british working in Poland with no language

Blingin:

my bf is of course polish. he told me his dad used to beat his mom, but hasnt for ten years now. now the other night, we had weed together and i started laughing and acting silly, but my bf didnt like it and started to punch me.

Blingin:

hey guys remember me. yes, the one who didnt listen to your advice. well now im paying for it. i made up a fake profile online and i sent him messages, and i asked him if he was single. he replied "yes im single". then he sent her a comment saying "beautiful eyes" twice. i sent him back a message asking why this girl (me) has sent you messages saying she loves you. he said "yes im sure im single, shes just a friend". i sent him back saying do you want to meet, he said "jan 3rd between 8am -5pm.

i was of course crying, how could he do this to me. he lied saying he was in the shower when in fact he was speaking to the girl i made up.

he doesnt know i know. hes away at the moment and will be back sunday, tell me, what should i do. how do i handle this? i want payback, i want revenge, but yet i want to know why, im not ugly, i love him, ive never cheated on him, i wanted to marry and breed with him one day. so why did he turn out to cheat on me?

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Edited by: Blingin Aug 6, 08, 07:19 / #
i am a British citizen and my boyfriend is Polish. i want to live and work in Poland for 6 months, basically just to learn the language more. i will be staying with his parents and he will be studying here in England. im really looking forward to it but the only problem is that i dont know that much Polish, and im wondering what sort of job i would end up having in result of this. i know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do. i did find a language cd called ROSETTA STONE and its supposed to be really good and people learn very quickly so i was wondering if theres anyone thats used this and been successful.

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Edited by: ShelleyS Aug 6, 08, 07:25 / #
Aren't you the young lady whose partner beat her up and cheater on her?

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 07:34 / #
ShelleyS: Aren't you the young lady whose partner beat her up and cheater on her? number 1, thats irrelevent to the question. please answer the question or dont write at all. number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive

espanaThreads: 40 Posts: 2,233 Joined: Feb 28, 07	Edited by: espana Aug 6, 08, 07:39 / #
Blingin: i will be staying with his parents and he will be studying here in England are you a troll or an illegal immigrant? is true that you are a British citizen? what is the point to stay with his parent if your boyfriend is in england? crazy threats!!!!

miranda	Aug 6, 08, 07:50 / #
espana: crazy threats!!!! agree and there are more. Ms B is a little drama queen;)

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 07:50 / #
espana: are you a British citizen? Blingin: i am a British citizen the first thing i write is.............. people, please read carefully and answer appropiately

welshguyinpolaThreads: 32 Posts: 462 Joined: Jan 9, 08	Aug 6, 08, 07:53 / #
Look, face it the only job available to you is teaching.

VaFunkooloThreads: 7 Posts: 823 Joined: Mar 24, 08	Aug 6, 08, 07:56 / #
Welcome back Blingin - glad your relationship is still going although welshguy is right and teaching english will be your best option probably

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:00 / #
miranda: Ms B is a little drama queen;) correct, get used to it or dont bother posting anything here

ParisJazzThreads: 2 Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 23, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:03 / #
Blingin: number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive Phew..

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Aug 6, 08, 08:04 / #
I dont understand why you want to stay in Poland with his parents if he is here in the UK and you dont speak Polish? Its sounds strange to me. However, in your defence, I think there are some pretty hostile responses here. if posters have posted other threads which have nothing to do with this one, why should people feel it neccessary to find the time to look through these and comment on them if they are irrelevant to the discussion.. regardless of what you might think about the individual, why bother doing this.. its so sad.

VaFunkooloThreads: 7 Posts: 823 Joined: Mar 24, 08	Aug 6, 08, 08:11 / #
You dont need a degree but it opens up your options if you have one. You dont need a tefl cert but it opens up your options if youve got one Callan might be your best bet - see if there is a school near where you'll be staying

espanaThreads: 40 Posts: 2,233 Joined: Feb 28, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:16 / #
noimmigration: your obviously a weak woman, with no self resect or dignity. ******* hell, i agree!!!

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:17 / #
sapphire: However, in your defence, I think there are some pretty hostile responses here. if posters have posted other threads which have nothing to do with this one, why should people feel it neccessary to find the time to look through these and comment on them if they are irrelevant to the discussion.. regardless of what you might think about the individual, why bother doing this.. its so sad. thankyou

noimmigration	Aug 6, 08, 08:04 / #
Blingin: number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive your obviously a weak woman, with no self resect or dignity.

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:07 / #
VaFunkoolo: Today, 07:56 Report #8 Welcome back Blingin thankyou. teaching? do you need a degree or someting? mind you, when i went Poland the first time i spoke to a class for about 15mins, just to let them no how people from England speak

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:13 / #
Blingin: my bf is of course polish. he told me his dad used to beat his mom, but hasnt for ten years now. now the other night, we had weed together and i started laughing and acting silly, but my bf didnt like it and started to punch me. Blingin: hey guys remember me. yes, the one who didnt listen to your advice. well now im paying for it. i made up a fake profile online and i sent him messages, and i asked him if he was single. he replied "yes im single". then he sent her a comment saying "beautiful eyes" twice. i sent him back a message asking why this girl (me) has sent you messages saying she loves you. he said "yes im sure im single, shes just a friend". i sent him back saying do you want to meet, he said "jan 3rd between 8am -5pm. i was of course crying, how could he do this to me. he lied saying he was in the shower when in fact he was speaking to the girl i made up. he doesnt know i know. hes away at the moment and will be back sunday, tell me, what should i do. how do i handle this? i want payback, i want revenge, but yet i want to know why, im not ugly, i love him, ive never cheated on him, i wanted to marry and breed with him one day. so why did he turn out to cheat on me? Blingin: number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive Have fun in Poland, you called me small minded on a thread of mine...at least my thread got the forum debating in an inteligent way...your theads however dont!

