Polish priest publishes sex guide

Nathan:

I think Roman Catholic Church should adopt Orthodox approach on celibacy and when a priest wants to marry, he can do this before taking the oath. Ukrainian Catholic Church, part of which I am, has never had any issue with child sex abuse as Roman Catholic. Give your priest an option of getting married, it is as natural as air you breeze in. On the other hand, if a priest wants to advance on the church rang ladder, he must choose either: either you are a bishop or you are married and priest. Solution to many damaged lives and endless lawsuits problem.

polishcanuckThreads: 10 Posts: 583 Joined: Feb 11, 07	May 16, 09, 22:50 / #
Polish priest publishes sex guide A Polish Catholic priest has published a book which provides married couples with a theological and practical guide to spicing up their sex lives. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/8049853.stm --------- I am curious as to how helpful this book could be to a couple experiencing problems in the bedroom. It is after all written by a celibate man.

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 [Moderator]	May 16, 09, 22:56 / #
polishcanuck: It is after all written by a celibate man. he may have enjoyed the fruits of love before becoming a priest

Lir	May 16, 09, 23:03 / #
polishcanuck: his book Yes I saw this in the news a few days ago, made me smile because it was being dubbed as the 'Catholic Kama Sutra.' So that should answer your question :) Headline in the Guardian newspaper was as follows:- "Sex and God do mix – according to 'Catholic Kama Sutra'" http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/may/14/catholic-kama-sutra-sex-go d :)

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	May 17, 09, 04:03 / #
discourages the use of any form of contraception, saying it can "lead a married couple outside of Catholic culture and into a completely different lifestyle". and people listen to that drivel. oh well.

EurolaThreads: 6 Posts: 2,647 Joined: Dec 2, 06	May 17, 09, 07:07 / #
Back in Poland, centuries ago, my older neighbor was getting married and was going with his fiancée to a priest for teaching about marriage. He said that he could never wear a condom because of the teachings. His sperm was a livelihood and well being for his future wife. You know, she was his life's flower and a flower needs moisture to grow... Luckily young women and men in Poland no longer fall for this crap, or we'll still have nine or twelve kids in the family. :)

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	Edited by: SzwedwPolsce May 18, 09, 15:08 / #
polishcanuck: Polish priest publishes sex guide A Polish Catholic priest has published a book which provides married couples with a theological and practical guide to spicing up their sex lives. I heard that it's a bestseller already. But when it comes to the young generation I think most of them will not care about this book. They have other sources of sex education than priests. ;)

PolishGirl94Threads: - Posts: 6 Joined: May 18, 09	Edited by: PolishGirl94 May 18, 09, 18:40 / #
SzwedwPolsce: They have other sources of sex education than priests. ;) I agree with that because I use various sources .. Ah this sex education .. ;))

ArienThreads: 6 Posts: 1,604 Joined: Oct 20, 08	May 18, 09, 18:44 / #
I'm extremely blonde all of a sudden, so could you perhaps demonstrate what you mean? ;) Skittles off to play with his dinkytoys

PolishGirl94Threads: - Posts: 6 Joined: May 18, 09	May 18, 09, 19:02 / #
Which part don't you understand.? ;PP

McCoyThreads: 46 Posts: 1,756 Joined: Jul 3, 08	May 18, 09, 19:07 / #
PolishGirl94: I agree with that because I use various sources .. Ah this sex education .. ;)) play with dolls kido.

ArienThreads: 6 Posts: 1,604 Joined: Oct 20, 08	Edited by: Arien May 18, 09, 19:23 / #
Yeah, I get that a lot.. ;) I guess I'll just stick with my stork theory then. plk123: oops. Oh, so that explains why she didn't have a baby! :D Phew! What a relief!

SwiteziankaThreads: - Posts: 525 Joined: Jun 17, 08	May 25, 09, 23:50 / #
Ironside: So according to you book about sex should be written by prostitute.? As far as technical stuff is concerned, it's not a bad idea. Still, sexologist would be better.

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,786 Joined: Feb 26, 09	May 26, 09, 00:12 / #
Switezianka: As far as technical stuff is concerned, it's not a bad idea. Would you like to learn from prostitute? Hmm ... need a "sparing" partner ?lol Switezianka: Still, sexologist would be better. In what way?

NathanThreads: 33 Posts: 1,846 Joined: Feb 13, 09	May 26, 09, 00:15 / #
Come on , Ironside, you have to know in oreder to write. It is not a kindergarten anymore. But I would also understand an input of a priest into a book written by a sexologist, prostitute and a gigolo :)

ArienThreads: 6 Posts: 1,604 Joined: Oct 20, 08	May 18, 09, 19:13 / #
PolishGirl94: Which part don't you understand.? ;PP Any part? ;p I still believe in the flight of the stork really!

PolishGirl94Threads: - Posts: 6 Joined: May 18, 09	May 18, 09, 19:17 / #
No comment.. xD

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	May 18, 09, 19:20 / #
Arien: I still believe in the flight of the stork really! oops.

