What does the silence mean?

nincompoop_not:

You say problems solved with capitals, I say after Coco - I will marry you when I become independent of you (when her business partner and lover apparently proposed).
could be the case. Polish women, at least some, are proud and independent.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Oct 22, 09, 12:18 / #
Szarlotka, I'd do that. Done that before several times. When I was like a dead butterflies were turning around my head. With my little movement of even my eyelid they were running away, or i was scaring them? No, this one is a cat. She grabbed a bite on my throat. And, suddenly disappeared. Maybe, she's hiding herself behind this hill so that this pigeon will die and then she'll eat? I'm trying to stay alive. Maybe, I can play a role and stay like I'm dead so that she can approach to eat the victim. But, I'm not a good player. I won't die. Either she'll eat me alive or she'll die due to hunger.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Oct 22, 09, 13:07 / #
Definitely seagull. They know how to pick a fish from peak. (uuufffff, i thing i scary again.)

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Oct 25, 09, 16:00 / #
SamRen: silence could also mean SHE IS NOT SURE!!! and is in between YES or NO... If there wasn't this probability, this thread wouldn't have existed here. (Ok, for up. hey silent, hear the voice of word. So......... ? )

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Oct 30, 09, 13:54 / #
hard to understand women. is it possible that she may be waiting an offer in public? when to believe women? in private talks or publics? for me, it doesnt matter as i say same everywhere in public or in private "i too am a socialist." now, if she is really waiting this friendship offer in public, i can do that too. Gosia, Would you like to be my girlfriend? Czy chcia abyo byæ moj dziewczyn? (if you dont answer, i threatening to shake your biz works more and harder.)

BleedingRomeoThreads: 3 Posts: 47 Joined: Oct 24, 09	Nov 3, 09, 13:40 / #
Rule number 1: Make the girl feel she is special, try your ass out Rule numer 2: Get to know her, share little extract more Rule number 3: Whenever get a chance sleep with her, but try skipping few times after first. Rule number 4: Start backing off slowly Rule number 5: Make the girl tell you you are special Rule number 6: Rule number four reply to her love in pieces and not like before Rule number 7: Now use your love in dopes to keep her interested in relationship Warning: skipping any rule can cause undesired results and side effects. Women are of strange nature, they only come when you dont want them so keep them feeling that they are not the one and only in the world

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Nov 3, 09, 14:19 / #
Rule number one:Get the banan out of your asss. Rule number two:Start peeing as well and not only banging. Rule number three:Get out of Europe

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Nov 3, 09, 14:23 / #
BleedingRomeo agree with all these rules on the flirting road. (i feel good when getting advices from a guy much younger than me a novice.) actually, i've thought many more rules. but, not applied practically any. at the end, after long serious and series of thoughts, i decided to do this. i saying only this to her, basically "i giving all capitals in the world (by working in that direction) to you females and i'll give her all money i'll make when living together in the same house. just, give me a little money for my some basic needs. this enough." who cares if house, car, etc are on her name. this must be so as women need guarantee and this is correct. think baby. what if men leaves them after baby born? baby needs milk and milk means food and food means money. have been unable to convince her yet even though giving everythings. whats missing here? she still silent. i can think of two things she doesnt like me or she has her own private problems. but, all private problems including health problems can be solved easily by my approach on "capitals" above. i can prove this. what left? she maybe not liking me. ok, then, say a no clearly by putting words side by side as a paragraph and i'll respect and will pass and will walk around, maybe, meet another one who may like me. no, this saying nothing. a strange silence.

SenachThreads: 2 Posts: 100 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 14:28 / #
The silent treatment is a manipulation ploy,there is a book you can read "the games people play" Eric Berne,it might help.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Nov 3, 09, 14:46 / #
i dont think i need to read any book. if i was playing any game, i could think about reading that book. if i was playing any game like Romeo above doing, i could think the silence too was a game, thinking action reaction principle. i saying everythings clearly, so, i dont think her this silence is a game. if so, she is still raw then.

nincompoop_notThreads: 4 Posts: 229 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 14:54 / #
i agree with all the reasons above and add something else Lack of 'no' might mean she is unsure AND/OR keeps her options open. Something better comes along and she goes for it. And then she says clear 'no'. You say problems solved with capitals, I say after Coco - I will marry you when I become independent of you (when her business partner and lover apparently proposed). could be the case. Polish women, at least some, are proud and independent. However, if she's been giving you a silent treatment for a year, I'd say - just go, leave her behind in the silent misery and look forward to bright future.

nincompoop_notThreads: 4 Posts: 229 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 16:05 / #
nomaderol let's leave children out of the equasion for now. it's a different matter in a relationship. seems to me you still want a 'contract' - i'll give you all i have just be with me. already, 90% of females are being bought in this system. maybe she's the one who isn't? reminds of a friend who used to teach Enlgish in Poland years ago. Fell for a girl, courted her, she was nice to him, but not giving him any hope. He asked for my advice, I said - forget her. Few days later he asked again - what do you think? If I brought my car over from England, would she go out with me? i think it summs it up

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Nov 9, 09, 15:35 / #
today, exactly one year past. i said a light word. but, even a light word can get heavier and heaver in time machine. time means fatique, and this fatique stress may cause a small crack and it propagates till a quake happens in the earth surface, and, in the heart. (silent, please, speak, experiences have spoken enough and they all show heart break is an unrepairable damage. release the word to reliese the fatique stress slowly.) ps: my last post in this thread. snoring in public hasnt worked either. maybe, i better stay with the silence alone.

