If a guy was nice?

mark007:

A lot of them don't like the polish men that go to work in the Uk because they often get hassled by these guys in bars, clubs and buses. My fiance and her friends experienced this and reckons it's due to a lot of polish men having a bad grasp of English, and so, having heard a female speak polish; they latch on to them and this could explain why some polish women, when living in England avoid Polish men.

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 15:18 / #
If a guy was nice, said the right things at the right time, and treated her with respect........Is it then possible that a Polish women could ever consider dating a White man for a change? It's just you don't see it that often these days!

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	May 12, 09, 15:32 / #
Probably over 95% of Polish woman (at least in Poland) have a white husband/boyfriend or is dating a white guy.

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 15:40 / #
SzwedwPolsce: Probably over 95% of Polish woman (at least in Poland) have a white husband/boyfriend or is dating a white guy. Wow….that is a surprise because judging the way Polish women are behaving in the UK, you could be forgiven for thinking the opposite!

markcooperThreads: 6 Posts: 113 Joined: Apr 27, 09	May 12, 09, 15:46 / #
deepak: If a guy was nice, said the right things at the right time, and treated her with respect........Is it then possible that a Polish women could ever consider dating a White man for a change? It's just you don't see it that often these days! where do you live ?

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,783 Joined: Feb 26, 09	May 12, 09, 15:46 / #
deepak: Wow….that is a surprise because judging the way Polish women are behaving in the UK, you could be forgiven for thinking the opposite! Yeah some girls are suckers for a tan >>

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 15:49 / #
markcooper: where do you live ? London, Hounslow.

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	May 12, 09, 15:49 / #
Ironside: Yeah some girls are suckers for a tan >> I think you mean swarthy...

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	Edited by: SzwedwPolsce May 12, 09, 16:00 / #
deepak: that is a surprise because judging the way Polish women are behaving in the UK, you could be forgiven for thinking the opposite! In Poland there are extremely few non-white people. 96.7% (year 2002) of the population are ethnically Polish. It's one of the most homogeneous countries in Europe. The girls grew up here with (almost) only white Polish people. And then they go to a country where it's a lot of people with different physical appearances, cultures etc, it's not strange they think it's exotic in the beginning.

IronsideThreads: 59 Posts: 6,783 Joined: Feb 26, 09	May 12, 09, 16:01 / #
ShelleyS: I think you mean swarthy... Yes, but I meant it as joke ... a tan >>>> not good eh?!

markcooperThreads: 6 Posts: 113 Joined: Apr 27, 09	May 12, 09, 16:02 / #
deepak: SzwedwPolsce: Probably over 95% of Polish woman (at least in Poland) have a white husband/boyfriend or is dating a white guy. Wow….that is a surprise because judging the way Polish women are behaving in the UK, you could be forgiven for thinking the opposite! what part of the uk are you refering to ? You do see a few Polish girls with black guys where i live in Leytonstone East London. However it must be said it is not exactly North Norfolk and the majority of blokes are black.........well black or half cast.

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	May 12, 09, 16:15 / #
deepak: Well, watch out because with Polish women behaving like this thats gonna change very soon! Stormy weather ahead no doubt, such a shame! There are 38 million Poles living in Poland. Even if 1 % moves abroad and dates a non-white person it will not change the demography of the country much at all. And I know Polish girls, in the UK too, dating white men. I also know Polish girls who wouldn't date a non-white man.

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 18:39 / #
SzwedwPolsce: Even if 1 % moves abroad and dates a non-white person it will not change the demography of the country much at all. I like your misplaced optimism. The lack of Polish women’s solidarity towards Polish men will ceil a bleak future for your nation. But look on the bright side at least you’ll know exactly who it was that caused your country to disintegrate. SzwedwPolsce: it's not strange they think it's exotic in the beginning. This is a simplistic explanation; perhaps the problem lies much deeper than that. Maybe Polish Fathers are doing a poor job raising their daughters for such huge numbers of them to betray them in such a tasteless manor! Perhaps improving their standards of education would see them on the right path? After all they do appear to be rather childish and naive to say the least!