PolishGirl94Threads: - Posts: 6 Joined: May 18, 09	May 18, 09, 19:24 / #
lol.. xD

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,786 Joined: Feb 26, 09	May 19, 09, 03:56 / #
polishcanuck: I am curious as to how helpful this book could be to a couple experiencing problems in the bedroom. It is after all written by a celibate man. You should read it then. So according to you book about sex should be written by prostitute.? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpuYoK6wv_Y

NathanThreads: 33 Posts: 1,846 Joined: Feb 13, 09	May 26, 09, 00:10 / #
Switezianka: As far as technical stuff is concerned, it's not a bad idea. Still, sexologist would be better. Absolutely. It is like writing a book on a cell having no idea what it is. I think Roman Catholic Church should adopt Orthodox approach on celibacy and when a priest wants to marry, he can do this before taking the oath. Ukrainian Catholic Church, part of which I am, has never had any issue with child sex abuse as Roman Catholic. Give your priest an option of getting married, it is as natural as air you breeze in. On the other hand, if a priest wants to advance on the church rang ladder, he must choose either: either you are a bishop or you are married and priest. Solution to many damaged lives and endless lawsuits problem.

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,786 Joined: Feb 26, 09	Edited by: Ironside May 26, 09, 00:33 / #
Nathan: I think Roman Catholic Church should adopt Orthodox approach on celibacy and when a priest wants to marry, he can do this before taking the oath. Ukrainian Catholic Church, part of which I am, has never had any issue with child sex abuse as Roman Catholic. Give your priest an option of getting married, it is as natural as air you breeze in. On the other hand, if a priest wants to advance on the church rang ladder, he must choose either: either you are a bishop or you are married and priest. Solution to many damaged lives and endless lawsuits problem. **** !!!I agree with you Nathan ....must be the weather ! Nathan: Absolutely. It is like writing a book on a cell having no idea what it is. Not ! Do you think priest cannot give as much input as sexologist, it mostly psychological knowledge in both cases ..... if practicing sex is so important to be good consulter why there is so many couples with problems? One could say that doctor without mental problems cannot treat it because he didn't personally experienced it. So, I'm not saying that every priest is better than sexologist but some might be! You are judging a book by it's author - read it first and than have your say.

NathanThreads: 33 Posts: 1,846 Joined: Feb 13, 09	May 26, 09, 01:00 / #
Ironside: Not ! Do you think priest cannot give as much input as sexologist, it mostly psychological knowledge in both cases ..... if practicing sex is so important to be good consulter why there is so many couples with problems? One could say that doctor without mental problems cannot treat it because he didn't personally experienced it. So, I'm not saying that every priest is better than sexologist but some might be! You are judging a book by it's author - read it first and than have your say. Nathan: Come on , Ironside, you have to know in oreder to write. It is not a kindergarten anymore. But I would also understand an input of a priest into a book written by a sexologist, prostitute and a gigolo :) That's what I said.

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,786 Joined: Feb 26, 09	May 26, 09, 01:49 / #
Nathan: That's what I said. Would you care to explain yourself?

SwiteziankaThreads: - Posts: 525 Joined: Jun 17, 08	May 30, 09, 23:25 / #
Ironside: Would you like to learn from prostitute? Why not? A prostitue deals with a wider variety of partners than an average person. The best person to learn from if one wants to try out something new. Ironside: In what way? In the same way that a dietetician is better at writing on healthy food and a nephrologist is better on writing about kidneys. Simply - a sexologist has got education and expert knowledge in the area. A priest has got neither knowledge about sex or experience in it. Why don't we tell some virgin car mechanic to write a book on sex. The same qualifications.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	May 30, 09, 23:31 / #
I completely agree with Switezianka, another case of a priest using his moral standing to venture into unknown territory and try to influence people's decisions. When will they ever learn? He should have put it into a spoof series :)

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	May 30, 09, 23:41 / #
Switezianka: A prostitue deals with a wider variety of partners than an average person. Yes,prostitutes have better technique than average woman we have to admit.But there are some non-prostitutes which do marvels far more advanced than pros. I think it is talent.

NathanThreads: 33 Posts: 1,846 Joined: Feb 13, 09	May 31, 09, 02:16 / #
Seanus: I completely agree with Switezianka, another case of a priest using his moral standing to venture into unknown territory and try to influence people's decisions. When will they ever learn? He should have put it into a spoof series :) I agree with Switezianka as well. But concerning your opinion, Seanus, I think you have to agree that priests can add some spiritual context to sex, which if taken completely out of a prostitute or a sexologist's knowledge and experience, may lack many deeper aspects, which both of the mentioned professions miss to confer to it.

terriThreads: 1 Posts: 385 Joined: May 3, 09	Edited by: terri May 31, 09, 08:54 / #
Next time I'm in Poland (in 2 weeks time) I will buy this book, read it and express an opinion as to its contents. Knowing a little bit about what happens in the 'bedroom department', I'm sure that it would be easy to spot, whether he is writing from 'experience' or from the 'spiritual angle' and imagination. Watch this space.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	May 31, 09, 22:27 / #
Individuals can add a spiritual context. They have spirits, don't they? ;)

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	May 31, 09, 22:36 / #
Spiritual orgasm.(when watching Kaczynski).