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How to get to know a polish guy better?

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pamlarougeThreads: 4 Posts: 68 Joined: Oct 27, 07	Edited by: pamlarouge Nov 1, 07, 23:38 / #
Quoting: moonmustang its hard to have enduring love, honor and respect in either direction if these roles are out of balance. I agree. In my relationships I want the man to take the lead. I don't want to dominate-I want a man because I want a MAN not some guy who is afraid of me or always deferring to me. Some guys don't understand that when a woman has a strong personality it doesn't mean that she doesn't want a guy who will take the reins. I am 100% willing to let a guy I can trust and respect take care of me. I found that many of the guys I know whose mothers were strong women look for those kind of qualities in their girlfriends/wives as well. I know that's the case with my Polish guy. Maybe it's the mothers we have to thank for turning out such great Polish men :)

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Nov 2, 07, 09:48 / #
I think its OK for women to dominate in the kitchen and bedroom

JamboThreads: 2 Posts: 157 Joined: Jun 11, 07	Nov 2, 07, 10:01 / #
What do you do in the kitchen to dominate him?

polishgirltx	Nov 2, 07, 10:08 / #
Quoting: Jambo What do you do in the kitchen to dominate him? spank him with a spoon...lol ;)

moonmustangThreads: 2 Posts: 50 Joined: Oct 21, 07	Nov 2, 07, 10:09 / #
now those two areas should be a woman's specialty :) Good way to keep the man happy too.

polishgirltx	Nov 2, 07, 10:12 / #
Quoting: sapphire I think its OK for women to dominate in the kitchen Quoting: moonmustang should be a woman's specialty :) Good way to keep the man happy too. yeah right....and then women complain that they spend all the time in a kitchen cooking for him.... why is it about domination? can it be a balance there? yes, it's hard, but not imposible...!

moonmustangThreads: 2 Posts: 50 Joined: Oct 21, 07	Nov 2, 07, 16:20 / #
Quoting: polishgirltx why is it about domination? Personally the word "dominate" doesn't quite work - but for both people to have their strenghts is good I think.

pamlarougeThreads: 4 Posts: 68 Joined: Oct 27, 07	Nov 2, 07, 17:03 / #
Quoting: moonmustang but for both people to have their strenghts is good I think. I second that! :)

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Nov 5, 07, 08:22 / #
LOL. Well I just meant be the boss in the kitchen, but obviously its a personal preference and if your man is a better cook, then let him do it. I prefer to do the cooking, but I dont mind if he wants to get involved in washing up... and the bedroom obviously speaks for itself :)

lii	Nov 8, 07, 07:29 / #
Me again, Lii is back ;-) I'm kind of sad about my situation, but glad to hear I'm not the only one.... To summarize: I wrote another mail to "my" polish guy (which isn't going to be mine) just to invite him to a party with some friends, and inviting his friends as well... he is out of town now, but anyway we will see how he reacts, .... as I've been told here... better to try and stay friends.... And well, I'm thinking a lot about giving the "other" one another chance, people on this forum have admitted regreting later of giving up someone just because the first impressions weren't right (or good or too "nerdy").... So I might send him a mail to do something together, with some other friends...or so..... why is it so complicated? me loving the "wrong" one and the "wrong" one loving me... I guess someone out there made a small mistake (haha)

LucyndaThreads: 4 Posts: 89 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Nov 8, 07, 12:19 / #
No one made a mistake, sweetie. It's just life..... I think you're smart to get to know the "nerdy" one. You never know....sometimes chemistry hits when you least expect it. And at least you may end up having a good friend. It seems men get to do the choosing, but we women are more adaptable. I sometimes feel I could fall in love with anyone if I put my mind to it -- don't you? :)

moonmustangThreads: 2 Posts: 50 Joined: Oct 21, 07	Edited by: moonmustang Nov 8, 07, 18:15 / #
Quoting: Lucynda t seems men get to do the choosing, but we women are more adaptable. I sometimes feel I could fall in love with anyone if I put my mind to it -- don't you? :) See the trick is to choose what you want before you start looking, then no matter what comes along you know what makes you happy and what won't. I did it backwards for most of my life - which I now realize isn't the way to true, passionate, inspired love. Men may pursue us, but regardless of who pursues who if you aren't into them and they don't move you - don't settle. :-)

pamlarougeThreads: 4 Posts: 68 Joined: Oct 27, 07	Nov 8, 07, 23:35 / #
Quoting: moonmustang don't settle. :-) So true! Be strong girls, there's one out there for everybody :)

liii	Nov 15, 07, 02:26 / #
Quoting: Lucynda I think you're smart to get to know the "nerdy" one. You never know....sometimes chemistry hits when you least expect it. And at least you may end up having a good friend. well, yesterday was my birthday and he sent me a postcard front: a shy bear holding a letter and some flowers inside: "very happy birthday especially for you because your a nice fun girl" Quoting: Lucynda I sometimes feel I could fall in love with anyone if I put my mind to it -- don't you? :) I have to think about that.... Do you really think so??

ebdppThreads: - Posts: 14 Joined: Oct 30, 07	Nov 15, 07, 02:36 / #
Quoting: liii well, yesterday was my birthday and he sent me a postcard front: a shy bear holding a letter and some flowers inside: "very happy birthday especially for you because your a nice fun girl" Was this from the nerdy or from the Polish? if it was from the nerdy, it's always nice to have someone who likes you so much, take him as a friend, you never know what's gonna happen in the future; just give him a chance.

ebdppThreads: - Posts: 14 Joined: Oct 30, 07	Nov 15, 07, 02:38 / #
Quoting: liii well, yesterday was my birthday HAPPY BIRTHDAY liiii

liii	Nov 15, 07, 04:20 / #
Quoting: ebdpp Was this from the nerdy or from the Polish? the "nerdy" one ;-) although if i keep calling him like that i don't know if i wil ever like him Quoting: ebdpp just give him a chance. how? I don't know how te react...

moonmustangThreads: 2 Posts: 50 Joined: Oct 21, 07	Edited by: moonmustang Nov 15, 07, 06:30 / #
Quoting: liii although if i keep calling him like that i don't know if i wil ever like him You probably won't because you will have painted a frame of reference around him that is less than desirable most likely. One a completely separate note from my earlier thread comments, liii like you I wrote the guy I had wanted to know better and it was flatly received. However 3 days afterwards, I met a great Polish guy from Warsaw (to exchange learning Polish) and we've talked just about every day since. :) And the language trade is the least of our conversations and interest. Ironic how things can be!!

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