LIVE FORUMS / ARCHIVES / 2009
PolishForums - ARCHIVE Witamy in PolishForums Archive :
Archives / 2009 / Relationships, Marriage / posts: 56

Marriage Procedure in Poland


page 2 of 2:  « Prev  1  2

szarlotkaThreads: 14
Posts: 3,349
Joined: Feb 20, 07 		  Nov 19, 09, 18:48 /  #
Seanus:
I kept my distance before going into the room and going through with it.

And it would be wise to employ the same tactics at the birth of your first child;)

Many congratulations to you and your wife Seanus.
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 19, 09, 18:55 /  #
Thanks, Szarly, much appreciated! The kid is for later, it likely won't be delivered until 2011 but I won't discuss this too much on an open forum.
k98_man   Nov 19, 09, 19:47 /  #
I want to say my vows in Polish, already! Seems so romantic for some reason....:P
Franciszek1987Threads: -
Posts: 4
Joined: Nov 19, 09 		Edited by: Franciszek1987   Nov 19, 09, 21:13 /  #
Polish Girls are no longer this what they was once!!! I live in Cracow and know what I'm talking about, the girls are like American girls. I should go to a small mountain village, I'm sure the girls there are more religious and traditional. k98_manYou look like 16, you know a girl who you want marry already?
Wroclaw BoyThreads: 57
Posts: 5,470
Joined: Jul 3, 09  Gold Member MEMBER  Pictures: 2 		  Nov 19, 09, 21:18 /  #
Franciszek1987:
I should go to a small mountain village, I'm sure the girls there are more religious and traditional.

nah theyve just learned not to put up with the shite their mothers did.
nomaderolThreads: 7
Posts: 1,213
Joined: Oct 18, 09 		  Nov 19, 09, 21:20 /  #
Seanus:
Vows are obligatory of course. There CAN BE no opt-out because you are entering into special promises.

There must be witnesses as it's a procedural requirement.

then, if somehow i have to marry, i will have to take her out of poland. any country with vowless marriage? (here in turkey, it is possible formally in an office in some minutes, but, still 2 witnesses are needed.) marriage with no vows and no witness, just submitting paperworks, finished. anywhere where this is possible?
Franciszek1987Threads: -
Posts: 4
Joined: Nov 19, 09 		  Nov 19, 09, 21:40 /  #
Wroclaw BoyYou don't know jack.
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 19, 09, 22:02 /  #
Not in any civilised country I know of, nomad. Witnesses attest to the consummation of marriage and you can't circumvent that, it just is.

Tell me, what use is a marriage without any vows? It's the whole point, to solemnly declare and affirm your commitment to your partner.

I suggest getting married to a horse, nomad. See how you go and be sure to send me a postcard from the village honeymoon ;) ;)
Franciszek1987Threads: -
Posts: 4
Joined: Nov 19, 09 		  Nov 19, 09, 22:22 /  #
Seanus Not the marriage, the marriage and vows in Poland are the best. I mean something different, but you are an American, it does not make sense to discuss with you about this, you can't understand this.
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 19, 09, 22:26 /  #
Aha, ok, that's news to me but nevermind :) I'll get my parents to change my birth certificate and the US authorities to somehow recognise me as an American.

I've just undertaken the process of marriage in Poland, it'll be 4 weeks on Saturday.

I don't remember asking you a goddamn thing ;) ;) (Pulp Fiction)
k98_man   Nov 23, 09, 11:13 /  #
Well I am 19 (as of today) not 16, but I might have an idea.

