Do Polish Women Date American Men?

Quoting: zuzi0mail

they communicate in Polish, eat Polish food , listen to Polish music and share similar customs

Yet they live in America? Surely their pure-polishness get influenced by out-of polish customs, food, music etc. Or they'd still be back in poland.

Jay1318	Jun 17, 07, 10:58 / #
I work and live in an area of Chicago that is very Polish. I'm surrounded by beautiful Polish girls all the time and have even gone to some of the Polish clubs nearby. But it always seems like the Polish girls are exclusively with Polish guys. Also, does it have anything to do with being Catholic? It seems the majority of Polish people are Catholic. I am a Christian who attends church regularly, but not a Catholic church. So just wondering if the American guy of Irish/German descent should even bother asking out a Polish girl.

zuzi0mailThreads: 1 Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 9, 07	Jun 17, 07, 11:05 / #
Polish girls are no different to any other european girls. They dont date depending on race, origin ect, but rather on matters of the heart - your looks, personality ect. Of course it vary's with every girl. As it does with American girls, spanish girls, south african girls...etc Just a Q? but why do people think polish girls are soooo different. As if they have rules and regulations or a book of laws written on their underwear or something? Not meaning to be rude, just wondering! :)

BubbaWooThreads: 46 Posts: 4,438 Joined: Sep 26, 06	Jun 17, 07, 11:06 / #
go for it mate... whats the worst she can do... say no?

zuzi0mailThreads: 1 Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 9, 07	Jun 17, 07, 11:09 / #
Quoting: BubbaWoo go for it mate... whats the worst she can do... say no? Yep! Exactly! ;)

marek_canThreads: 1 Posts: 10 Joined: May 19, 07	Jun 17, 07, 11:09 / #
I've seen a Polish girl/guy with just about every type of partner --> black/asian/american/middleeastern.... maybe you need to look around a little more.....

pennyroyal999Threads: 1 Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 10, 07	Edited by: pennyroyal999 Jun 17, 07, 11:52 / #
I'm Polish and have dated american guys. One of my family members is also married to an american guy. We do perfer catholic, but like someone said it really depends on the matters of heart too, so generally if it's Christian it works. It's rare though to see that a polish girl will marry someone of non-european descent, i.e. we generally marry caucasian guys. I did see a polish girl though at the airport in Poland with an african american guy, and another with one of asian origin so there are exceptions.

zuzi0mailThreads: 1 Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 9, 07	Jun 17, 07, 11:54 / #
Quoting: pennyroyal999 We do perfer catholic guys Oh please no! lol ;)

pennyroyal999Threads: 1 Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 10, 07	Jun 17, 07, 11:58 / #
Quoting: zuzi0mail but why do people think polish girls are soooo different. As if they have rules and regulations or a book of laws written on their underwear or something? yeah I wonder this too...haha, but it's cute when guys ask these questions lol, perfection is very attractive.

witekThreads: 2 Posts: 739 Joined: Apr 1, 07	Jun 17, 07, 13:21 / #
Quoting: Jay1318 But it always seems like the Polish girls are exclusively with Polish guys. they communicate in Polish, eat Polish food , listen to Polish music and share similar customs

zuzi0mailThreads: 1 Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 9, 07	Jun 17, 07, 13:46 / #
Quoting: witek they communicate in Polish, eat Polish food , listen to Polish music and share similar customs Yet they live in America? Surely their pure-polishness get influenced by out-of polish customs, food, music etc. Or they'd still be back in poland.

buniaThreads: 1 Posts: 159 Joined: May 27, 07	Jun 17, 07, 14:49 / #
Quoting: pennyroyal999 How many polish people in Poland do you see marry interracially Thats only because in poland there is not much choice :) But outside poland, polish girl would date or marry whoever is good for her without looking on religion or race.

jtmWIENThreads: 4 Posts: 24 Joined: Dec 25, 06	Edited by: jtmWIEN Jun 18, 07, 06:26 / #
Well, I can say one does. The question could easily be reworded to "Do American Men Date Polish Women?" The only actual barriers is finding someone who you actually click with, the minor cultural and language differences (most younger polish women I have had contact with - and I currently live in Krakow - speak almost fluent english) shouldnt be a problem as personalities and personal goals and tastes are much more important in any form of a relationship. The reason perhaps is that its not so prevalent is history, customs and fear can keep both sides (Polish and American) from opening up to and attempting a relationship with the other. Also as Witek mentioned, many polish girls in America immigrate not looking for something new but looking for better financial circumstances, but this doesnt mean that love or a relationship isnt possible. It can get anyone in the strangest of places and circumstances if they are willing to give it a chance.

