trying to understand a polish girl in ny

Quoting: nyc30m

hey i am a guy in us whos been seeing a great girl for about 6 weeks. we spend alot of time together well as much as our schedules allow. any way i find it dificult to figure out what she's thinking sometimes.

so we are suppose to know what she is thinking and we dont even know her?
anyone with esp please step forward :) lol

I'm guessing this is a cultural thing. i would appreciate to hear from some of the females or anyone who could clue me in to the standards of dating a polish girl in america

nyc30m	May 17, 07, 22:35 / #
hey i am a guy in us whos been seeing a great girl for about 6 weeks. we spend alot of time together well as much as our schedules allow. any way i find it dificult to figure out what she's thinking sometimes. I'm guessing this is a cultural thing. i would appreciate to hear from some of the females or anyone who could clue me in to the standards of dating a polish girl in america

GoonieThreads: 10 Posts: 297 Joined: Mar 6, 07	May 17, 07, 22:41 / #
the polish girl that i met seems to be really really open... so i have no idea. i tend to think all nationalities are the same, depends on the person. Some are more closed off than others... be upfront with her. just gotta grow some balls and tell her like it is :)

nyc30m	May 17, 07, 22:45 / #
maybe it isnt a nationality thing but just i think of her differently then the other women i have been with. who knowws

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,144 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER	May 17, 07, 23:03 / #
Hello NYC Guy, Instead of trying to understand what your girlfriend is thinking, trying listening and looking at her emotions closely. The language of love transcends all language barriers. When my parents met my mother didn't speak a word of English. However, my father won her heart with his genuine, sincere charm and passion. A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

GoonieThreads: 10 Posts: 297 Joined: Mar 6, 07	May 17, 07, 23:12 / #
Quoting: beckski However, my father won her heart with his genuine, sincere charm and passion. beautiful!!! that's the way it's done

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,833 Joined: Dec 23, 06	May 17, 07, 23:19 / #
Why can't you just ask her?

Patrycja19Threads: 79 Posts: 3,972 Joined: Oct 31, 06	May 17, 07, 23:20 / #
Quoting: nyc30m hey i am a guy in us whos been seeing a great girl for about 6 weeks. we spend alot of time together well as much as our schedules allow. any way i find it dificult to figure out what she's thinking sometimes. so we are suppose to know what she is thinking and we dont even know her? anyone with esp please step forward :) lol I'm guessing this is a cultural thing. i would appreciate to hear from some of the females or anyone who could clue me in to the standards of dating a polish girl in america Maybe she is wondering as well, but I would think the gentleman part of you could figure that out. your just dating, so going out like any date and taking in a movie, dinner, or out to the club.. but the only way you will know is if you ask.. simple.. be upfront and ask what she likes to do, or if you covered that area and are talking about other areas ( be a gentleman). if your talking about what she is thinking in terms of your relationship. well isnt that up to the man to say hey, I really really like you alot, more then I thought, its easy to feel comfortable around you, I would really like to be more exclusive , the two of us. when were not together I feel kinda lost, and I just enjoy your company, and would like to see you more and become gf/bf. if that is ok with you, i really feel more and just wanted to know how you felt. ( be a man) dont be scared of rejection. if you made it past 6 weeks, she must really like you , cause the first date is the most impressionable. imho

nyc30m	May 17, 07, 23:35 / #
guess im wondering along these lines... i been out with girls and after 2 dates they think youre married to them lol. but i know it is different in each case which makes this a very stupid questuion

Patrycja19Threads: 79 Posts: 3,972 Joined: Oct 31, 06	May 18, 07, 00:01 / #
Quoting: nyc30m guess im wondering along these lines... i been out with girls and after 2 dates they think youre married to them lol. but i know it is different in each case which makes this a very stupid questuion well, usually in cases like that, its because you have falsely said something which probably put them in that emotion. I am sorry to be so blunt, but I am one of those watch the crowd, listen to whats going on around me type gals,and I see it all happen to often when the guy says to a girl, yes I think your nice, and something could happen, your making huge mistakes by saying that. some say it to get the girl to sleep with them making them think that they will be a item, and keep saying it till the heat/pressure is on then the man runs for cover and its his fault that this occured because he wasnt honest from the beginning. and if you dont say anything, it also puts a girl into a frenzy because they need to know what they mean to you. if you want just dating. then just date! if you want a more exclusive, then say it, if your intentions are sex only and you tell a girl what she wants to hear, your diggin your own grave.. my best advice is to be honest. if your looking for something else, then tell her, I am open to your dating other people. or tell her the other. its up to both of you really I dont know how you cant know anything at this point really since its been 6 weeks.

hiwrvhioqewvgj	May 18, 07, 16:42 / #
thought i might get more input lol