In love with a Polish teacher...

For about a year now I've been interested in a Polish teacher at my school. He knows how I feel and ever since I've told him, he seems to be warming up to me more and more. I write him mini love notes and he's been keeping them all. He has all of them in a stack in front of his keyboard. Only thing is...he's married...with children. I don't want to be a homewrecker, but I can't get over him. I believe he likes me in return, but at the same time its hard to read him. I would like to wait until I graduate to 'make a move' but my question is, should I make a move?

no, don't mess with a married man otherwise you are the HOMEWRECKER that you claim you don't want to be.

And if he comes on to me?

well lets see, he comes on to you, gets laid and goes home to his family.
remember what goes around comes around. it be a Mfer that somewhere in the future one of your B/Fs or husband cheats on you.

still don't.. you don't need those kind of troubles.. plus your conscience will catch up to you eventually. there are plenty fish in the sea without going for those already in someone else's net.

he may come on to you now since you basically approve of it... and who knows what you wrote him.. besides your moves can/will jepeordise this man's career.

Meh, it's a complicated relationship we have.

And about his career, I would only really, REALLY start to put the moves on after I graduate (if there was still any connection) and then it wouldn't be a crime to do things. I'm of legal age here. I've studied teacher-student relationships and I know not to do anything until after graduation.

you really shouldn't be having any kind of relathionships with any teacher. study instead.

True.

I'm just a lust ridden female. :[

you dont have a relationship.

I think I would know what we have considering I've been around the man everyday for over a year.

the boys are right... it's not a relationship... run away... you can do better....

-sadness ensues-

Well, I honestly don't want an ongoing sexual relationship. Not even sex to be blunt. It be nice, yes, but not needed. A chance to have dinner together with or without his wife would be awesome.

i'm sorry....

not not with this guy...

there is plenty of fish.... :)

Blah, should be quite a challenge weaning myself off of this man now :D

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now go shake it somewhere more appropriate then school

How many licks does it take to get to the center!?!?

Answer me this - Why does the teacher we've been discussing like to be referred to as 'My Lord' (spelling is wrong on that) and not Sir? He's a strange Polish man.

perv?

weird....run girl... :)

Hahahahaha, I got a great laugh from those last 2 posts.

He's harmless, guys. (In a non sexual way)

he seems so... watch out though.

He is. You can believe me or not. I don't lie :D

I'll watch my back. Or at least try to.

you may not lie but you may not really know either. study then ho it up later. ;)

he has two women...he is going to hurt somebody sooner or later....

Lawl! I don't want to 'ho it up.' He doesn't like agressive women who dress like sluts.

He doesn't have 2 women. Just his wife :P

you r #2 and who knows how many others there may be.. really..

Like I said, I know this man well. He has no problem telling me of his personal life.

I even made him Raspberry muffins for his birthday :D

i think the answer is simple...

if you wanted to hear something different...i'm sorry....

1 year is nothing.. you barely know this teacher.

..werd

I do appreciate all the answers and comments though :]

good luck.. keep us posted.