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09	Edited by: aphrodisiac May 12, 09, 18:48 / #
deepak: I like your misplaced optimism. The lack of Polish women’s solidarity towards Polish men will ceil a bleak future for your nation. But look on the bright side at least you’ll know exactly who it was that caused your country to disintegrate. are you a white man Deppak?????? deepak: This is a simplistic explanation; perhaps the problem lies much deeper than that. Maybe Polish Fathers are doing a poor job raising their daughters for such huge numbers of them to betray them in such a tasteless manor! Perhaps improving their standards of education would see them on the right path? After all they do appear to be rather childish and naive to say the least! were you dumped by a Polish naive woman, or she simply didn't pay attention to you:). You soumd like a complete douchebag to be honest.

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 19:22 / #
aphrodisiac: I have no issue with people dating other people and you seem to:) Don’t get me wrong, Polish women are great, myself and all my friends enjoy them very, very much! It’s just difficult to comprehend just how Polish women seem to have utter contempt for their own men folk! After all as we say "the weakness with White men is the behavior of White women!" I know for sure that our own Indian women wouldn’t betray their country and nation so freely!

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 16:07 / #
markcooper: what part of the uk are you refering to ? West London and the scenes are quiet staggering! SzwedwPolsce: It's one of the most homogeneous countries in Europe. Well, watch out because with Polish women behaving like this thats gonna change very soon! Stormy weather ahead no doubt, such a shame!

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	May 12, 09, 16:48 / #
Ironside: Yes, but I meant it as joke ... a tan >>>> I quite like a "bronzed" body, not a "swarthy" one... but yeah I understood your joke ;0) deepak: such a shame! Or just shameful...

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	May 12, 09, 18:55 / #
aphrodisiac: are you a white man Deppak?????? I'm British Indian, but I don't know what that's got to do with anything? It's Deepak by the way not Deppak, nice to meet you!

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09	Edited by: aphrodisiac May 12, 09, 19:01 / #
deepak: I'm British Indian, but I don't know what that's got to do with anything? everything. You are not white yourself and yet, you are talking about Polish women dating non-white men. What have I missed here? [quote=deepak] As far as I know, Polish women and everybody else living in Western societies have personal freedom of choice the last time I checked. Therefore I am not sure why you are being so patronizing towards Polish women and people's choices in general. I have no issue with people dating other people and you seem to:)

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09	Edited by: aphrodisiac May 12, 09, 19:56 / #
deepak: "the weakness with White men is the behavior of White women!" well, I disagree with that;), You are spinning the white vs non-white thing out of proportion, but if you want to ride that horse, you are free to do so. deepak: I know for sure that our own Indian women wouldn’t betray their country and nation so freely! Indian women mix with other races as well, so I am not sure what you are talking about.

deepakThreads: 2 Posts: 9 Joined: May 12, 09	Edited by: deepak May 12, 09, 20:02 / #
aphrodisiac: Indian women mix with other races as well, so I am not sure what you are talking about. Yes this is true, a few do. But not close to the numbers of Polish women enjoying us! I stand corrected, I should have said......."the weakness with Polish men is the behavior of Polish women!"

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09	Edited by: aphrodisiac May 12, 09, 20:09 / #
deepak: But not close to the numbers of Polish women enjoying us! well, I am glad that they do, just watch out for the STDs boys;). deepak: I stand corrected, I should have said......."the weakness with Polish men is the behavior of Polish women!" Yes, but the weakness of Indian women is in the behaviour of Indian men then;), no? Listen. I am done here, since I am sure you getting the gist of what I am getting at here. enjoy your life Deepak ;)

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	May 12, 09, 20:12 / #
deepak: I'm British Indian, but I don't know what that's got to do with anything? oh everything, especially your arrogance. so you and your slimey mates had a few Polish chicks so what. unfortunately many Polish girls go crazy for the bronzed (more like stained) look and a flashy car, and believe every lie you tell them. those girls come from very poor areas and a guy like yourself, even though you are a native Brit, is something amazing and out of this world. o foreign prince! i don't presonally feel any attraction to your countrymen, never have, and i know plenty of girls from Poland living here who would not touch you with a stick. it's just a personal preference really, and i'm sensitive to the heavy odour of sweat always lingering around Indian or Turkish guys, i just can't ignore it. anyway, i'm sure all those desperate, silly Polish lasses will come to their senses too and get a good slap from their parents. your countrymen have to know some magic spell i dunno, cos i heard the contents of your pants are nothing to be proud of! deepak: I know for sure that our own Indian women wouldn’t betray their country and nation so freely! i'm sure they wouldn't, knowing they will get stoned or stabbed to death if their parents found out they went to macdonalds.

