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How to marry an American women?



Guest Edited by: Moderator   Jan 19, 09, 22:27 /  #
hello everyone. I need help... ok here is the deal.. I meet wonderful women 2 years ago and we know already we wanna spend our life eachother but... my student visa is expired and im illegal now. So we decided we get merried then i can be legall go back to school find work bla bla bla.. We want to get married for now without church and very quietly just for make me legall here. My question is if this is possible and where we can go?? Where i can find place to get married without church? please help me

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  Jan 19, 09, 22:28 /  #
Its very important for me help me people (sorry for my bad english)
polishgirltx   Jan 19, 09, 22:31 /  #
you have to get a marriage permit ( in the court)... then get married (in the court)... and you'll receive a marriage license by mail (from a court)...
i think :/
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  Jan 19, 09, 22:32 /  #
So what?? i should go to court?
polishgirltx   Jan 19, 09, 22:32 /  #
friko22:
i should go to court?

well, yes.... in your county...
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  Jan 19, 09, 22:33 /  #
what kind of permit u talking about?
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  Jan 19, 09, 22:45 /  #
friko22:
what kind of permit u talking about?

where are you living?

some states have a local courthouse where they have the marriage liscense and a
justice of peace right there to marry you. its pretty easy, but there is a fee for this
so depends on the state .. Ohio has courthouses to get married in jiffy and so does
indiana.. not sure where else.
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  Jan 19, 09, 22:50 /  #
we living in Chicago but im not worry about fees.. im worry about what i should do to make things right. What kind of papers i need and make myself being here legall step by step. I know its not will be easy
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Edited by: Joker   Jan 19, 09, 22:56 /  #
friko22:
we living in Chicago but im not worry about fees

Do as Patrycja suggested go to city hall or any county court house.
I assume she is a legal US citizen, or I dont think they will do it??
polishgirltx Edited by: polishgirltx   Jan 19, 09, 22:57 /  #
friko22:
What kind of papers

both of your DL and SSN...?
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Edited by: Joker   Jan 19, 09, 22:59 /  #
polishgirltx:
both of your DL and SSN...?

birth certificate or passport will do also, definetly SS card
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:00 /  #
friko22:
im worry about what i should do to make things right. What kind of papers i need and make myself being here legall step by step. I know its not will be easy


lets see what we can find for you to do this the right way. :)

hang in there. :)
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Edited by: friko22   Jan 19, 09, 23:02 /  #
Yes she is Us citizen and i have DL and SSN. My next question is where i should after when we get married? Are am I legall in US after go when we get married?
polishgirltx   Jan 19, 09, 23:05 /  #
friko22:
Are am I legall in US after go when we get married?

no... you have to send all your papers to the INS... you better get a lawyer...
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:08 /  #
Thats the point i know lawyer will be cost me a lot and i dont think i can afford that now. Thats why im looking for help here
polishgirltx   Jan 19, 09, 23:11 /  #
friko22:
i know lawyer will be cost me a lot and i dont think i can afford that now.

if you go to the lawyer only for consultation, it'll cost you up to $100...and the lawyer will tell you what to do...
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:12 /  #
http://ohiobar.org/pub/lycu/index.asp?articleid=542

I found this for u although it applies to the state of ohio.. you will have to go to the
office near you ( apply for green card) and then the other forms mentioned in the
above link.

:)
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:14 /  #
$100 its not that bad... but im sure one lawyer visit is enough
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:20 /  #
I also found this..
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080715095243AArhEZ4

The validity period of a visa has nothing to do with how long a person can stay in the
States. It's the expiration date on the I-94 that controls the length of stay. If you were admitted as an F-1 student, then you were admitted for "duration of status." Once you have completed your studies, you have 30 days to depart the U.S.

If you have a U.S. citizen fiance, that person may submit a form I-129f to CIS to petition for you as her fiance. If the petition is approved, you could apply for the fiance visa in your home country at the U.S. consulate.

If you failed to depart the U.S. after you completed your studies and married your fiance inside the U.S., your US citizen spouse would have to file form I-130 to petition for you as an immediate relative. You would have to file form I-485 to apply for adjustment of status. If you went the adjustment of status route, you would be trapped inside the U.S. until your green card was issued.

So, if you want to do it the quick and least expensive way and see your friends and family back home, go for the fiance visa. If you don't mind the added expense and extra aggravations of adjusting status, you can stay in the U.S. and try it.
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:33 /  #
I have got F-1 visa from Poland it was work and travel program.. after when i finish my contract work in US i decided to stay in US and im became ilegall emigrant. I have been planing stay here few mounths over my visa but.. i meet my girlfriend we follow in love. She is ready to marry me and make me legall also US citizen but im scare if i make some mestake processing my status i will be deported even we will be married already witch i dont want to this happen.. I know also my f1 visa is expired and if I start apllying for green card something bad can happen..
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  Jan 19, 09, 23:41 /  #
friko22:
I know also my f1 visa is expired and if I start apllying for green card something bad can happen..

Patrycja19:
If you have a U.S. citizen fiance, that person may submit a form I-129f to CIS to petition for you as her fiance.

this tells you what to do. I dont know what state you live so I cant find links to help
you go to the right places.. each states office is different.

if you live close to vegas, you can go get married in a church or by elvis.. now that
would be something to write home about :)
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  Jan 20, 09, 00:30 /  #
I'm living in chicago, il
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So.. any help??
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  Jan 20, 09, 11:17 /  #
put on your best togs (clothes) hit the disco and show off your best moves. the women will come flocking and you will have to fight them off with a big stick, easy.
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  Jan 20, 09, 11:26 /  #
It looks like there has been an error here. It may have been a spelling mistake or a grammatical error, or possibly both.

How to Marry un-American women

Don't go to America to meet women. Go somewhere else. The less Americans the better, just in case you accidentally fall in love with an American woman. I'm not sure who the most un-American women are. Mongolians possibly. Avoid Ulaan-Baatar as there might be more than the national average number of Americans there.


How to Marry American women

It is advisable to train for the priesthood. This is not an easy undertaking as it involves devoting your whole life to God, and may involve vows of celibacy. However, once fully trained, if you're not already there, move to America, get a parish (or similar), and marriage ceremonies will be amongst your duties. There are a lot of American women living in America who wish to get married. Many require the services of a priest in order for them to get married to their partners in a good and godly manner.


How to Marry an American woman


See above. When you have already become a priest, you are pretty much "in the role" for life. Leaving the priesthood is an exception rather than the norm, and it is often frowned upon. It is worth mentioning that there are also civil marriages that do not require religious institutions, but I'm afraid I can't help you with information about how to find such a job.
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Edited by: dcchris   Jan 20, 09, 11:54 /  #
I dont know for sure but when you apply for legal immigrant status after marriage surely they will check your current status. that being illegal then I would think you would have a problem...
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Patrycja19:
this tells you what to do. I dont know what state you live so I cant find links to help
you go to the right places.. each states office is different.

if you live close to vegas, you can go get married in a church or by elvis.. now that
would be something to write home about :)

Did u find out something new?

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