My polish guy left me!!! Why do people post that here?

becska:

Actually I did meet a great polish guy but there was no promise of marriage at all. We just had a great time together and when he left to go home that was the end. He didn't take my money and run or leave me stranded. I hope to meet another guy who I can make that happy and can make me happy! :)

NPosuniakThreads: 11 Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 25, 09	Jul 7, 09, 04:53 / #
What's with all the "my polish bf/soulmate/lover said he wanted to marry me and be with me forever JUST LEFT out of nowhere!?!?! I had no clue this was going to happen.........." women on here? Do they expect thier polish escapee to read their thread and come back? He's gone for a reason.

becskaThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 27, 09	Jul 7, 09, 05:20 / #
Wow aren't you a friendly sort. It is unfortunate that these women have had the heartache that was caused by these men. And it would be the same if it was men posting about women. Have a heart, this is just their way to get over the heartache.

NPosuniakThreads: 11 Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 25, 09	Edited by: NPosuniak Jul 7, 09, 05:28 / #
becska: Wow aren't you a friendly sort. It is unfortunate that these women have had the heartache that was caused by these men. And it would be the same if it was men posting about women. Have a heart, this is just their way to get over the heartache. I wasn't trying to being mean. I just thought it was strange that there were quite a few of these in the short time I have been a member. I meant no malice. I am friendly. I guess I just have kind of a dry sense of humor.....

becskaThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 27, 09	Jul 7, 09, 05:33 / #
That's the problem with posting conversation, you may mean it as light hearted or in a joking manner but to the person reading it could be interpreted wrong. I wasn't trying to be harsh but if you have had your heart broken you do almost anything to get over it.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Jul 7, 09, 05:43 / #
NPosuniak: He's gone for a reason. agreed.. and in many of these threads it's pretty evident why... :D :D

becskaThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 27, 09	Jul 7, 09, 05:50 / #
Why then, if you know so much?

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Jul 7, 09, 05:57 / #
read those threads.. i have faith that you can figure it out all on your own. :D

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,834 Joined: Dec 23, 06	Jul 7, 09, 06:06 / #
NPosuniak: What's with all the "my polish bf/soulmate/lover said he wanted to marry me and be with me forever JUST LEFT out of nowhere!?!?! I had no clue this was going to happen.........." women on here? I think a lot more men post messages like that on here.

NPosuniakThreads: 11 Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 25, 09	Edited by: NPosuniak Jul 7, 09, 06:39 / #
becska: That's the problem with posting conversation, you may mean it as light hearted or in a joking manner but to the person reading it could be interpreted wrong. I wasn't trying to be harsh but if you have had your heart broken you do almost anything to get over it. Let me guess, you joined this forum to post something about your missing pole too!!!!! jk. If somebody is on the internet posting their life and intimate relationships they are opening themselves up for whatever other people want to say. Jokes, Sentiment, Hate, Ridicule, Compassion, whatever it may be. shewolf: I think a lot more men post messages like that on here. I haven't come across a single one yet. I'm sure they have and will though.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07	Jul 7, 09, 06:52 / #
there have been a few guys here and there but it's mostly women posting this stuff..

sadieannThreads: 4 Posts: 320 Joined: Apr 28, 09	Jul 8, 09, 19:26 / #
iluvmaciej: i dont know about you guys but if the polish boy i like hated me i would kill myself X¬l First, your PF name: iluvmaciej? How old are you? Please tell me your not serious...? If so, I would suggest counseling...

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Jul 8, 09, 19:58 / #
ShelleyS: Its not only women that post, check out what some of the men wrote too, they're even better :0) Having been left by their girlfriends they have to return to their wives too ;) Life can be tough:

Jihozapad	Edited by: Jihozapad Jul 8, 09, 19:59 / #
ShelleyS: They all went back to their wives ;0) Cheaper than going down the pub innit :) (complaining about it on here, that is) ShelleyS: Stick around, you'll find a lot of it quite entertaining! Its not only women that post, check out what some of the men wrote too, they're even better :0) Don't look at me! lol ;)

sadieannThreads: 4 Posts: 320 Joined: Apr 28, 09	Jul 8, 09, 20:01 / #
iluvmaciej: lol im 13 and im not kidding It doesn't sound like you are. Your 13 and want to kill yourself if a guy doesn't like you? Puppy Love.. You have your whole life ahead of you. Never let someone else determine your happiness. You can be anything, your just starting out. Don't rely on anyone, but yourself.! lol? I'm serious this isn't something to say. Value your self. That is a solution that will haunt every one that loves you. Take Care. Keep talking. It sounds like you need to.

