Polish girlfriend and birth control!

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m_26	Dec 15, 08, 13:01 / #
My Polish gf and I have sex regularly. We have never used a condom or brought up the discussion of birth control.. I don't think she minds the fact that she might get pregnant, I think she thinks I will marry her if she does. I have been pulling out, but I wanted to know if I will more or less be forced to marry her if some of my swimmers happens to make it in there? I doubt she's on birth control. Do you think she'd be willing to get on something if I talked to her about it?

Lodz_The_BoatThreads: 58 Posts: 2,314 Joined: Sep 7, 08	Dec 15, 08, 13:05 / #
Such messeges make me realise how pungent some people can be. The class of their moral? Or the level of it... I wonder. Whatever it is, maybe I shouldn't have written on this thread. Still could wonder how someone can be like you. And yes, there are many like you. I am happy that not all are like you...

SvenskiThreads: 3 Posts: 212 Joined: Mar 20, 08	Edited by: Svenski Dec 15, 08, 13:05 / #
How the heck are we supposed to know what she thinks? lol ..Ask her yourself

Shawn_H	Dec 15, 08, 13:08 / #
If she was anything but Polish, you could get away with it. But since she is Polish, the rule clearly states that you must marry. Sorry, no wiggle room there. m_26: Do you think she'd be willing to get on something if I talked to her about it? Why bother talking. Just get a vasectomy, and be done with it.

polishgirltx	Edited by: polishgirltx Dec 15, 08, 13:08 / #
m_26: Do you think she'd be willing to get on something if I talked to her about it? and you don't talk about that? are you 12 or what?

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 [Moderator]	Edited by: Wroclaw Dec 15, 08, 13:14 / #
m_26, I was going to write a long, level headed reply, but your post simply shows how stupid people can be. No-one can force you to get married, but legal action can force you to pay for any child's upkeep. Talk to her now, if you have any sense.

m_26	Dec 15, 08, 13:14 / #
Getting a vasectomy isn't an option- I'm not opposed to kids and want to have some eventually. I'm also not opposed to the idea of her getting pregnant or even marrying her if necessary, I just feel it might be a bit early (for her) because we've been dating for 8 months and she's only 19 (I'm 26). But hey, if I knock her up I can deal with the consequences.

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 [Moderator]	Dec 15, 08, 13:20 / #
m_26: I'm also not opposed to the idea of her getting pregnant So you are not thinking of her future. m_26: marrying her if necessary, 'necessary' is not a reason for marriage.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Dec 15, 08, 13:26 / #
Knock her up, that's pretty crude. If I asked my fiancee if she wanted to be 'knocked up', I think she'd have a few words in my ear, and a few expletives. This is exactly the kind of reprobate that walks into 5 marriages and comes out with 5 divorces. Have some respect for the feelings of your partner. She is a teenager, lead by example and make her feel secure.

loco polacoThreads: 3 Posts: 421 Joined: Aug 5, 08	Dec 15, 08, 13:33 / #
why bother talking.. nothing will happen. i guarantee it. :D :D

polishgirltx	Dec 15, 08, 13:36 / #
Shawn_H: It is virtually painless. and reversible...

m_26	Dec 15, 08, 13:38 / #
ok I may have come off a little crude in my earlier posts.. We do love each other and I am fully prepared to provide for her and the baby if that was to happen. And I do plan on marrying her in the future.. By "if necessary" I meant if she was to get pregnant and thus require marriage sooner than anticipated.. which is fine. And no I wouldn't say "knocked up" if talking to her. Besides pulling out has worked fine so far.

Shawn_H	Dec 15, 08, 13:45 / #
Seanus: you don't want to be playing Russian roulette on that one Seanus, m-26's GF is Polish, not Russian. ;-)

moonlightThreads: 7 Posts: 115 Joined: Nov 10, 08	Dec 15, 08, 14:06 / #
Not using any contraception........ you could end up with more than a pregnant girlfriend. There are other methods apart from her "getting on something"

Shawn_H	Dec 15, 08, 13:34 / #
Wroclaw: So you are not thinking of her future. Seanus: 'necessary' is not a reason for marriage. Well said Wroc. m_26: Getting a vasectomy isn't an option Please do society in general a favour. It is virtually painless.

