The "1st" move (Who makes it?)(lost in literal translation) (the saga continues)

miaxxx:

1: is she expecting me to "be the man" (i hate these expressions im using im just trying to make it simple in explanation) and "make the first move" (do polish guys do this in old fashioned "gentleman" sense of the meaning?)

I would say she is. For the men-women relations most of PL people are rather traditional meaning the girl lets the guy know she likes him but it's the guy who has to make the first move. You don't have to be old fashioned, just be respectful.

2: was her message a literal translation of something in polish?? (for example italians have "ti voglio bene" ( i want you well)

miaxxxThreads: 6 Posts: 24 Joined: Nov 7, 09	Nov 21, 09, 23:10 / #
so.......... i was just wondering ladies!! (please guys no vulgarities or grammatical exercise) "generally" does a polish lady expect the guy to make "the first" move??? im slightly confused! we have barely kissed!! but i have received messages such as "i send my love to you" so 2 questions (to this confusing (for me) thread) 1: is she expecting me to "be the man" (i hate these expressions im using im just trying to make it simple in explanation) and "make the first move" (do polish guys do this in old fashioned "gentleman" sense of the meaning?) 2: was her message a literal translation of something in polish?? (for example italians have "ti voglio bene" ( i want you well) any ideas? help? please stick to topic though guys!! and no macho "give it to her with ice cream" or "salp her with a fish" etc etc as i have seen posted around!! cheers miaxxx

NikaThreads: 3 Posts: 651 Joined: Jul 21, 09	Nov 21, 09, 23:22 / #
miaxxx: 1: is she expecting me to "be the man" (i hate these expressions im using im just trying to make it simple in explanation) and "make the first move" (do polish guys do this in old fashioned "gentleman" sense of the meaning?) I would say she is. For the men-women relations most of PL people are rather traditional meaning the girl lets the guy know she likes him but it's the guy who has to make the first move. You don't have to be old fashioned, just be respectful. 2: was her message a literal translation of something in polish?? (for example italians have "ti voglio bene" ( i want you well) sorry, can't think about any particular expression in PL... good luck!

motomanThreads: 1 Posts: 7 Joined: Sep 20, 09	Nov 22, 09, 00:20 / #
I think that maybe you can read in to things a little too much because the girl is Polish. Forget all the first move stuff, what does it matter? You like her, she likes you so just get on with the start of something good. Take it slow and see how things progress over the next 6 weeks.

miaxxxThreads: 6 Posts: 24 Joined: Nov 7, 09	Nov 22, 09, 10:38 / #
Nika thanks nika!!

chelle2926Threads: 2 Posts: 5 Joined: Aug 28, 09	Nov 22, 09, 15:24 / #
i may not be polish but as a woman i know i definitely like it if the man makes the first move for the simple reason of knowing he is interested in me. if i have given enough subtle and (sometimes not subtle if the guy isn't getting it) hints that i like him in the romantical sense then yes he needs to make the first move. because for women sometimes we want to be romanced and feel the guy has the balls to actually step up to the plate and take charge without the woman having to wear a neon sign saying kiss me. hope that helps alittle.....oh and im not saying you need to tear off her clothes or anything...but slow progression is very nice...it shows you are into her...oh and personally im a sap for this move...it works everytime..... you lean in and put your hands on the sides of her face and slowing bring her towards you and just a brush of the lips once or twice...lean back and look in her eyes....then move in slowly again and just slowly devour her lips like you havent kissed any other girl that matters....it works everytime....surefire way to make the first move...

miaxxxThreads: 6 Posts: 24 Joined: Nov 7, 09	Nov 22, 09, 23:00 / #
chelle2926 wow chelle ;-) that was nice!!! cheers!!!