but I will say, I have met someone new, and I'm much happier with him.....he's so much more than the other guy could ever dream of being. Good luck.
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