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i love you -why say it if you dont mean it


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DebiancoThreads: 19
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now this is interesting. i cant say rthe words 1 love you if i dont mean it. now i know some poeple do say it to get one thing-but i am not talking about that situation. i am talking about it in a serious context would you say i love you to someone knowing they believed you when you didnt mean it. why would anyone do that-?
OlenkaThreads: 1
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No, I would not say that. Anyone honest wouldn't.
starchildThreads: 2
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I know someone who tells his gf's he loves them just to shut them up!?

I think that is really low, but he says they keep saying it to him or they keep asking him and in the end he just says it so that they will be quiet.

Obviously, in the end these girls get their hearts broken because he leaves them and then they realise he never loved them.

Yep.. he's going straight to hell!

Seriously though, I don't understand why he would do that to them because he's not really that bad a person. I was married to him for 9 years so I understand him really well, but I can't work out how he can be so careless with other peoples feelings.

Its a nasty thing to do.... I hope it never happens to me.
plk123Threads: 30
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i think most poles wouldn't. culture of america seems to be opposite of that. everyone throws those words around like it wasn't a big deal. americans are more open and expressive though.

Quoting: starchild
Yep.. he's going straight to hell!


sour grapes.
BubblesThreads: 1
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Quoting: plk123
i think most poles wouldn't. culture of america seems to be opposite of that. everyone throws those words around like it wasn't a big deal. americans are more open and expressive though.

So you think an american is more eager to say it than a Pole?? Or more importantly say it for the wrong reason?
DebiancoThreads: 19
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why is it easier for a man to tell a girl he loves them when he doesnt why shut them up-i dont understand this-its cruel its giving false hope surely i am not sure is moer honest
DebiancoThreads: 19
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so when a polish guy says i love you he really means it?
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Quoting: Debianco
why is it easier for a man to tell a girl he loves them when he doesnt

Because it is easier for them not to deal with the situatuion then it is to just "talk" about it. Cause we as women will always ask the ever dreadful "Why" when we don't get the answer we want.
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Quoting: Debianco
so when a polish guy says i love you he really means it?

Let's hope so.
OlenkaThreads: 1
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It is cruel but I'm not sure if it is easier to say for a man than a woman when they don't mean it.
OlenkaThreads: 1
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Quoting: Debianco
so when a polish guy says i love you he really means it?


That would be too easy ;)

Then anyone would be crazy about Polish guys!
polishgirltx   Oct 16, 07, 14:55 /  #
Quoting: Bubbles


Quoting: Debianco
so when a polish guy says i love you he really means it?

Let's hope so.

yes, only hope....

cmon... Polish guys are the same guys you find everywhere in the world.... only because they are Polish it doesn't mean that because he said that he loves you, he really does... Polish guys lie too....
DebiancoThreads: 19
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many guys are scared of saying i love you because they know it means more committment so they avoid saying it-or only say it when they really mean it. so whats the point in saying it if you dont mean it?
polishgirltx   Oct 16, 07, 15:00 /  #
you should say 'i love you' when you are 100% sure he/she is the one...

the rest of it is just throwing meaningless words around...
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Quoting: Bubbles
So you think an american is more eager to say it than a Pole?? Or more importantly say it for the wrong reason?

definitely the second but also the first to some degree. poles are serious.

Quoting: Debianco
why is it easier for a man to tell a girl he loves them when he doesnt why shut them up-i dont understand this-its cruel its giving false hope surely i am not sure is moer honest

i found women to be just as evil.
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Quoting: polishgirltx
you should say 'i love you' when you are 100% sure he/she is the one...

you've never loved anyone even though they weren't "the one"?
polishgirltx Edited by: polishgirltx   Oct 16, 07, 15:12 /  #
Quoting: plk123
you've never loved anyone even though they weren't "the one"?

no.... well, i loved only one guy, i thought he was 'the one' but he wasn't.... but i didn't love every guy i've been with...
plk123Threads: 30
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Quoting: polishgirltx
no

wow.. really.. hmmm.. :)
DebiancoThreads: 19
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theres love and theres being in love-you know when your in love
DebiancoThreads: 19
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so whats the difference between i love you and i am in love with you
polishgirltx   Oct 16, 07, 15:20 /  #
Quoting: Debianco
so whats the difference between i love you and i am in love with you

ppl usually love each other for entire life but they are in love at the beginning.... the trick is to be in love all the time, feel the passion
starchildThreads: 2
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Quoting: plk123
sour grapes.


Hey, no not at all! I'm the only person he ever loved, so I have no hard feelings. I just think its cruel for him to do that to his subsequent gf's.
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Quoting: plk123
definitely the second but also the first to some degree. poles are serious.

Sooo if an american says I love you, you should question it, but if a Pole says it, it is probably for real?
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Quoting: polishgirltx
the trick is to be in love all the time, feel the passion




You are wise PG, you are wise indeed
natalkaThreads: -
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Quoting: Bubbles
Sooo if an american says I love you, you should question it, but if a Pole says it, it is probably for real?


maybe you shouldn't trust all americans...
but some of us are sincere ;)
...not all of us throw around "i love you"...when we know it's not true. ;)

Quoting: plk123
Or more importantly say it for the wrong reason?


i think the american culture definitely over uses them....
...but i think we just want some kind of reassurance that we are cared about
(that doesn't mean that everyone should be telling everyone they "love each other"...when it's not the real and honest truth.)
maybe americans are just more verbal?!?
and want verbal reassurance of somthing?!?

i am not sure why "love" is the instant thing to say.
BubblesThreads: 1
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Quoting: natalka
but some of us are sincere ;)

Yes we are!! Sometimes to sincere and your heart is on your sleeve. And I agree we want reassurance. It feels good to say I love you.
plk123Threads: 30
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Quoting: Bubbles
Sooo if an american says I love you, you should question it, but if a Pole says it, it is probably for real?


good luck getting that out of a pole. lol j/k.. could be though bubbles; poles rarely say that they love you so if i heard it from one i'd think it to be more serious. but you know how it is with generalizations, don't you?
Quoting: natalka
and want verbal reassurance of somthing?!?

i wonder if that stems from the 60s; you know, peace and LOVE and don't bogart... :D
BubblesThreads: 1
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Quoting: plk123
good luck getting that out of a pole. lol j/k.. could be though bubbles; poles rarely say that they love you so if i heard it from one i'd think it to be more serious. but you know how it is with generalizations, don't you?

Oh wow........
urszulaThreads: 2
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Americans say: I love your car, I love your dog, etc.
If someone would say: "Kocham twój samochód" in Poland, they would think he's nuts!
_Sofi_   Oct 16, 07, 18:52 /  #
Quoting: urszula
I love your car, I love your dog

but that's completely said in a different way to the real thing!
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