I talked to her about it and apologised for reading it... She was a bit pissed off about me reading it but it was the right thing to do.
Turns out he says it to ALL the polish girls working there whether they are Piekna or not so thats why she does not think its a big deal, if it was anything else or he was doing anything she considered flirting or trying it on she would nip it in the bud....
When his GF calls him he always says Kochaine or Sexy so Piekna is just the word he uses for all the polish girls in work as a term of endearment.
so lesson is trust your other half to make the right choice... You also have to factor in my Finace's personality and history in which she has never in her life cheated on anyone :)
Instead talking to us about this problem talk to her and don't be afraid that she might get mad at you, that is how bad thing happen it stars with flirting and it goes to touching, kissing and sex
Sorry man, I don't agree with this, no one can make someone cheat, if they love you and want to be with you it shouldnt matter what the hell anyone says to them they should be the one to say no and stop it going further, I can't control anyone and neither can you, if someone wants to cheat they will cheat.
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