Any polish women who are married to muslim people?

DzikaRoza020:

He likes to be in control sometimes, and I don't mind that, because I also have some control and my opinions count. I try my best to make him happy, and he does the same for me. I try to be a little careful with my words sometimes as to not make him angry, but thats because i don't want unecessary fights. He watches over me, and helps me with everything
So what if he gets angry? It's a common thing, and he is trying to work on changing it. He knows he gets angry for stupid reasons sometimes, and i'm going to be there to help him calm down when he does.

DzikaRoza020Threads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 14, 09	Mar 15, 09, 23:11 / #
I don't mind converting to marry him, because I've looked into his religion and it does make sense to me. If i were to marry him, nothing would change. I wouldn't be treated any different than I am now, and his family has little say in his actions.

WulkanThreads: 1 Posts: 292 Joined: Dec 28, 07	Mar 15, 09, 23:53 / #
MrBubbles: loads of White, Christian English women who are happy to go out with and even marry Muslim men. I live in the most invaded by muslims city in England witch is Birmingham in West Midlands and I have seen only a couple of times (usually very ugly and fat) white woman with very good looking musslim man who could have a nice muslim girl but coulor matters too much for him. white woman --> brighter kids --> higher class MrBubbles: They generally think Polish men are a dead loss though and won't go near them. I showed that to my English girlfriend and she had a proper laugh :D besides that is why there is so many English woman on this forum having relationship with Polish men or seeking advice about them. MrBubbles: Funny Yes, Stacy said youre funny, you made her laugh DzikaRoza020: I like to hear opinions, thats why i posted my question up on the forums I think you like to hear only those opinions wich you want to hear so listen up to my opinion Im sure you'll love it :D Muslim men are the greatest, purest and best men in the world, they never make mistakes never lie and never abuse women, they treat them like godess, they are incredibly inteligent, and never cry and every muslim man has as much courage as all non muslim men in the world all together, they are more handsome then Apollo and stronger then Hercules... in short words each of them is a God on earth! and your muslim man is the best men of all muslim men so do not hesitate and marry him before its too late. Amen

DzikaRoza020Threads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 14, 09	Mar 16, 09, 01:11 / #
Wow Wulkan, I am amazed by your comment. I have never heard anyone say something like that to me in my whole life. Your right, I love what you wrote! It feels like someone finally understands how great muslim guys can be. My guy is like a god, and I respect him more than any other guy i've ever seen. I'm definitely not letting him go, and I do intend to marry him in the future. He has told me i'm his one and only, and I know he would give me the world and everything on it if he could. Such loyalty, and affection is not easy to behold.

Filios1Threads: 15 Posts: 1,953 Joined: Nov 13, 07	Mar 16, 09, 01:46 / #
DzikaRoza020: I don't mind converting to marry him Then do it then, and don't come crying later and wishing you didn't.

ragtime27Threads: 1 Posts: 245 Joined: Feb 20, 09	Mar 16, 09, 02:23 / #
DzikaRoza020: I don't mind converting to marry him piece of advice,whatever you do don't convert for his sake,read about it with an open mind for sometimes if you still feel strong about it then do so. In Islam,you only convert for god's sake not for anybody sake. Here's link I googled out for a start. http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=30093 http://www.thepolishmuslims.com/master.html

BzibziohThreads: 6 Posts: 3,648 Joined: Oct 15, 08	Mar 16, 09, 02:29 / #
DzikaRoza020: Your right, I love what you wrote! It feels like someone finally understands how great muslim guys can be. Sorry, honey but Wulcan was sarcastic. You obviously want to hear only what you want to hear. Well, that girl I told you about earlier was like you now - he is the one, the best, fantastic, I'm not prejudiced, I have no problem converting etc etc - and now she is too ashamed to come back to town and show her face around. She moved to another. One advice: talk to his mother and try to have honest chitchat about her life. That would give you some clue.

DzikaRoza020Threads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 14, 09	Edited by: DzikaRoza020 Mar 16, 09, 02:49 / #
Well, it's nice to have someone back you up for a change. =( Everyone thinks that this relationship I have is doomed no matter what effort I put into it, but I strongly disagree. I'm just trying to follow my heart, and do what I think will make me the happiest. I didn't meet his family yet, but i've been wanting to meet his mother, he really respects her. From what I know already though, she dresses normally, and is an equal in the household. Ragtime, I did read a lot about Islam already, and I understand it. I'm not just going to convert for him, but for myself. I'd like to follow the religion, it makes more sense to me than catholicism. Bzibzioh another thing, that girl from your story made a really big mistake by going to live with him in his home country. I've heard so many stories of women being held prisoners in muslim countries. But my guy wasn't born in the middle east, but in the caribbean. He has no family to go back to in the middle east.

