I hate how people think Polish girls are closeminded and only go with their own ethnicity. It's simply not true, they are smart and open minded, do what any romantic would do. However, that doesn't mean she wants to forget her culture. ;-)
Let me help you.
Be affectionate, Polsih girls are well brought up and want a truly dedicated lover, they don't want someone looking off beyond her or going to places without her alot. Do as Aristotle once said, "To be true lovers, is to be two bodies with one soul." Hold her hand whenever you can, be sentimental with your words, used cute/romantic/and funny diction with your wording (not to the point where it's weird and you become a different person, however to the extent to which your not some cold blatant speaker/lover). Cuddle, (put your arm around her). Make her 'one', not your own. Never make here feel like a possession, she is your PARTNER, memorize that, never in your relationship shall one be more superior to the other. Respect her being- hold doors for her, pull out a chair, walk her across the street, walk WITH her, never leaving her alone (being front or back). Look into her eyes alot, and DON'T check out other girls, remember she's your one and only true love, it's her in the room, not the others.
Buy her things (mind you Polish girls aren't materialized), so again be affectionate in buying her things, maybe some jewlery on the anniversary of first meeting or her birthday(remember dates!!!)- oh and never forget her names day (in Poland it is sometime sonsidered more important that a birthday), buy her flowers (colors of the Polish flag, half redand half white roses). Being that, it's not the price, but the thought that counts. So be creative with what you give her, write her a poem, a short story (maybe in Polish, or Polish style)-buy some Polish literature as reference; you know what I mean, or make her a card.
Agree with her, but don't be a copy cat. For example, practice her religion maybe, her interests, abilties, copings definitley. Engage in her interest with truth, talk about that book shes reading or that movie she saw last week. Also give her personal space, don't be around her all the time or stalk her (she has friends and family too, and a personal life), again you are not more superior, you are partners. Your trust in eachother is one of the most important if not most important virtues of your relationship. Also don't be all "manly" and a stuck up *******, girls don't like that, try being sensitive and emotional too (but too much of that, or anything for that matter can cause more bad than it does good.)
There's much more I can think of but don't have the time. If you really want to learn polish or the basics buy Rossetta Stone, it's amazing for language teaching and they have it in Polish. It's a software with simply teaches you the basic Polish language (it's rated #1). If not learn little things, like how to say I love you (Kocham Wie) or Good day (Dobry Dzien), or make a Polish nickname for her such as 'little flower', or 'little angel' (but don't over use it, and try to call her the nickname in Polish).
Anyway, this isn't a list of orders, but rather adaptations or recomendations. Don't take them all too serious or senile, but rather consider them. Remember, true love is a powerful force: any philosopher, great thinker, even some scientists throughout our time can tell you this. I hope for you to achieve metaphysicality, aestheics, stoicism, and emotion in your relationship--in other words to achieve true love. Best of luck to you, good friend ^_^.
ps. Sorry this essay of mine has typos and bad grammar, I typed it up too fast.
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