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:15 / #
noimmigration: your obviously a weak woman, with no self resect or dignity. only i can know that, not you little boy. ive read your posts, and you dont seem to like the fact that Poles are here in England, you think they should find work elsewhere in other countries. this is POLISH FORUMS, if you dont like Polish people, then dont register here. silly

Del boyThreads: 22 Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 29, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:26 / #
Blingin: i know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do. what kind of job are you looking for in Poland?

miranda	Edited by: miranda Aug 6, 08, 08:35 / #
sapphire: if posters have posted other threads which have nothing to do with this one, why should people feel it neccessary to find the time to look through these and comment on them if they are irrelevant to the discussion.. regardless of what you might think about the individual, why bother doing this.. its so sad. because people don't change. Ms Blingy is a drama queen (she admitted it herself) and besides growing some backbone (anger)I cannot see that she would be different than she was in the past.

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 08:47 / #
ShelleyS: Have fun in Poland, you called me small minded on a thread of mine...at least my thread got the forum debating in an inteligent way...your theads however dont! the past is in the past, the present is now, i live in the present and im happy, you live in the past and the dark ages and to be honest, a little too sad and desperate for thread replies, if you are so intelligent, why are you on my thread? oh yeah, i will have a good time in poland :) miranda: besides growing some backbone I cannot see that she would be different than she was in the past. i have grown some backbone and have grown mature, as you can see, i havent posted a thread in ages, why, because i sorted myself out, but people like you like to TRY and put people down because unfortunatley, you have no faith and you, still have a backward mind, which is no problem for me as i am not you.

miranda	Aug 6, 08, 08:56 / #
Blingin: i have grown some backbone and have grown mature, as you can see, i havent posted a thread in ages, why, because i sorted myself out, but people like you like to TRY and put people down because unfortunatley, you have no faith and you, still have a backward mind, which is no problem for me as i am not you. so why did you admit that you were a drama queen - it is NOT a good thing to be one;)

miranda	Edited by: miranda Aug 6, 08, 09:38 / #
Blingin: i wonder how lol :) without internet help for sure. I talk to my friends and family members and I use my brain. If you tell me that is it unusual I assure you that most people would disagree. I am not a big fan of people posting their personal problems on the internet as you can see, especially those who don't listen to advices and waste everybody's time doing it with a nasty attitude. Or simple crooks.

Del boyThreads: 22 Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 29, 07	Edited by: Del boy Aug 6, 08, 09:43 / #
Blingin: i am a British citizen what is your nationality then? atheist, free thinkers or who? do you consider yourself to be a part of any nation or what?

ArcticPaulThreads: 49 Posts: 245 Joined: Apr 7, 08	Aug 6, 08, 10:41 / #
Blingin: know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do. Dear me! What a blatant attempt to provoke the racism of inequality in replies. "If he can wear a turban on a motorbike why do I have to wear a helmet...... coming over here shaggin' our food and eating our women.........I couldn't get a job in Poland.....something about me being retarded but they get jobs in England........ real men beat their women with clubs.............." Who do you think you are kidding?

inkrakow	Edited by: inkrakow Aug 6, 08, 11:36 / #
Blingin: i know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do. yup, if you're willing to work for 4PLN/hr picking blueberries/plums/apples/pears etc you won't have any problem finding work here. They're crying out for people..

BlinginThreads: 5 Posts: 59 Joined: Mar 13, 07	Aug 6, 08, 13:31 / #
ArcticPaul: You inbred, you're sick, who thinks like that? maybe you are but im not, and who was talking about race? Del boy: what is your nationality then? atheist, free thinkers urm, correct me if im wrong but nationality doesnt mean religon/faith lol miranda: I am not a big fan of people posting their personal problems on the internet well at the time of my personal problem, i did put it on the relationship thread, so i think it was relevent. plus, you need to stop getting heated up on the past, i posted that thread months and months ago, its MY past not yours, stop crying lol

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 [Moderator]	Aug 6, 08, 14:13 / #
Blingin: i want to live and work in Poland for 6 months, basically just to learn the language more. One of the things about work is that you may be doing it on your own or in an enviroment where very little is said. Work therefore might not be the best option for learning a language. The time of year is important. You won't be doing outside work in winter. And in Summer there are plenty students to fill in the gaps. You didn't mention where you'll be living. A village would make travel more difficult than you might expect, if you have to rely on public transport to get to work. Teaching English might be an option, but only if you understand deference. But there again it won't help you with learning Polish.

Ireland CallingThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Aug 6, 08	Aug 6, 08, 16:19 / #
emmmmmmmm kinda afraid to come in around the door of this room But as the subject has been raised Then I don't see the point in opening another thread Its about teaching. I am not all up on all things polish.So, can someone tell me please roughly how much in polish money is worth to the euro Second, how much is paid for teaching jobs? both private and in state schools, have a Tefl and hope to do an english degree Thanks in advance IC

HelenaWojtczakThreads: 31 Posts: 156 Joined: Aug 5, 08	Aug 7, 08, 04:59 / #
I don't know anything about the history of Blingin but I do have one thing to say: reading this thread, her standard of written English is very poor (spelling, grammar, punctuation, capitalisation) and she would, therefore, be most unsuitable as an English teacher. Also, is she even English? English people don't say Mom, but Mum.