Mister H: I'm assuming you are an American born citizen of Polish parents ? If that is the case, then you have a loyalty, as someone that can provide employment, to your fellow Americans. I understand what you are saying, but it's very complicated and would be a long post for me to explain, but I'll try to explain briefly. I was born in America, but I consider myself a polak - I don't consider myself to be an american. My entire childhood up until 11 was polska - my family life, the traditions, my first language is polish, I would visit family in polska every other year (still do, but not as often), my friends were all kids of polish immigrants, etc. Nothing american in my life other than grade school, but I was also in polish school every saturday. Take a town from poland and transplant it into another country (Chicago, IL, USA in this case), and this is where I was raised, and who I was among.
At 11, per my mom's desire for numerous reasons that would be lengthy to explain, my family moved away from Chicago to upper-middle class suburbia. The sole reason this was done was the school system - they moved us here so we would be molded to succeed. My siblings & I, especially me, struggled with this (I'm the oldest - they were a little younger), but assimilated, and succeeded as students, making american friends, etc., and eventually in acquiring great jobs in respectable professions. After goals were met, I detached from americans after I grew up into a mature adult. My childhood came to surface and I realized who I really was. My siblings experienced a similar journey once they matured into adults.
I can write a book on this matter, but I think you can understand on a high level. Again, I understand what you are saying, but my childhood, my upbringing, my feelings, etc., trump rational logic here. I was at my cousin's wedding in Poland about 7 months ago, and quite a few of the people that I were there were heading to the UK within a few months time to land a job and make some money. A few I keep in touch with via e-mail weekly. I'm a complicated bag here on this topic.
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