But my reference was more of the fact I like the idea of saying the vows in another language to affirm your love/commitment to your loved one (whomever it may be).
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 13:00 /  #
It is a nice thing but be mindful of the need to show an understanding of those words. I spent the night before my wedding saying them with English foremost in my mind, i.e using Polish but feeling the sense in English.
k98_man   Nov 23, 09, 14:56 /  #
Yeah they are worthless without it in some ways.
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 15:02 /  #
In almost all ways I'd say. Otherwise, it'd be like a contract with no value.
wildroverThreads: 180
Posts: 8,188
Joined: Jun 7, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 18:04 /  #
Seanus , do you still have this copy of Polish marriage vows...? You never know , maybe i might need them some day...? I wonder if my Russian beauty will understand them...?
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 21:13 /  #
They are floating about somewhere. If not, I can get a copy quite easily. Aren't you past that game, Jan? ;) ;)
wildroverThreads: 180
Posts: 8,188
Joined: Jun 7, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 21:38 /  #
Seanus:
Aren't you past that game, Jan? ;) ;)

Not quite...i am ready to settle down , and get married if i find the right one....i think maybe i found her.....
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 21:42 /  #
OK, it takes some time as you will no doubt be aware. I have even memorised the lines so, when the right time comes around, I'll be ready to pass them on.
aphrodisiacThreads: 22
Posts: 3,998
Joined: Apr 15, 09 		  Nov 23, 09, 21:42 /  #
wildrover:
..i think maybe i found her.....

you have not met her.
wildroverThreads: 180
Posts: 8,188
Joined: Jun 7, 07 		  Nov 23, 09, 23:01 /  #
aphrodisiac:
you have not met her.

True....she could be a complete monster...but i think not....
derek trotterThreads: 12
Posts: 252
Joined: Apr 10, 09 		  Nov 23, 09, 23:22 /  #
wildrover
scroll down to 'crime' section and read

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mari_El
wildroverThreads: 180
Posts: 8,188
Joined: Jun 7, 07 		  Nov 24, 09, 00:34 /  #
Russian scammers are all over the place , but they are pretty easy to suss out , i can smell em in an instant.... Usually they are very young , very pretty , and instantly fall in love with the 60 year old fat British guy they write to...Yeah right..?

My lady is a little older , very pretty , but definatly not a scammer , my ex girlfriend in the UK studied at the same university that my lady teaches at , so i know for sure she is genuine...Besides , she knows i don,t have any money , and she still wants me...
k98_man   Nov 25, 09, 22:43 /  #
Did you make your own Polish vows Seanus? Or with the help of your (now) wife?
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 25, 09, 22:47 /  #
Nah, she downloaded a copy of the standard text from the net. Tekst przysięgi I think it was called.
k98_man   Nov 26, 09, 09:58 /  #
Świadomy praw i obowiązków wynikających z założenia rodziny, uroczyście oświadczam, że wstępuję w związek małżeński z (imię Panny Młodej) i przyrzekam, że uczynię wszystko aby nasze małżeństwo było zgodne, szczęśliwe i trwałe.

?
SeanusThreads: 22
Posts: 30,158
Joined: Dec 25, 07 		  Nov 29, 09, 14:16 /  #
Aware of the laws and obligations resulting from the formation/consummation/establishing of family, I solemnly declare that, upon entering into the relationship of marriage with X, I swear that I will do everything in my power to make our marriage agreeable, happy and lasting.

Exactly, that's it k98_man
page 2 of 2:  « Prev  1  2Go UPtop of page


Similar discussions:

Similar to: Marriage Procedure in Poland
Can US citizenship through marriage be 'transfered' to a new spouse?
Dissolution of marriage: I'm Polish he's American.
Financially...is marriage an outdated tradition?
Polish girls' obsession with marriage
WHY DO YOUNGER POLES FEAR MARRIAGE?
Anybody affected by Russian marriage scam?
Are Polish marriage records available to the public and available on-line?
Green Card Marriage ad leads to arrest
Me and my Polish girlfriend divorced - Marriage annulment
Polish women in Scottish bogus marriage scam

Polish winking women - does it means she's interested in me?  Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family

Random: Sobolewski, Bankowski, Jurko. Rubiezewicze, Stolpce, Nowogrodek.
Archives / 2009 / Relationships, Marriage /posts: 56


This forum is archived (read-only).
Category:
© 2005-2010 PolishForums.com | PolishForums LIVE | Archives | Random | Statistics