how do you tell a polish guy he's sexy??

Quoting: Hmmm

If my girlfriend would tell me "Jesteś seksowny" I'd be as pleased a dog licking a nut. :) Men like to hear that they're paramount. So phrases like "No one gets my motor running like the way you do, tiger!" or "You're the only god that's worshipped in this temple"... puts a man on top of the clan. Oh he'd clear the trash and do the dishes for you!!!

But avoid any comparision. Even if you're pitching him against himself. So words like "I'd clone you and do you both" or "I wish I had an island full of guys like you" are a no-no. It's the perfect recipe for a night with the boys!

natalieThreads: 1 Posts: 5 Joined: Oct 22, 07	Oct 22, 07, 11:12 / #
when i tell him i think he is sexy he tells me not to say that because it's like saying he is gay!!! so what do you say instead? could you tell me in english and polish please :-) thanks

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 11:15 / #
You could compare him to me. That would flatter him. Nah... I'm just teasing you natalie. :))) It's been a happy day so far and I'm cruising... If I think of something meaningful I'll post it up for you.

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 11:17 / #
Quoting: natalie when i tell him i think he is sexy he tells me not to say that because it's like saying he is gay!!! so what do you say instead? could you tell me in english and polish please :-) thanks maybe tell him that he is hot! it always works... :) or just show him how sexy he is... ;P

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 11:38 / #
If he's a doctor: You're the cure that heals me. If he's a pilot: You're the radar that guides me. If he's a banker: You're the deposit I'll guard with my life. If he's a teacher: You're the thesis I want to work on tonight. If he's a student: Get back to your room and study, twit! Nice?

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 22, 07, 11:40 / #
http://www.polishforums.com/caring_loving_words_polish-17_4885_0.html

natalieThreads: 1 Posts: 5 Joined: Oct 22, 07	Edited by: natalie Oct 22, 07, 12:45 / #
there really good how about a baker and a manager?

natalieThreads: 1 Posts: 5 Joined: Oct 22, 07	Oct 22, 07, 12:58 / #
thanks for that plk123 theres some really good things on there ;-)

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Oct 22, 07, 13:01 / #
yeah, i thought it was related

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 13:03 / #
Quoting: natalie how about a baker and a manager? Let me see... If he's a baker: You're the only dough I'll ever knead. I'd be broke without you! (It's a play on words: dough = money, knead = need) If he's a manager: Hey baby, I want to manage your firm. (naughty, naughty)

natalieThreads: 1 Posts: 5 Joined: Oct 22, 07	Oct 22, 07, 13:27 / #
there brilliant lol thanks your a star ;-)

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 13:42 / #
Quoting: z_darius One could also add: I can also take dictation. Ha ha ha. Yeah. Good one! :D

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Edited by: z_darius Oct 22, 07, 13:50 / #
you can praise his weapons and invite him to a shooting range to see his skills

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 13:53 / #
Quoting: z_darius you can praise his weapons and invite him to a shooting range to see his skills hehe.... i didn't know that it's how i supposed to talk to guys.... i need to learn this language... ;p

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	Oct 22, 07, 13:56 / #
nah dont talk to them like that, it will just give their egos too much of a boost. dont want that :P

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 13:34 / #
Quoting: Hmmm If he's a manager: Hey baby, I want to manage your firm. One could also add: I can also take dictation.

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	Oct 22, 07, 13:49 / #
Hmmm, what to say if he's a soldier??

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Edited by: z_darius Oct 22, 07, 14:03 / #
Quoting: JustysiaS nah dont talk to them like that, it will just give their egos too much of a boost. well, if he's a good soldier then eventually you may have to wave a white flag. If you don't have a white flag, be creative and wave whatever comes handy at the spur of the moment ;-)

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	Oct 22, 07, 14:08 / #
well its too late now cos we're already engaged so its a white flag for me all the way, i surrender. i was just curious about all those chat up lines hmmm was feeding us on here.

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 14:10 / #
but seriously! can we just tell you strait that you are sexy or we really need to do it the other way?