Shawn_H	Edited by: Shawn_H Dec 15, 08, 13:37 / #
polishgirltx: and reversible... For a fee. The vasectomy is covered here in Ontario, but the reversal is not.

loco polacoThreads: 3 Posts: 421 Joined: Aug 5, 08	Dec 15, 08, 13:37 / #
Shawn_H: For a fee. cheaper then a kid, no?

KrakowiankaThreads: 2 Posts: 272 Joined: Oct 16, 08	Dec 15, 08, 13:41 / #
You can't get free milk without buying the cow, its a law in Poland. But in all seriousness, M_26 you are pretty stupid to talk about your girl the way you do, and also to bring this to a forum versus talking to her. She must also be a stupid 19yr old to be letting you get away with it.

Shawn_H	Edited by: Shawn_H Dec 15, 08, 13:41 / #
loco polaco: cheaper then a kid, no? Unlike vasectomy, vasectomy reversal is not usually covered by medical plans. However we strongly recommend checking on your medical coverage first. The vasectomy reversal cost is therefore considered an elective, fee-for-service procedure. It is a day surgery, requiring a properly equipped operating room, an appropriate anesthetic, an operating microscope and diagnosic lab equipment (for evaluating fluid specimens). The total cost of a vasectomy reversal can range somewhere between $4,000 to $20,000, all inclusive. In the United States, vasectomy reversal prices, on average are US$10,000. In Canada the average vasectomy reversal cost will be CAN$5,000, all inclusive. Linky thingy. Good thing I live in Canada, huh? I wonder if the all inclusive plan has an ocean view, or a gene pool view.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Dec 15, 08, 13:43 / #
Trust me, you don't want to be playing Russian roulette on that one. If you have a conscience, you will get into a panic if you feel that you impregnated her without meaning to do so. You can steer it away from that.

SwiteziankaThreads: - Posts: 525 Joined: Jun 17, 08	Dec 15, 08, 14:06 / #
m_26: ok I may have come off a little crude in my earlier posts.. Crude or not, never mind the language. You have had sex with a girl for some time and you haven't even discussed the contraception issue. That is the worst thing. We do love each other and I am fully prepared to provide for her and the baby if that was to happen. I beg to differ. You are not even fully prepared to have sex. You know, sex is an adult thing, not some game for kids who don't see any problem with putting a teenager at a risk of being pregnant. If you're not mature enough to date a girl, I doubt if you're mature enough to be a father. Besides pulling out has worked fine so far. I heard one doctor saying that "pulling out" is a method that produced half of Poland's population...

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	Dec 15, 08, 14:52 / #
this is so crazy that i almost feel like laughing. were you both virgins or something when you got together, have you had no sex education, do you not know where babies come from? it's just a matter of time till you go 'oops i didn't pull out early enough' and boom, you're both way too immature and careless to take care of a child. besides, you produce sperm during the intercourse as well, but you're probably not aware of that either. what a silly goose your girlfriend is, letting you use her like that with no contraception, risking STD's and an unwanted, unplanned pregnancy. all i can say is shame on both of you, especially you cos you're older and you should take care of that girl, not take advantage of her and keep your fingers crossed that she doesn't get pregnant. how bloody foolish. idiots!

noimmigration	Dec 15, 08, 14:54 / #
Abortion is a good form of birth control. Beats condoms anyday.

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	Dec 15, 08, 15:00 / #
you must be a result of an abortion gone wrong then

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07	Dec 15, 08, 15:09 / #
noimmigration: Abortion is a good form of birth control So is being too stupid to attract a girlfriend in the first place....

loco polacoThreads: 3 Posts: 421 Joined: Aug 5, 08	Edited by: loco polaco Dec 15, 08, 15:17 / #
wildrover: So is being too stupid to attract a girlfriend in the first place.... why weigh oneself with a g/f if the polish whores are creme de la creme? ;) :D :D

McCoyThreads: 46 Posts: 1,756 Joined: Jul 3, 08	Dec 15, 08, 15:23 / #
m_26: We have never used a condom start using, stupidity could be hereditary

moonlightThreads: 7 Posts: 115 Joined: Nov 10, 08	Dec 15, 08, 15:26 / #
noimmigration: Abortion is a good form of birth control. Abortion is not a form of birth control!!!! It beats condoms???? what, is it painful and tramatic to wear a condom???

polishgirltx	Dec 15, 08, 15:27 / #
moonlight: what, is it painful and tramatic to wear a condom??? no, they don't make them in x-small sizes... ;)

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Dec 15, 08, 15:31 / #
Thank God that nobody has hit on the idea of a condom fitting room.