SenachThreads: 2 Posts: 100 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 15:01 / #
So,can you clarify this for me please,does she live with you,how long has she given you the silent treatment,a little more information would be useful.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Nov 3, 09, 15:07 / #
nincompoop_not: You say problems solved with capitals, I say after Coco - I will marry you when I become independent of you (when her business partner and lover apparently proposed). could be the case. Polish women, at least some, are proud and independent. you probably didn't read my long previous post. if she is really proud to be independent, then, i offering full independency by giving all capitals in the world to females unlike her business partner/lover/whoever who giving a partial indepency that will lead to partial love that will result in unhappiness. no, your understanding of pride is a product of lack of logic. if she too thinking same, sorry, females, you are raws. (note: i not saying i doing favor by giving all capitals. i saying this is a must, requirement.)

BleedingRomeoThreads: 3 Posts: 47 Joined: Oct 24, 09	Edited by: BleedingRomeo Nov 3, 09, 15:08 / #
southern go to your room and do your homework! no video games until you growup! nomaderol: i feel good when getting advices from a guy much younger than me a novice. excuse me grandpa!

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Nov 3, 09, 15:09 / #
Still bleeding?

nincompoop_notThreads: 4 Posts: 229 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 15:23 / #
nomaderol you probably didn't read my long previous post I did. "i giving all capitals in the world (by working in that direction) to you females and i'll give her all money i'll make when living together in the same house. just, give me a little money for my some basic needs. this enough." Wrong. If i was living with my boyfriend, I wouldnt expect all his money. 50/50 for bills and other things that are shared. If we were engaged to be married or you were my partner and father of my child and living together, then it would be different. what if men leaves them after baby born? baby needs milk and milk means food and food means money. There's always alimony. And I'm sure there are some decent blokes who'd pay without alimony. have been unable to convince her yet even though giving everythings. maybe she doesn't want to be bought?

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Nov 3, 09, 15:47 / #
[quote=nincompoop_not][/quote] am after serious relationship like life partnership as females want. ok to this. you didnt get. i linked "money - food - milk - baby" not as alimony, but, just for reasoning why capitals to be owned by females is a must. this gives them full freedom. hence, i am offering i'll give all capitals/money to her i'll be making when living together. this is not a purchase/favor, just a requirement, giving guarantee to her and baby in case of anything unexpected happens to me. already, 90% of females are being bought in this system. what i am offering is no buy/sell of her unlike today world. why still doing these against me? just cause this poor nomad is educating you females about "what you should do" and you dont like my this education? ok, but, you already know love more than me. no?

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Nov 3, 09, 16:36 / #
when there is no baby/children then importance of women isn't important at all from the point of view of capital. they are same as men. no, i have nothing. a poor of money and capital. so, you cant say i am offering "contract." but, even if this is not said, there is a contract everywhere you already dont see. they buying you even without giving anything. i said. i am a poor one of money/capital, so, your English friend example isn't fitting me. now, you!ll probably say this "since i am a poor she doesnt want to be with me.", right? dont be shy, say it. however, lets not waste time. i myself am a money, priceless one. just like any human. so, as a human, we have brains, yes? then, lets go further and lets see where to meet first. where to meet.. togethership is based on the mentality, mind first. and my mentality says "capitals" everywhere have to be given to females. and this is cordially. as it is a must for baby milk, etc. if females thinking no more baby, who cares capitals, etc then. lets do sex sex sex and disappear on the earth in 100 years. so simple. if babies wanted as the big majority wants so, then, capitals should be put on the table and talk about them what to do. since capitals are about life and women are life, take capitals, yours. what shall i do as a man then? will live, love and simplify works for women and hence babies. what else can i do more, females? only thing left i not gave is my life. is there any money payment here to buy her? no. i not giving. she has to take all capitals and i not resisting against this challenge of her.

nincompoop_notThreads: 4 Posts: 229 Joined: Nov 3, 09	Nov 3, 09, 16:53 / #
so forget the 'capital' as well. She doesn't want you. If she did she wouldn't be silent for a year. Time to move on.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Nov 3, 09, 17:24 / #
long time ago, i forgot capital. if she doesnt want me, she should say this "no", a clear no with words as a paragraph. she doesnt have to do? for herself, she has to do. maybe, it is like she is ill and she has to take the aspirin. something like that. you give drugs to your children forcefully when necessary, dont you. like that.

nomaderolThreads: 7 Posts: 1,213 Joined: Oct 18, 09	Edited by: nomaderol Nov 5, 09, 10:56 / #
BleedingRomeo: Rule number 1: Make the girl feel she is special i see i a loser even at rule 1. i made her feel herself so much special that she must be viewing me now as a small ant carrying a heavy word to the nest.