why man won't marry?

Quoting: foxylitious

I never said anything about gov marriage. I was referin to church one ...so do any of ur points still aply, yes. so my question is why u man think only about money and what u can get out of it? can't u belive in love? want 2 prove ur women u love her by gettin married?

foxylitiousThreads: 5 Posts: 51 Joined: Sep 21, 07	Oct 4, 07, 08:00 / #
why u'r so scared of marriage? what, if anything, would make u go for it? is there someone who would marry not to lose loved one? is it really that bad, specialy 4 man?

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 4, 07, 08:31 / #
he must not have it for you.

marek sThreads: - Posts: 451 Joined: Sep 9, 07	Oct 4, 07, 08:55 / #
men generally dont have a need to be married, we can live with a women, its really no different. getting married entiltles the women to just about half of everything made after getting married and also hes going to lose some of whatever he had before being married.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 4, 07, 18:16 / #
Quoting: marek s also hes going to lose some of whatever he had before being married. hell NO. pre-nup baby! only in america, love it. :D :D

marek sThreads: - Posts: 451 Joined: Sep 9, 07	Oct 4, 07, 18:30 / #
Quoting: plk123 hell NO. pre-nup baby! only in america, love it. :D :D pre nups can easily be picked apart in court and have been. personally, my house and everything worth value, is in my mothers name.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 4, 07, 18:40 / #
well there are other ways too.. you're right but that doesn't mean one shouldn't have one...

urszulaThreads: 2 Posts: 362 Joined: Aug 31, 07	Oct 4, 07, 19:53 / #
Quoting: marek s getting married entiltles the women to just about half of everything made after getting married and also hes going to lose some of whatever he had before being married. It works both ways. The x will take half of what the woman earned too. When people love one another that is all that matters because all marriage is, is a legal contract where the goverment takes over you. Once you marry the love goes out the window and problems arise such as money and how to pay for that new car. Love is what marriage is, not some document. People change once they marry. Best be single but have that love of your life with you.

polishgirltx	Oct 4, 07, 20:00 / #
Quoting: urszula People change once they marry. I don't think ppl change, I think that they stop trying as they try at the beginning.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 4, 07, 23:08 / #
Quoting: polishgirltx I don't think ppl change, I think that they stop trying as they try at the beginning. you've been marred before?

polishgirltx	Oct 4, 07, 23:14 / #
Quoting: plk123 you've been marred before? Do i need to have a piece of paper to know that?

nauczyciel	Oct 5, 07, 06:34 / #
oh i forgot to add..... that after a divorce and there are children involved, many times the mother will prevent the father from visiting his children and say bad things about him, thus tainting the opinion of the child.

urszulaThreads: 2 Posts: 362 Joined: Aug 31, 07	Oct 5, 07, 07:18 / #
Quoting: nauczyciel oh i forgot to add..... that after a divorce and there are children involved, many times the mother will prevent the father from visiting his children and say bad things about him, thus tainting the opinion of the child. Not in my case. My children got half and half custody and he was bad mouthing me because he wanted me to pay him child support and because the system is corrupt in the US.

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,144 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER	Oct 5, 07, 19:00 / #
Quoting: marek s why is it women always want to get married?? We do??? Okay... I must be misunderstanding something here. A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,144 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER	Oct 5, 07, 19:33 / #
Quoting: marek s others give in to pressure or some other reason Oh sure, the bride is holding a gun to the groom's head! A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Edited by: plk123 Oct 4, 07, 23:16 / #
yes. as piece of paper makes the marriege. realtionships need no boundaries.

polishgirltx	Oct 4, 07, 23:19 / #
i disagree. A piece of paper doesn't change anything. Some people live like they would be married and all the the same thing (like in marriage)happen in their lives.