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 [Suspended]	Jul 7, 09, 08:41 / #
NPosuniak: What's with all the "my polish bf/soulmate/lover said he wanted to marry me and be with me forever JUST LEFT out of nowhere!?!?! I had no clue this was going to happen.........." women on here? Do they expect thier polish escapee to read their thread and come back? He's gone for a reason. Thats about 100 threads from old users having a laugh and about 5 from poor naive SOBs who think this forum helps becuase of the "Polish".

becskaThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 27, 09	Jul 8, 09, 03:57 / #
Actually I did meet a great polish guy but there was no promise of marriage at all. We just had a great time together and when he left to go home that was the end. He didn't take my money and run or leave me stranded. I hope to meet another guy who I can make that happy and can make me happy! :)

EurolaThreads: 6 Posts: 2,647 Joined: Dec 2, 06	Jul 8, 09, 04:49 / #
becska: I hope to meet another guy who I can make that happy and can make me happy! :) You go girl. Just don't make a polish guy your priority. Hehehehe.

NPosuniakThreads: 11 Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 25, 09	Jul 8, 09, 05:53 / #
becska: Actually I did meet a great polish guy but there was no promise of marriage at all. We just had a great time together and when he left to go home that was the end. He didn't take my money and run or leave me stranded. I hope to meet another guy who I can make that happy and can make me happy! :) Exactly! Mods changed my thread topic twice now. I read this one and I thought "hey! I made a thread just like that!" haha.

iluvmaciejThreads: 1 Posts: 4 Joined: Jul 7, 09	Jul 8, 09, 19:22 / #
well i guess theyre just sad and need someone to talk to... i dont know about you guys but if the polish boy i like hated me i would kill myself X¬l

NPosuniakThreads: 11 Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 25, 09	Jul 8, 09, 19:50 / #
ummm........ iluvmaciej: i dont know about you guys but if the polish boy i like hated me i would kill myself X¬l awkward.....

iluvmaciejThreads: 1 Posts: 4 Joined: Jul 7, 09	Jul 8, 09, 19:53 / #
lol im 13 and im not kidding

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Jul 8, 09, 19:56 / #
NPosuniak: What's with all the "my polish bf/soulmate/lover said he wanted to marry me and be with me forever JUST LEFT out of nowhere!?!?! They all went back to their wives ;0) Stick around, you'll find a lot of it quite entertaining! Its not only women that post, check out what some of the men wrote too, they're even better :0)

Jihozapad	Jul 8, 09, 20:02 / #
13????? try being THIRTY and getting dumped - that's 10x worse!!!! :)

sadieannThreads: 4 Posts: 320 Joined: Apr 28, 09	Jul 8, 09, 20:08 / #
Jihozapad: 13????? try being THIRTY and getting dumped - that's 10x worse!!!! :) Funny..See he lived to tell.

Jihozapad	Jul 8, 09, 20:13 / #
sadieann: Funny..See he lived to tell. I did, haha. Never give up, me! :)

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Jul 8, 09, 20:14 / #
Women have more of a need to get their feelings out, that's why the do it. Still, I can see the point of the original poster

jump_bunnyThreads: 8 Posts: 332 Joined: May 14, 09	Edited by: jump_bunny Jul 8, 09, 20:17 / #
NPosuniak: women Also men do that. They're people with problems. http://www.polishforums.com/poland-relationships-36/story-of-8988/

dtaylor5632Threads: 49 Posts: 4,459 Joined: May 2, 09	Jul 8, 09, 20:18 / #
jump_bunny: Also men do that. They're people with problems. Not all of us babe ;)

jump_bunnyThreads: 8 Posts: 332 Joined: May 14, 09	Jul 8, 09, 20:19 / #
dtaylor5632: Not all of us babe ;) Of course not :-)

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Jul 8, 09, 20:33 / #
z_darius: Having been left by their girlfriends they have to return to their wives too ;) Aint that just the truth! ;0) Jihozapad: Cheaper than going down the pub innit :) Id say the pub is slightly better though.. z_darius: Life can be tough: Thats brilliant LOL! Don't you just love country and western music! Jihozapad: Don't look at me! lol ;) Hey, I said nothing, you sound like you've got something to hide - care to share? ;0) Jihozapad: 13????? try being THIRTY and getting dumped - that's 10x worse!!!! :) Nah, at 30 you've had some practice! (obviously not me, Im a dumper never a dumpee) dtaylor5632: Not all of us babe ;) You're obviously a dumper!