ragtime27Threads: 1 Posts: 245 Joined: Feb 20, 09	Edited by: ragtime27 Mar 16, 09, 03:10 / #
DzikaRoza020: Ragtime, I did read a lot about Islam already, and I understand it. I'm not just going to convert for him, but for myself. I'd like to follow the religion, it makes more sense to me than catholicism. I'm not doubting your commitment,you mentioned above DzikaRoza020: I don't mind converting to marry him DzikaRoza020: but he did tell me that if I want to marry him, I'll have to convert best of luck

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09	Mar 16, 09, 03:48 / #
DzikaRoza020: He likes to be in control sometimes, and I don't mind that, because I also have some control and my opinions count. I try my best to make him happy, and he does the same for me. I try to be a little careful with my words sometimes as to not make him angry, but thats because i don't want unecessary fights. He watches over me, and helps me with everything So what if he gets angry? It's a common thing, and he is trying to work on changing it. He knows he gets angry for stupid reasons sometimes, and i'm going to be there to help him calm down when he does. I'm seeing red flags.

Olek SThreads: - Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 10, 09	Mar 16, 09, 03:51 / #
I am a former Moslem. Now I am a Roman Catholic.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,160 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Mar 16, 09, 11:33 / #
Why is that so hard to believe, MrBubbles? Many people convert religions.

mafketisThreads: 15 Posts: 1,830 Joined: Mar 31, 08	Mar 16, 09, 11:45 / #
Muslims try very hard to prevent other Muslims from either openly converting to other religions or publicly indicating unbelief. Many everyday Muslims are, of course, sensible and don't much care. But the minority of loudmouths who threaten (and carry out) violence to prevent conversion are in the ascendent (and not generally publicly criticised by other Muslims).

MrBubblesThreads: 13 Posts: 768 Joined: Nov 13, 07	Mar 16, 09, 18:00 / #
Olek S: Lol. I am a Kazakh (the Turkic people). I am not a Slavonian. I was a Moslem, I have studied Judaism, finally I became a RC. That's a hell of a mix you have there - you get a lot of holidays I guess but doing lent and ramadan at the same time must be an arse... So why did you convert? I suppose your parents are Muslim and Christian?

pgtxThreads: 48 Posts: 6,269 Joined: Feb 14, 09 [Moderator]	Mar 16, 09, 18:34 / #
ShelleyS: don't come on here in 2 years time crying about how repressed you are! hahaha... classic statement ShelleyS... ;)

MrBubblesThreads: 13 Posts: 768 Joined: Nov 13, 07	Mar 16, 09, 11:25 / #
Olek S: I am a former Moslem. Now I am a Roman Catholic. Really?

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Mar 16, 09, 12:04 / #
DzikaRoza020: He hasn't asked me to become muslim now, but he did tell me that if I want to marry him, I'll have to convert. He also said he wanted to have a muslim He is lying to you, Muslims are allowed to marrying Christians and Jews - they are not allowed to marry Hindus or Buddists. So maybe you should ask him where in the Koran it says you have to "convert" to marry? mephias: Only thing that I can say he must accept you as you are as you accept him. (You must not convert, if you don't feel comfortable also don't accept any religious requests.) In a modern world things should work like this. Spot on!

DzikaRoza020Threads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 14, 09	Mar 16, 09, 15:50 / #
He is lying to you, Muslims are allowed to marrying Christians and Jews - they are not allowed to marry Hindus or Buddists. So maybe you should ask him where in the Koran it says you have to "convert" to marry? I actually read the same thing online, but I think he also wants me to convert so we don't have religious differences in our marriage, and it's easier on us. But He did say he wants to be married under his god, and for that i'll have to be muslim. I also think he might be testing how far I would go for him.

z_dariusThreads: 22 Posts: 5,091 Joined: Oct 18, 07	Mar 16, 09, 16:10 / #
DzikaRoza020: Ragtime, I did read a lot about Islam already, and I understand it. You read about it huh? Have you lived it in a Muslim environment? On paper the woman is surely treated well, but I'm not so sure about reality. Do some more reading from some female victims of those Muslim "love affairs". Good luck to you.

Olek SThreads: - Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 10, 09	Mar 16, 09, 16:18 / #
MrBubbles: Really? Aha.

MrBubblesThreads: 13 Posts: 768 Joined: Nov 13, 07	Mar 16, 09, 16:51 / #
Olek S: MrBubbles: Really? Aha. Well well. Forgive me but it's unusual to hear that from a Pole. You are Polish by birth? Either way, why did you convert?