nauczyciel	Oct 5, 07, 04:38 / #
why won't a man want to marry?? 1- there is no benefit for a man to marry 2- men can get all the benefits of marriage without being married 3- when/if a divorce happens, the woman can take 50% or more of all the worth of her husband. And even his future earnings. 4- if the wife has a rather luxurious lifestyle because of the money earned by her husband, then after the divorce she is entitled to maintain that lifestyle and the ex-husband will be forced to pay for it. 5- some women go into a marriage with plenty of debt and wait for Prince Charming to come along and take care of that debt. 6- men typically get shafted in a divorce 7- marriage creates a corporation with the government, and allows the government to interfere with the corporation. That is why when parents are not good with children, the government has the right to sieze the children. 8- why do you need a "license" from the government for something that is supposed to be "religious" and performed by the church? When you get a license for something, you are basically getting permission to do something which the government has made illegal.- let that sink in. there's 8 good reasons not to get married.

foxylitiousThreads: 5 Posts: 51 Joined: Sep 21, 07	Oct 5, 07, 16:22 / #
Quoting: plk123 he must not have it for you. I'm talkin about man generally. we all know that's the case , isn't it?

foxylitiousThreads: 5 Posts: 51 Joined: Sep 21, 07	Oct 5, 07, 16:34 / #
Quoting: nauczyciel something that is supposed to be "religious" and performed by the church? I never said anything about gov marriage. I was referin to church one ...so do any of ur points still aply, yes. so my question is why u man think only about money and what u can get out of it? can't u belive in love? want 2 prove ur women u love her by gettin married?

foxylitiousThreads: 5 Posts: 51 Joined: Sep 21, 07	Oct 5, 07, 16:37 / #
Quoting: nauczyciel let that sink in I don't like any form of sarcasm. Don't appreciat it at all.OK.

marek sThreads: - Posts: 451 Joined: Sep 9, 07	Oct 5, 07, 18:31 / #
Quoting: foxylitious I never said anything about gov marriage. I was referin to church one ...so do any of ur points still aply, yes. so my question is why u man think only about money and what u can get out of it? can't u belive in love? want 2 prove ur women u love her by gettin married? why get married when living together is the same thing?? women almost always are the ones who want to marry, not men. why do we worry about money, because when we have it, the last thing you want to do is lose it to an ex wife. why is it women always want to get married??

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,833 Joined: Dec 23, 06	Edited by: shewolf Oct 5, 07, 18:35 / #
Quoting: marek s why is it women always want to get married?? why is it that men agree to it? (millions of married people in the world)

marek sThreads: - Posts: 451 Joined: Sep 9, 07	Oct 5, 07, 18:43 / #
Quoting: nauczyciel 5- some women go into a marriage with plenty of debt and wait for Prince Charming to come along and take care of that debt. this is very true.

marek sThreads: - Posts: 451 Joined: Sep 9, 07	Oct 5, 07, 18:44 / #
Quoting: shewolf why is it that men agree to it? well first off, im sure alot of men are fine with getting married and want to. others give in to pressure or some other reason

jnowiskiThreads: 3 Posts: 191 Joined: Jun 11, 07	Oct 5, 07, 19:11 / #
i want to get married someday. most my buddies want to get married and have a family, you're just looking at the wrong guys

jnowiskiThreads: 3 Posts: 191 Joined: Jun 11, 07	Oct 5, 07, 19:36 / #
i always wondered how someone can continue dating someone they know they don't want to ever marry. i know there's factors like sex and all that good stuff involved. idk...i've said it before and i'll say it again, i'm probably just a wierdo. :)

shewolf567	Oct 5, 07, 19:43 / #
you have the right to choose - no one can be forced into it and definitely not holding a gun to your head. Men are from Mars - Women love aliens Man will marry because he is too LAZY cooking cleaning and ironing - your mum aint going to be around forever to do this!! Women will marry because society expects it - even men expect this and thus she is old stock when she doesnt - a spinster - what an ugly word - probably the word found by man. Bachelor - oh wow - sounds good.

jnowiskiThreads: 3 Posts: 191 Joined: Jun 11, 07	Oct 5, 07, 19:46 / #
Quoting: shewolf567 Man will marry because he is too LAZY cooking cleaning and ironing - your mum aint going to be around forever to do this!! why cook when you can order out? :D

Niklas	Oct 5, 07, 20:14 / #
A ring on her toe-finger means almost just as much, or right?

EurolaThreads: 6 Posts: 2,647 Joined: Dec 2, 06	Oct 5, 07, 21:03 / #
Hmmm, I thought that younger generation wants to get back to the "good, old" values of marriage...Not?