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SunflowerThreads: 15
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What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?
MufasaThreads: 24
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good question. I have never thought about it.
krysiaThreads: 26
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Real intimacy is the ultimate trust in someone, accepting the other person's downfalls and give yourself to that other person wholheartly.
It's harder with a language barrier and two things can happen:
1. It will be short-lived because you need to communicate not only physically but also verbally. Being intimate is giving the whole body and mind to that other person which means your thoughts are very important too.
2. If it is very strong, the language barrier will be overcome by learning that language and can lead to everlasting happiness and with the undenying trust in each other it will work and it will be beautiful.
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Krysia - you a romantic too?

Suppose that's why I liked you scent ;-)

... from one animal to another, of course
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Quoting: Mufasa
Suppose that's why I liked you scent ;-)

you've been sniffing her butt? lol

Quoting: Sunflower
What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?

hard to do if you can't fully communicate. if you're talking sex, not talking could be good for you. lol
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Quoting: plk123
you've been sniffing her butt? lol


No - Krysia is a lady. Ladies are not my thing ;-) lol

Spaniels' sense of smell is highly developed - we even pick up scents with our ears!
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Quoting: Mufasa
No - Krysia is a lady

Oh really? interesting..hmmmmm I run free and wild with my herd and no one can ever catch me to sniff my butt. hehehe :).
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I didn't know mice lived in herds! LOL LOL LOL

Krysi you just made my day! LOL LOL LOL
FirestormThreads: 7
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Why does the word " Intimacy "
Conjure up thoughts of sex..?

Intimate moments. ( To my mind )
Are the times you spend/Share. With another person. One to one.

When sometimes. Words have no real place.

The moment.. When your hands.. Eyes Meet..
And the feeling you have.
Says everything you ever wanted to. But never knew how to.

Intimacy = Togetherness

A shared moment in time. However brief.
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mmm ... another real romantic :)
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Quoting: Firestorm
Why does the word " Intimacy "
Conjure up thoughts of sex..?

At my age anything conjours up thoughts of sex!
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Quoting: johan123
At my age anything conjours up thoughts of sex!


LOL

<-- Scared to say anything else. (Wouldnt want to create a fantasy ) Loooool
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Quoting: Firestorm
The moment.. When your hands.. Eyes Meet..
And the feeling you have.
Says everything you ever wanted to. But never knew how to.

That's beautiful
dtaylorThreads: 15
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Quoting: Sunflower
And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language?

actually im seeing someone now who doesnt speak too good english, but when were together everything clicks
its really weird because sometimes its easier to express our feeling without using words.
i forget the saying, but something like 5%of communication is through language
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Quoting: dtaylor
its really weird because sometimes its easier to express our feeling without using words.
i forget the saying,



ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!
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Quoting: anuska
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!

Yes, that's right! I always pinch bums!
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Quoting: anuska
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!

agreed
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Quoting: Sunflower
What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?


I think intimacy is confusing for some people i guess.......

The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions. Intimate feelings may be connected or confused with sexual arousal. Intimacy is linked with feelings of closeness, safety, trust and transparency among partners in a collaborative relationship........

And yes you can achive them with someone!!!!

Ever stood across the room from someone and made eye contact with them not once but a number of times i guess this is a phyical attraction....how do you know that person can speak the same language? If its the same body language then arent you understanding each other anyway?
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Quoting: johan123
Yes, that's right! I always pinch bums!



do u get lots of slaps to the face too he he he
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what about animals what mate for life, they dont speak any language....stupid example but you get my point.
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Quoting: anuska
do u get lots of slaps to the face too he he he



To tell the truth I do! But at my age a slap is better than nothing! I once pinched a girl's boobs in Tescos and was later arrested. I spoke about intimacy to the police and mentioned that I was picking up the wrong signals almost all the time.
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Quoting: dtaylor
what about animals what mate for life

I am not into beastiality at all and neither is my dog! I read about a guy that tried but nearly got his old boy bitten off. Wouldn't fancy that I can tell yah!
krysiaThreads: 26
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He means certain animals like swans who mate for life, when one dies, so does the other. That's because they can't talk and can't put a personal add in the paper to find another mate. :)
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Quoting: krysia
when one dies, so does the other


when i worked in hospitals, if a patient died, very often there wife or husband would within the week, really sad.
alot of people cant deal with a broken heart
anuskaThreads: 1
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, you people really know all about downers!!!!!
dtaylorThreads: 15
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i try to forget all that, instead cheer myself up by thinking what positions could we put a "stiff person" :)

downers..i know all about drink beer in one go :P
anuskaThreads: 1
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well put the beer down more to life
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Quoting: anuska
well put the beer down more to life


put the beer down....are you crazy!!!! lol
anuskaThreads: 1
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nope u can get more enjoyment out of a woman ;) but i guess u might still get up with a headache lol
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bouncing of the head board...........hehe
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