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VenuSThreads: 1
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Joined: Jun 20, 08 		Edited by: VenuS   Jun 20, 08, 14:10 /  #
I found out last night.
We have been together a few months now.
We live together a few weeks.
I'm Polish, he's Slovak. We live in the USA.
Last night, he said he can't hide anymore.
He showed me his make-up, his, skirts, high heels, red boots, wigs etc.
He said that he's not gay, but he likes to wear women's clothes and go out.
He's been always shaving his legs and arms, but I didn't think it's a wrong thing. I like his smooth skin.

I was shocked.
I am shocked.
I moved out to my friend and told him that I don't know what to do and I need time to think about that.

I don't know.
The picture of my perfect manly man is gone. I love him. But can I live with that?
LondonChickThreads: 43
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I guess this will have come as a bit of a shock and it might take a while to get your head round things, but if you can come to terms with the fact that this is just "something that he's into" then there's no reason why you can't continue the relationship as before.

Search google - lots of cross-dressing / TV forums and discussion boards for cross-dressers and their other halves.

VenuS:
I'm Polish, he's Slovak. We live in the USA.


I guess this point is irrelevant.
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 		Edited by: southern   Jun 20, 08, 14:16 /  #
VenuS:
He said that he's not gay, but he likes to wear women's clothes and go out.


He is a transvestite.

VenuS:
He's been always shaving his legs and arms, but I didn't think it's a wrong thing. I like his smooth skin.


You thought he shaved them for you.Such a naivety.

VenuS:
I moved out to my friend and told him that I don't know what to do and I need time to think about that.


You can lend him your clothes and get his.
Or you can let him wear only maxi skirts and not mini.And help him in shaving his legs.
wildroverThreads: 180
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He is a transvestite , and probably not gay.....not easy to accept , but do try , and don,t lose a good relationship because of this....If he has trusted you enough to tell you , then he thinks a lot of you.....But do tell him to buy his own undies and dresses....or i can send him some of mine.....
southernThreads: 116
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And do not allow him to use your used underwear for sniffing.
VenuSThreads: 1
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Joined: Jun 20, 08 		  Jun 20, 08, 14:28 /  #
I'm searching about that all night and day.
Is it really naive to like when your man is shaved?
He is a transvestite-That is what I was afraid to hear.
He still is my friend, but I look at him differently. Not like at a man.
LondonChickThreads: 43
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VenuS:
He is a transvestite-That is what I was afraid to hear.



Would it be any different if he had a foot / bondage / smoking fettish?
wildroverThreads: 180
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VenuS:
but I look at him differently. Not like at a man.


A bit sad...but he will find somebody who accepts who he is....i don,t think its such a big deal really...there are worse things he could be.....
WroclawThreads: 77
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VenuS:
He is a transvestite-That is what I was afraid to hear.


But only someone who trusts you would tell you.


VenuS:
He still is my friend, but I look at him differently.


Stay with him for the time being. Life is a learning experience.
FranekThreads: 21
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AWW! Come on.. The guy is a sicko! He thinks its Christmas and enjoys his GAY apparel. RUN BABY RUN. While you still have a chance
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Joined: Mar 10, 08 		Edited by: SeanBM   Jun 20, 08, 14:47 /  #
Funny how women can wear all of men's clothes and it is socially excepted, but not visa versa.
osiolThreads: 59
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Franek:
GAY apparel

Does that mean all women are lesbians?
wildroverThreads: 180
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Franek:
RUN. While you still have a chance


But whatever you do...don,t run to somebody like Franek....the ones that shout the loudest against it...well they are trying everso hard to hide something.....
osiolThreads: 59
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Have any males here honestly, truthfully never tried...
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wildrover:
hide something.....

you reckon a closet case? I recon he's just starved of attention, but hey who really cares, ha ha ha.
I am trying to put my self in VenuS's shoes (oh the wit) and i can't cause women wear mens clothes.
VenuS does your BF just do this in private? have you seen him dressed up? I think it is something you can work out, it is not as if it does anyone the slightest biy of harm.
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VenuS:
He is a transvestite-That is what I was afraid to hear.


Most important is that he is a Slovak.
LondonChickThreads: 43
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SeanBM:
I am trying to put my self in VenuS's shoes


:D
southernThreads: 116
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SeanBM:
I am trying to put my self in VenuS's shoes


Do you prefer low heels?
I do not think her bf can use her shoes.
osiolThreads: 59
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Joined: Jul 25, 07 		Edited by: osiol   Jun 20, 08, 15:05 /  #
Imagine what a non-story it would be if a woman was wearing her boyfriend's clothes. Society allows women to wear a far more varied, interesting selection of clothes, whereas men are much more confined in their choices. No wonder so many women take hours trying to choose what to wear.

southern:
I do not think her bf can use her shoes.

He might have small feet, but even if this case, I imagine heels are not an easy thing to adapt to without plenty of practice.
FranekThreads: 21
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osiol:
Does that mean all women are lesbians?



It probably would if they wore men's clothes.. WE CALL THEM DYKES
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Franek:
It probably would if they wore men's clothes.. WE CALL THEM DYKES

Where do you live? Do all the ladies wear skirts and ride their horses side-saddle?
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osiol:
He might have small feet,


Or he might cut his nails.
FranekThreads: 21
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wildrover:
But whatever you do...don,t run to somebody like Franek....the ones that shout the loudest against it...well they are trying everso hard to hide something.....


Jesus Chri** this whole place is sick
LondonChickThreads: 43
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Franek:
Jesus Chri** this whole place is sick


You're referring to your house, right?
FranekThreads: 21
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LondonChick:
You're referring to your house, right?


I come to the conclusion that you all are perveted
LondonChickThreads: 43
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Franek:
I come to the conclusion that you all are perveted



It took me a while to figure out how to type while wearing a gimp suit, but I eventually got the hang of it.
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Franek:
I come to the conclusion that you all are perveted

some more than others.
come on Franek, what's the big deal?
ha ha ha LondonChick
shewolfThreads: 5
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VenuS:
The picture of my perfect manly man is gone. I love him. But can I live with that?


was he keeping this a secret for months? was he making you believe something about him that wasn't true? the way I see it, he should have told you from the start. the secrets were not fair to you.
osiolThreads: 59
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shewolf:
he should have told you from the start.

When should he have told her? When he first bought her a drink and looked into her eyes? Or maybe that was too late. Perhaps when they first glanced in eachothers' directions across a crowded room.

shewolf:
was he making you believe something about him that wasn't true?

He might not have explicitly lied. No-one tells their partners of everything they have ever done. He might have been fighting against his transvestite tendencies and hoping it to be a thing of the past. Or maybe it was something he only developed more recently.

Anyway, I understand it could be enough to shock the poor lady into becoming a lesbian, which would be even more confusing for all concerned, particularly when she takes all of his more manly looking clothes away from him.
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osiol:
He might have been fighting against his transvestite tendencies and hoping it to be a thing of the past.


She said he's been shaving his body since she's known him. And he said he couldn't hide his secret anymore. He's been doing this for awhile I think. The truth should come out as soon as it looks like there's going to be a second date. .
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