Why are Polish girls so emotional

dxx:

This is a serious question,
If I compare Polish girls to other girls they are very emotional/dramatical.
If you do or say something, they always reflect it on themselves, after which you have to do a whole explanation to prove it was not about them or against them.
Phrases like "so you prefer that over me" or "the whole world is against me" are not rare in these cases.
Is there any approach in which you can avoid getting into situations like this?
And please dont tell me "stay single" since this is kind of a hard problem to overcome if you are not used to dealing with similar situations.

dxxThreads: 17 Posts: 118 Joined: Jul 22, 08	Nov 26, 08, 06:47 / #
This is a serious question, If I compare Polish girls to other girls they are very emotional/dramatical. If you do or say something, they always reflect it on themselves, after which you have to do a whole explanation to prove it was not about them or against them. Phrases like "so you prefer that over me" or "the whole world is against me" are not rare in these cases. Is there any approach in which you can avoid getting into situations like this? And please dont tell me "stay single" since this is kind of a hard problem to overcome if you are not used to dealing with similar situations.

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Nov 26, 08, 06:54 / #
insecurity and self obsession are traits that are not limited to Polish girls.. sounds like you are attracted to high maintenance babes.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Nov 26, 08, 17:21 / #
sounds to me like maybe you ought to stick with guys.

polishgirltx	Edited by: polishgirltx Nov 26, 08, 17:59 / #
<div class="quoting">dxx: Why are Polish girls so emotional</div> just moody... not big of a deal... it applies to women in general...

CheeryThreads: 27 Posts: 216 Joined: Nov 17, 08	Nov 26, 08, 18:55 / #
My mother sure was like that.. She'd cry over small things... then my dad would bash my face in..

EraAtlantiaThreads: 3 Posts: 128 Joined: Sep 3, 08	Nov 26, 08, 20:07 / #
Maybe in relationships, on the exterior i find many polish women to be very unemotional, lifeless and serious most of the time. They have very little body language which kind of makes me uneasy as i'm use to gestures and movement during conversation...i feel a thread coming on...

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Nov 26, 08, 20:21 / #
EraAtlantia: Maybe in relationships, on the exterior i find many polish women to be very unemotional, lifeless and serious most of the time. They have very little body language which kind of makes me uneasy as i'm use to gestures and movement during conversation...i feel a thread coming on... the exact opposite intimidates them.

EraAtlantiaThreads: 3 Posts: 128 Joined: Sep 3, 08	Nov 26, 08, 21:28 / #
plk123: the exact opposite intimidates them. Absolutely true, they find displaying of emotions to be a bit much. I am not saying they are all this way, but the majority that i have experienced are in varying degrees pretty restrained, bottled and unemotional. And that lack of flow, not language but that feeling of somehow the conversation is becoming a needless dispute or a bickering even though you've just been having a laugh, really, what the f*ck is that all about????

milina2000Threads: 1 Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 21, 08	Nov 27, 08, 20:08 / #
I aggree, insecurity and self obsession are traits that are not limited to just Polish girls. Russian and French girls are just as bad, in fact on the whole the majority of girls and I should be saying women are just the same. I live with a Polish woman, and only tonight just before I went out to work she asked me, "so my mum coming over for xmas is my fault!" NO thats not what I said, I said that if you mum wasn't coming for xmas and staying at your sisters then you wouldn't want your mum and sister coming to our place. You see her sister and me don't get on since my GF moved out. But of course it's now my fault!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just can't win. Paul

Lotnik767Threads: 6 Posts: 210 Joined: Nov 12, 08	Dec 2, 08, 09:12 / #
All girls and women are the same and they all came from the same seed no mater that culture, religion, nationality ect,

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Dec 2, 08, 12:10 / #
Something in the genes.

jnr5475Threads: - Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 3, 08	Dec 3, 08, 03:41 / #
I completely agree with what you're saying. I've found that my other half is very quick to look for problems and quickly takes offence. Sometimes there are definitely communication issues!! Some things just don't translate!

ArcticPaulThreads: 49 Posts: 245 Joined: Apr 7, 08	Dec 2, 08, 12:03 / #
Cheery: My mother sure was like that.. She'd cry over small things... then my dad would bash my face in.. We had a similar upbringing!

daystromThreads: - Posts: 8 Joined: Nov 28, 08	Dec 2, 08, 19:45 / #
sapphire: insecurity and self obsession are traits that are not limited to Polish girls.. sounds like you are attracted to high maintenance babes. I agree here, and with other posters. I find this sort of stuff in loads of women from all points of the globe. Not just Polish girls. peace mróz

IronsE11Threads: 2 Posts: 799 Joined: Mar 3, 08	Dec 3, 08, 08:16 / #
dxx: This is a serious question, If I compare Polish girls to other girls they are very emotional/dramatical. If you do or say something, they always reflect it on themselves, after which you have to do a whole explanation to prove it was not about them or against them. Phrases like "so you prefer that over me" or "the whole world is against me" are not rare in these cases. Is there any approach in which you can avoid getting into situations like this? And please dont tell me "stay single" since this is kind of a hard problem to overcome if you are not used to dealing with similar situations. Whilst I am loathed to sterotype, I would be lying if I said I didn't recognise some of those traits in my girlfriend. I do however think it can be applied to a number of women, not only Polish. Insecurity can sometimes be sweet, but at other times it can be a bit tedious. The only thing I find genuinely annoying is that it doesn't always work both ways...

cjjcThreads: 37 Posts: 463 Joined: Jul 26, 08	Dec 3, 08, 08:21 / #
dxx: emotional I wouldn't say they were emotional. Personally. I think Polish women are stronger emotionally than English women for sure. IMO :)