Polish girls attitude - what should I know about the behaviour of Polish girls?

dnz:

I'm not really sure if Polish women are better looking than portugese women but one thing is for sure they will treat you badly, try to control everything you do, be rude to your family, try to take you for every penny you have. They will expect you to spend every waking moment visiting members of their family and if you have a car you will be expected to ferry members of their family around at antisocial hours with no thanks in return.

I think that just about sums it up, so best of luck to you.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Edited by: Moderator Jun 2, 09, 13:57 / #
Hi! I am a Portuguese who has a relationship with a Polish girl. I Love her a lot and see a future together. I do know that there are diferences in our cultures although we are both from catholic countries. My question: Is there relevant things that I should know in my behaivour towards polish girls ? Can any girl on the forum help me? Thank you!

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Jun 2, 09, 14:07 / #
Hone your legal skills, Mr Lawyer ;) Just kidding, just look for compatibilities and be prepared to stand your ground. Compromises can be a little harder to strike here than back home. The Princess Syndrome makes sure of that. Still, you are likely getting a very valuable partner and Polish women tend to be highly domesticated and motherly. I'm impressed with the vast array of talents that my fiancee has. Good luck and don't be afraid to ask more specific questions to which I will reply with generalisations ;) ;)

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	Jun 2, 09, 18:20 / #
I think you have to ask more specific questions. But you will learn more and more about Polish culture. These kind of couples usually end up living in Poland sooner or later, so you will have a lot of time to get to know these things.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Jun 3, 09, 19:18 / #
Thank you both for your response. stoked to be in a polish forum! I will try to be more specific although I have to think on the right questions to get the right answers.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Jun 3, 09, 19:40 / #
Seanus, What do you mean with "be prepared to stand your ground?" Thanks

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Jun 3, 09, 21:24 / #
hope you have deep pockets.

stevegwThreads: 2 Posts: 5 Joined: May 20, 09	Jun 3, 09, 21:55 / #
I think Polish women are very good mothers so if/when you are looking to start a family she will shine even more

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Jun 3, 09, 22:03 / #
way general statement.. some women are good mothers some are terrible.. it has nothing to do with nationality but upbringing.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Jun 3, 09, 22:14 / #
They can be quite demanding and will go far to get their own way. You need to lay down some ground rules, otherwise you'll be trampled on.

PlasticPoleThreads: 10 Posts: 5,429 Joined: May 28, 09	Jun 4, 09, 00:12 / #
Polish girls and women are awesome. They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life. If you have a Polish gf consider yourself one of the luckiest men in the world!

fred_chopin	Jun 4, 09, 00:21 / #
pgtx: ...and you should pray every night and every morning to her picture and thank your god that she's in your life! Oh boy, we are surrounded!

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER	Jun 4, 09, 00:25 / #
PlasticPole: that sounds good to me :) We, Polish women, cannot let this tradition to die! Never! :)

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Jun 4, 09, 14:19 / #
Yeah, PP has let her lesbian tendencies obscure her better judgement. It's absolute nonsense to say that a whole race deserves something.

PLC73Threads: 1 Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 14, 09	Jun 14, 09, 07:10 / #
In my humble opinion I think the problem (if any at all) is that Portuguese and Polish don't know much about each others culture and life style, nor they have any common background (apart from football matches and the Great Smolarek in 1986 - for those who are old enough to remember!). I tell you one thing though, so far from all the Polish girls/women I've met are quite friendly and have pretty similar interests and qualities to Portuguese ones. It might seem a bold sentence but hey... maybe I've been lucky so far with the people I've met. Give yourselves time to know each other and I'm sure soon enough you'll forget about the nationality issue. Also: polsky You can certainly find that in any country (the mindgames and cheating!) however regarding beauty... coff coff... let's call it a draw for today ;-) Boa sorte! (Powodzenia!)

fred_chopin	Jun 4, 09, 00:18 / #
PlasticPole: They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life Spoken like a true Polish girl. Not biased in any way, are you PP?

