Waleed
I may be rejected by his family because I am from different religion or her family may not allow her to come back with me.
The most popular stereotypes (some of them seem to be true) about Muslim religion in my country: wives in Muslim countries have to be devoted to their husbands and her family, they have to cover their faces, they have not much independence, they have lower position in society, they have to ask for permission their husbands with many things, also about getting out from home, a role for Muslim husband's wife is to be focused only on family, children and home, wife must be faithful, wife can be punished with death for cheating on, if she wanted to divorce and come back to her country, she couldn't take yours children with her, because a child stays always with its father.
I don't know what kind of people they are, as I read they are very strict christian and never accept other religion
Not many people here are "strict" Roman Catholics. Polish people accept other religions, but is easier for them to understand other Christians, for example Protestants, than Muslims. Muslim beliefs and culture are so different! And opinion about it is very much influenced, among other things, by some movies, like for example "Not without my daughter" with Sally Field from 1991. That film was based on facts. And I think that every parent would be very very much afraid of his daughter's marriage with a man who is Muslim. You could be unimpeachable and you could have the best intentions, but I think that you will have to try very hard to make their parents to trust you.
Wawkrak
If they are from the countryside they will probably be racist
That's not true! Polish people aren't racists!!! The other thing is that opinion is very much influenced by stories, who somebody heard from somebody and by and large I don't exactly know, what is the truth about marriages between Muslim and a person from other religion or country.
Waleed
If I were a parent of this girl, I would be very sceptical and distrustful. And the only reason for that would be "to protect her".
But I hope that you will manage to persuade them; that your intentions are good and honest. Saying it I mean "good and honest" also from Roman Catholic's point of view.
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