Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me!

kasia24:

I'm together with my polish bf since a while ago. Ofcourse, we had our ups- and downs as every couple as in a normal relationship, and we had get along pretty well anyway. Ofcourse it was more passion and stuff in the beginning when we just met, but lately it's become less and less! Not that our relationship is boring, but he doesn't seem to take intiative as often as before, but neither do I, I guess...

How can I "lighten" up the passionate part of our relationsship? What do you guys like, ore appreciate if your gf's would do something for you?? In genereal - what attracts you? and girls, what do you do to "suprise" your bf's? ?? I don't mean any "nasty" tips.. but just in general.... I would like to do something special for him!

and no, I don't belive he has someone else..:))

thanks for help!:))

Wroclaw BoyThreads: 57 Posts: 5,470 Joined: Jul 3, 09 MEMBER	Edited by: Wroclaw Boy Nov 25, 09, 17:08 / #
tornado2007: well whatever its less to take off, so lets leave them out of the equation all together, i couldn't care if she said cuddly slippers :) Youre missing the point again, you said boots as you didnt even finish properly reading what she wrote you made an assumption as you couldnt wait to start typing yourself. I know you wouldnt have cared if she wrote cuddly slippers see above. I remember the lady in question calling you out on a question you asked her twice. Which in turn tells a story about you you and yep youve guessed it YOU. All talk and no listen.. I wonder why youre so pi$$ed off about all the lastest PF changes? answer: they dont suit your agenda.

ShortHairThugThreads: - Posts: 1,374 Joined: May 1, 09	Nov 25, 09, 17:16 / #
kasia24: How can I "lighten" up the passionate part of our relationsship? Get in touch with me, for private lessons, I’ll guarantee that within a month you will be free of any inhibitions you may have and your wildest sexual fantasies will be let loose upon this world, for better or for worse, whatever the case may be.

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07	Nov 25, 09, 17:27 / #
Wroclaw Boy: Youre missing the point again, you said boots as you didnt even finish properly reading what she wrote you made an assumption as you couldnt wait to start typing yourself. I know you wouldnt have cared if she wrote cuddly slippers see above. I remember the lady in question calling you out on a question you asked her twice. Which in turn tells a story about you you and yep youve guessed it YOU. All talk and no listen.. I wonder why youre so pi$$ed off about all the lastest PF changes? answer: they dont suit your agenda. Is that coming from one steamroller to another then?? :) The simple explanation was that by the time i started typing i had forgotten if it was boots or high heels, i opted for the wrong one, not a biggy if you ask me. As for the changes, i don't have an 'agenda' i just have a point of view on them, nothing more nothing less, as for not being a listener that just made me laugh

grethomoryThreads: 2 Posts: 212 Joined: Mar 19, 08	Nov 25, 09, 18:38 / #
kasia24: I'm together with my polish bf since a while ago. Ofcourse, we had our ups- and downs as every couple as in a normal relationship, and we had get along pretty well anyway. Ofcourse it was more passion and stuff in the beginning when we just met, but lately it's become less and less! Not that our relationship is boring, but he doesn't seem to take intiative as often as before, but neither do I, I guess... How can I "lighten" up the passionate part of our relationsship? What do you guys like, ore appreciate if your gf's would do something for you?? In genereal - what attracts you? and girls, what do you do to "suprise" your bf's? ?? I don't mean any "nasty" tips.. but just in general.... I would like to do something special for him! and no, I don't belive he has someone else..:)) thanks for help!:)) Kasia, take it from a guy who knows. The worst thing that a woman can do is to lose her self-respect. A relationship is a two way street and if he's not willing to meet you at least halfway. Then you need to let it go. Don't be co-dependent wanting someone to love or care about you. Think about your own self FIRST. That's what got Whitney Houston in the trouble she's in. As one of my good friends says, "if he doesn't come correct, then he needs to step."

ReeceThreads: - Posts: 1 Joined: Nov 27, 09	Nov 27, 09, 17:44 / #
Well you have 2 options either to stay with your boyfriend and get along with and do what ever that you are doing or simply get rid of him and another guy that you do get along with and sparkes your intrest....