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	May 12, 09, 20:41 / #
JustysiaS: a lot of generalizations You think all Indian guys are the same, all Polish guys are the same, all English guys are the same etc... don't you?

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER	May 12, 09, 21:01 / #
SzwedwPolsce: You think all Indian guys are the same, all Polish guys are the same, all English guys are the same etc... don't you? not at all, but when it comes to Indians etc. i'd rather be safe than sorry and stay away. as for English and Polish guys... i think on average English or in fact all British guys are more handsome. sue me! lol

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	May 12, 09, 21:19 / #
JustysiaS: i think on average English or in fact all British guys are more handsome. sue me! Yes, I think all Polish guys are gonna sue you now. ;) If you're right or not I don't know, I prefer to look at girls.

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	May 13, 09, 10:33 / #
deepak: deepak The only reason indian woman are pretty safe from "white" men is because they wouldn't touch your hairy village looking girls - now don't go showing me pictures of indian actresses to try and prove indian woman are lookers, because I travel through cheetham hill every night and see how ugly you lot are! Any european woman who dates some son of a 3rd world muddy looking immigrant needs shooting! JustysiaS: not at all, but when it comes to Indians etc. i'd rather be safe than sorry and stay away. as for English and Polish guys... i think on average English or in fact all British guys are more handsome. sue me! lol Well said! But be clear when you say British because Deepak likes to think he's British...But as we all know just because a dog is born in a stable it doesn't make it horse!

mark007Threads: 1 Posts: 74 Joined: Jan 19, 09	Edited by: mark007 May 13, 09, 10:58 / #
I used to live in West London, being white and English I was a minority! I also used to go to a university that was about 50% Asian. Most of the Indian guys wouldn't mix with anything other than Indian guys, same with the girls. I don't think it's anything specific, religion, racism or preference just the way it was. I know that some Asians are cool and others are idiots, as with polish women, living here in Poland, some women would love to experience an Afro-caribbean guy, others wouldn't let their daughters marry one or even into their house. When Polish women go to the UK, mainly to London, they end up in places which are full of ethnic minorities, as opposed to indigenous white English people, so, the chances of them going out with an Asian, Turkish, African guy is higher than an English, Irish guy. A lot of them don't like the polish men that go to work in the Uk because they often get hassled by these guys in bars, clubs and buses. My fiance and her friends experienced this and reckons it's due to a lot of polish men having a bad grasp of English, and so, having heard a female speak polish; they latch on to them and this could explain why some polish women, when living in England avoid Polish men. In my experience people go for people that they like, or have never experienced (due to fascination). This fascination often has a short shelf life, unless you're a great catch and treat the lady with respect! I'm not going to disclose my love life on an internet chat forum, but I have certainly tried more than one flavour of ice cream!..thats all it was, trying or a little window shopping. Just thought I would give a perspective from someone who has mixed with many people from all cultures and been privy to first hand natural reactions as opposed to ones done for the camera! czesc

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Edited by: ShelleyS May 13, 09, 11:14 / #
mark007: A lot of them don't like the polish men that go to work in the Uk because they often get hassled by these guys in bars, clubs and buses. My fiance and her friends experienced this and reckons it's due to a lot of polish men having a bad grasp of English, and so, having heard a female speak polish; they latch on to them and this could explain why some polish women, when living in England avoid Polish men. I find that hard to believe, okay Im sure in the numbers of men that came here from Poland there are going to be a few dicks, but you make it sound like all Polish women are avoiding all Polish men...sounds like tosh to me!

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	May 13, 09, 11:54 / #
I fail to see what the problem is here, apart from the shocking amount of racism in this thread. In this day and age we should be free to date whomever we choose regardless of their nationality. If the OP doesnt like Polish women then thats up to him, but if he and his mates are going with them just because they are 'easy' then that makes you guys the losers here as you have no respect for yourself or women. One day you will realise that no nice Indian girl will want to marry you cos you have slept around too much.

niejestemcapitaThreads: 3 Posts: 666 Joined: Jan 3, 09	May 13, 09, 11:57 / #
sapphire: shocking amount of racism in this thread. yeh its sickening. Ignorant rednecks, I hope they all die of swine flu.