TheKrukThreads: 5 Posts: 389 Joined: Apr 14, 07	Jun 18, 07, 06:46 / #
Quoting: pennyroyal999 How many polish people in Poland do you see marry interracially, seriously. Just stating a fact.. Well honey at my English school we have teachers from India/Canada, Brazil, England, America, Germany all married to Polish women. My wife also has two friends married to African-Americans. I think once Polish women get a sample they enjoy the exotic fruits. You just don't get an ample sample in Polska. And I do think most Polish women leave to their spouses' countries after marriage, because once they see another country operating properly they don't like to return. But theKruk stayed as did all the other gentlemen at my school.

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06	Jun 18, 07, 07:59 / #
Quoting: Jay1318 i've never seen one with an American boyfriend or husband so I was starting to wonder. Because they're afraid to talk to them :) go for it.

buniaThreads: 1 Posts: 159 Joined: May 27, 07	Jun 17, 07, 13:57 / #
Quoting: pennyroyal999 We do perfer catholic Quoting: pennyroyal999 It's rare though to see that a polish girl will marry someone of non-european descent please................

pennyroyal999Threads: 1 Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 10, 07	Jun 17, 07, 14:32 / #
Quoting: bunia please................ You don't think that's true? How many polish people in Poland do you see marry interracially, seriously. Just stating a fact..

Jay1318	Jun 17, 07, 15:32 / #
Hmmm... so it sounds like asking out a Polish girl is not out of the question. I appreciate the feedback. The reason I asked is simply because of all the Polish girls at my work, and there are tons of them, i've never seen one with an American boyfriend or husband so I was starting to wonder.

BubbaWooThreads: 46 Posts: 4,438 Joined: Sep 26, 06	Jun 17, 07, 15:33 / #
Quoting: pennyroyal999 You don't think that's true? How many polish people in Poland do you see marry interracially, seriously. Just stating a fact.. a few... but lets face it... most of them left....

witekThreads: 2 Posts: 739 Joined: Apr 1, 07	Jun 17, 07, 16:49 / #
Quoting: zuzi0mail they communicate in Polish, eat Polish food , listen to Polish music and share similar customs Yet they live in America? Surely their pure-polishness get influenced by out-of polish customs, food, music etc. Or they'd still be back in poland. in places with big Polish populations like Chicago you don't even have to speak english to live , work or run a business as you handle everything at Polish run banks, Polish lawyers, Polish bakieries, Polish grocery stores, Polish doctors, Polish coffee shops, bars, restaurants and so on.

witekThreads: 2 Posts: 739 Joined: Apr 1, 07	Jun 17, 07, 17:10 / #
Quoting: zuzi0mail Or they'd still be back in poland. People immigrate mainly for financial reasons, not because they find American, Canadian or British culture fascinating.

Drifting AwayThreads: - Posts: 8 Joined: Jun 13, 07	Jun 18, 07, 18:48 / #
Go to a Polish club and start talking to women and see what happens.

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06	Jun 18, 07, 18:56 / #
I`ve dated several Polish women, there just like anybody else. you just have to man up and go talk to them

krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:06 / #
Quoting: sledz I`ve dated several Polish women, there just like anybody else. hahahaha. You are sooo funny!!!

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:07 / #
why is that so funny???

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:08 / #
still havent heard from Iwona,,Hmmmmmmmm

krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:08 / #
Because they say the "r's" differently if some one has an "r" in his name....

krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:09 / #
Iwona is probably busy. She didn't call us up either.

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:09 / #
yeah and its soooo sexy the way they say my name.... gotta love em

krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:32 / #
makes your toes curl up

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06	Jun 18, 07, 19:33 / #
Thats always a good sign