She gave me her cheek... polite way of saying NO WAY?

deadlyripped:

I can't really tell. She says she's 3 years older than me, but her professional credentials dictate that, best realistic case, she is 5 years older. She looks like she might be as much as 7 years older, which means she is probably 10 years older.

deadlyrippedThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 7, 09	Feb 7, 09, 02:09 / #
Hi, Met her at a club and we made out. We both were very drunk. Saw her in my building where we work and asked for her number (got it). Met her outside the building where we work, invited her to coffee. Coffee went well, not much touching on the walk home, polite and spirited conversation. Went in for the kiss and she gave me her cheek. Did I jump the gun? Regardless, did I make a major mistake? Sincerely, Confused bout Poles

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07	Feb 7, 09, 02:15 / #
deadlyripped: Did I jump the gun? Nope.....sounds like its going ok so far...if she offered her cheek this is not a rejection....just a sign she is not quite ready to exchange bodily fluids just yet...just take it slow....you dont want to scare her off do you....?

deadlyrippedThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 7, 09	Feb 7, 09, 02:22 / #
I figure that next week if I see her I'll ask her to the bar... more opportunities for getting closer, and to show her my funnier side. The trouble is that I am sure she can drink me under the table! Haha I am recently single so I'm definitely trying not to rush ANYTHING.

MistyThreads: 6 Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 20, 08	Feb 7, 09, 02:34 / #
deadlyripped: Went in for the kiss and she gave me her cheek. Did I jump the gun? Regardless, did I make a major mistake? You didn't make a major mistake at all but this girl has given you a sign, she wants to take it slow for a while. Or else, she really likes you...as a friend.

deadlyrippedThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 7, 09	Feb 7, 09, 03:00 / #
Yeah... that is kinda the vibe that I was getting. When we were at the club it was almost R-rated, but now that we're both sober and having conversation, things seem to be at 0. I am not going to worry about it until next week. One major factor is that she may in fact be like 10 yrs older than me... I can't really tell. She says she's 3 years older than me, but her professional credentials dictate that, best realistic case, she is 5 years older. She looks like she might be as much as 7 years older, which means she is probably 10 years older. In other words, I am too young for her and she's probably looking for a husband or at least a mature man to afford her companionship while she is in the states (at least a couple of years).

BzibziohThreads: 6 Posts: 3,657 Joined: Oct 15, 08 [Suspended]	Feb 7, 09, 03:09 / #
deadlyripped: I can't really tell. She says she's 3 years older than me, but her professional credentials dictate that, best realistic case, she is 5 years older. She looks like she might be as much as 7 years older, which means she is probably 10 years older. Wow, from 3 to 10 in two sentences. Jumping to conclusion much? Not fan of being a boy toy?

deadlyrippedThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 7, 09	Feb 7, 09, 03:24 / #
Big fan of it. Just want to be the toy and not a boy in her eyes. Nahmean? Time to get to a party and stop thinking about it... it'll drive me crazy otherwise.

SunflowerThreads: 15 Posts: 102 Joined: Jun 29, 07	Feb 7, 09, 09:38 / #
wildrover: Nope.....sounds like its going ok so far...if she offered her cheek this is not a rejection.... Yes, Wildrover is quite right, this doesn't sound like a rejection, sounds like a slight rewind, she probably just wants to get to know you better, it's not just a Polish thing you know!