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Edited by: ShelleyS Mar 16, 09, 17:01 / #
DzikaRoza020: I actually read the same thing online, but I think he also wants me to convert so we don't have religious differences in our marriage, and it's easier on us. Marriage is marriage, the only difference is he will try and enforce Sharia law on you if you convert, it is not easier, it's a "control" thing, it's also probably to please his family. DzikaRoza020: But He did say he wants to be married under his god, and for that i'll have to be muslim. I also think he might be testing how far I would go for him. Now I know he is lying to you! Your god is his god! Allah was a profit, NOT GOD! For someone who says they have looked into this religion, you really do not know an awful lot. He is manipulating you and feeding you lies.

pgtxThreads: 48 Posts: 6,269 Joined: Feb 14, 09 [Moderator]	Mar 16, 09, 17:08 / #
i've read this thread and it's very interesting... i see that you love that guy but i've got doubts... you didn't convince me that you are not doing that (convert) for his sake... would you convert if you aren't be with him? be yourself, don't lose who you are, stand by your believes... in this relationship, you BOTH have to make compromises... just reading about religion is not enough to convert, because you'll have to actually LIVE IT...

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09	Mar 16, 09, 17:13 / #
Good advice, ladies. But don't you find the abuse most disturbing?

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Mar 16, 09, 17:17 / #
pgtx: i've read this thread and it's very interesting... i see that you love that guy but i've got doubts... you didn't convince me that you are not doing that (convert) for his sake... would you convert if you aren't be with him? be yourself, don't lose who you are, stand by your believes... in this relationship, you BOTH have to make compromises... just reading about religion is not enough to convert, because you'll have to actually LIVE IT... Absolutely. Also, what I am seeing is him telling her lies about what Islams dictates, when in reality it is him doing the dictating and nothing at all to do with religion. Not really surprising muslims do this all the time, no wonder their religion has a bad name for itself!

Olek SThreads: - Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 10, 09	Mar 16, 09, 17:23 / #
MrBubbles: Well well. Forgive me but it's unusual to hear that from a Pole. You are Polish by birth? Either way, why did you convert? Lol. I am a Kazakh (the Turkic people). I am not a Slavonian. I was a Moslem, I have studied Judaism, finally I became a RC.

Olek SThreads: - Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 10, 09	Edited by: Olek S Mar 16, 09, 18:06 / #
Because I have found that I looked for. I have lived in Turkey for 4 years. My parents (former members of the CPSU) and brother do not strongly believe in anything. No, we do not celebrate any holiday, unless Sylvester (New Year).

DzikaRoza020Threads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 14, 09	Mar 16, 09, 18:11 / #
Allah was a profit, NOT GOD! Allah wasn't a prophet, Allah is god, Allah means god. That's just like saying Jesus wasn't god, he was a prophet. I don't think he would be lying to me, he hates lies. He also knows a lot about his religion, as well as all the others, and he likes to explain it all to me. He's not trying to force me into anything, he is just telling me to look at things with an open mind. I also don't think he's trying to control me. He doesn't want me to convert just to be with him, but he actually wants me to understand his religion and follow it, which I intend to do. He is trying to make me as happy as possible, not miserable. would you convert if you aren't be with him? I don't know if I would convert to Islam if i wasn't with him, but I would definitely convert from catholicism. I'm always myself, and he's not trying to make me a different person. We have a lot of communication and honesty in our relationship, and we like to compromise.

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Mar 16, 09, 18:31 / #
DzikaRoza020: Allah wasn't a prophet, Allah is god, Allah means god. That's just like saying Jesus wasn't god, he was a prophet. My mistake I knew what I meant, Jesus is the son of god, not a prophet by the way! DzikaRoza020: I don't think he would be lying to me, he hates lies. He also knows a lot about his religion, as well as all the others, and he likes to explain it all to me. He's not trying to force me into anything, he is just telling me to look at things with an open mind. I also don't think he's trying to control me. He doesn't want me to convert just to be with him, but he actually wants me to understand his religion and follow it, which I intend to do. He is trying to make me as happy as possible, not miserable. I have already proven twice where he has lied! Also most muslims dont actually understand the Koran since they learn it "parot" fashion! DzikaRoza020: I don't know if I would convert to Islam if i wasn't with him, but I would definitely convert from catholicism. I'm always myself, and he's not trying to make me a different person. We have a lot of communication and honesty in our relationship, and we like to compromise. Do what you want, I dont really care, but don't come on here in 2 years time crying about how repressed you are!

niejestemcapitaThreads: 3 Posts: 666 Joined: Jan 3, 09	Mar 16, 09, 18:38 / #
ShelleyS: repressed oppressed. Soz Shellz I am feeling pedantic

still_wisherThreads: 7 Posts: 186 Joined: Mar 9, 08	Edited by: still_wisher Mar 16, 09, 18:48 / #
i'm sorry to write any comment here !! simply bc i'm muslim married to polish we r togther for almost 2 years and evrything seems really fine and cool !! relegions respect and love around ... don't you guys hv any good stories !!! i'm sure there r , i was reading all this and it sounded really hard sometimes .. i don't know why some r blaming the islam and some blaming the arab ... nevermind i can understand this ppl looking for bad stories to make general fact like media .. for the girl who started this .. i got little confused what exactly ur problem u sounds like u want to find one , but i'm muslim and i also hv to tell u it's not easy if ur love is not strong enough even if u'll be a muslim ..