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Edited by: z_darius Oct 22, 07, 14:15 / #
Quoting: polishgirltx but seriously! can we just tell you strait that you are sexy or we really need to do it the other way? Sure I can. But there are two issues here: - you never met me :D - I've lived outside Poland long enough to not be "offended" by the word sexy OK, seriously, I kinda have the same problem when a woman tells me I'm sexy, or even handsome. I am handsome (my mom told me 20 years ago, so I know). How about telling him he's manly. That kinda says he's sexy without much of what he perceives as "gay undertones" Some Amercian women told me that and it was acceptable to me :)

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 14:18 / #
Quoting: z_darius (my mom told me 20 years ago, so I know). lol....aaaahhhh that's so sweet.... :) Quoting: z_darius How about telling him he's manly. That kinda says he's sexy without much of what he perceives as "gay undertones" Some Amercian women told me that and it was acceptable to me :) good to know, thanks z_d...:)

_Sofi_	Oct 22, 07, 14:23 / #
Quoting: z_darius OK, seriously, I kinda have the same problem when a woman tells me I'm sexy, or even handsome Why lol? A Polish guy, Sebastion, at work on Thursday was asking what I thought of his friend, Mateusz. I said he was mad. He said "But he is handsome" and I presumed there was a question mark more than one was intoned, for it was more like a statement followed by waiting for an answer. He is very right, the answer, if I'd given it there and then, would have been that Mateusz is the nicest looking guy I've ever met (I won't say 'ever seen' because I have seen Jared Leto). Point is, he didn't seem to think it would be anything less than a compliment to his friend if I thought he was handsome.

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 14:25 / #
Quoting: polishgirltx but seriously! can we just tell you strait that you are sexy or we really need to do it the other way? If my girlfriend would tell me "Jesteś seksowny" I'd be as pleased a dog licking a nut. :) Men like to hear that they're paramount. So phrases like "No one gets my motor running like the way you do, tiger!" or "You're the only god that's worshipped in this temple"... puts a man on top of the clan. Oh he'd clear the trash and do the dishes for you!!! But avoid any comparision. Even if you're pitching him against himself. So words like "I'd clone you and do you both" or "I wish I had an island full of guys like you" are a no-no. It's the perfect recipe for a night with the boys!

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 14:28 / #
Quoting: Hmmm If my girlfriend would tell me "Jesteś seksowny" I'd be as pleased a dog licking a nut. :) Men like to hear that they're paramount. So phrases like "No one gets my motor running like the way you do, tiger!" or "You're the only god that's worshipped in this temple"... puts a man on top of the clan. Oh he'd clear the trash and do the dishes for you!!! But avoid any comparision. Even if you're pitching him against himself. So words like "I'd clone you and do you both" or "I wish I had an island full of guys like you" are a no-no. It's the perfect recipe for a night with the boys! hmmm.... intersting....

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 14:30 / #
Quoting: _Sofi_ Point is, he didn't seem to think it would be anything less than a compliment to his friend if I thought he was handsome. It's not about the meaning of the word. I never felt uncomfortable hearing a girl (or even stating myself) that some guy is handsome. In general, I feel rather uncomfortable receiving that kind of praises, and I gather many other guys may feel the same way.

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 14:34 / #
Quoting: natalie how do you tell a polish guy he's sexy?? ok, so the answer is you do not say because they don't like it :D j/k ?;)

_Sofi_	Oct 22, 07, 14:37 / #
I see... Same with some girls then. I feel uncomfortable hearing it, but take the compliment all the same. There are more embarassing things I've heard than being called sexy though.

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 14:39 / #
Quoting: polishgirltx ok, so the answer is you do not say because they don't like it :D Nah, you can still convey the meaning, but perhaps by saying what is the effect of his presence. If "sexy" means what I think it does, then why not kill two birds with one stone: "you turn me on" means you think the fella is sexy, and at the same time you declare your full combat readiness ;)

polishgirltx	Oct 22, 07, 14:42 / #
Quoting: z_darius "you turn me on" yes, it's very useful... :)

HmmmThreads: 1 Posts: 91 Joined: Sep 18, 07	Oct 22, 07, 14:42 / #
Quoting: z_darius "you turn me on" means you think the fella is sexy, and at the same time you declare your full combat readiness ;) Spoken like a true hunter! Kudos to you, fellowman!