PlasticPoleThreads: 10 Posts: 5,429 Joined: May 28, 09	Jun 4, 09, 00:19 / #
fred_chopin: Spoken like a true Polish girl. Not biased in any way, are you PP? Everything I said is true. Polish women are great and deserve the best. They should be demanding because they are worth it!

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER	Jun 4, 09, 00:20 / #
PlasticPole: Polish girls and women are awesome. They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life. If you have a Polish gf consider yourself one of the luckiest men in the world! ...and you should pray every night and every morning to her picture and thank your god that she's in your life!

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Jun 4, 09, 01:32 / #
I´m not gonna tell you that Broh! (PLK 123)

SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13 Posts: 1,915 Joined: Feb 21, 09	Jun 4, 09, 01:38 / #
PlasticPole: Polish girls and women are awesome. They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life. If you have a Polish gf consider yourself one of the luckiest men in the world! All kind of personalities exist in Poland (as in all other countries). I have met wonderful Polish girls here in Poland, but I have also met idiots.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Jun 4, 09, 01:43 / #
Seanus: They can be quite demanding and will go far to get their own way. You need to lay down some ground rules, otherwise you'll be trampled on. Thank you. That sounds like a good piece of advice. WB

scrappletonThreads: - Posts: 1,365 Joined: Apr 28, 09	Jun 4, 09, 01:44 / #
PlasticPole: Polish girls and women are awesome. They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life Unfortunately, you are rarely benevolent despots.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Edited by: waterboy Jun 4, 09, 01:45 / #
stevegw: I think Polish women are very good mothers so if/when you are looking to start a family she will shine even more That is important to know at some point. Thanks

polskyThreads: 5 Posts: 98 Joined: May 26, 09	Jun 7, 09, 20:28 / #
typical polish woman will be playing mindgames a lot of mindgames she will usually cheat on you. a lot of times. and you will not find out but look on the bright side... they are better looking than the typical portuguese woman... ;)

dnzThreads: 25 Posts: 804 Joined: Dec 2, 07	Jun 7, 09, 22:07 / #
I'm not really sure if Polish women are better looking than portugese women but one thing is for sure they will treat you badly, try to control everything you do, be rude to your family, try to take you for every penny you have. They will expect you to spend every waking moment visiting members of their family and if you have a car you will be expected to ferry members of their family around at antisocial hours with no thanks in return. I think that just about sums it up, so best of luck to you.

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Jun 7, 09, 22:49 / #
Polish girls like to play with men and have lots of boyfriends.

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jun 13, 09, 21:03 / #
dnz dnz: I'm not really sure if Polish women are better looking than portugese women but one thing is for sure they will treat you badly, try to control everything you do, be rude to your family, try to take you for every penny you have. They will expect you to spend every waking moment visiting members of their family and if you have a car you will be expected to ferry members of their family around at antisocial hours with no thanks in return. I think that just about sums it up, so best of luck to you. What are you smoking????

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jun 14, 09, 07:56 / #
SzwedwPolsce: PlasticPole: Polish girls and women are awesome. They deserve to be treated like queens and princesses and deserve only the best in life. If you have a Polish gf consider yourself one of the luckiest men in the world! All kind of personalities exist in Poland (as in all other countries). I have met wonderful Polish girls here in Poland, but I have also met idiots. I agree with this, maybe we should first meet the Polish girl before we go about praising her and treating her like a princess. Sure, while they are generally great, there are a few rotten ones in the bottom just like in any place.

waterboyThreads: 1 Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2, 09	Jun 15, 09, 12:43 / #
All the comments very good! some of them really funny!! Nevertheless, I will take my chances! Thanks for the boa sorte PLC73!

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 [Suspended]	Jun 15, 09, 16:26 / #
Seanus: Just kidding Yes he was, except he wasnt at all :)))