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LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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I have rather fallen for a Polish man and am wondering what should i do - i am an English girl and speak no Polish - I have learnt a few words so next time i see him which will be this weekend i can make some kind of an impression.

I embaressed myself last time i saw him so much so he will never forget me, however when i see him next it will be in his work enviroment and we will be alone - shall i say nothing and leave well alone or should i flirt i have no idea? Any advice would really be appreciated Dziêkujê

Also any help with some compliments to throw him would be nice...
PlasticPoleThreads: 10
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Start spending all your time with him that way he will know you like him.
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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it really is not that simple i only know him because he is doing a job for me..
mvefaThreads: 11
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compliment him,,and if that does not work, just flash him :P hahaha
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Lennoxthecat

An English girl in England is a good catch for a Polish guy, I imagine. So unless there's something wrong with you, you shouldn't have any problems.
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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that could be easy as he is doing a tattoo for me lol!
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Lennoxthecat:
that could be easy as he is doing a tattoo for me lol!

You should have an easy time flirting during that.
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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plus i dont even know if he is taken..What if i make him uncomfortable - he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!
mvefaThreads: 11
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well if he has been "taken" at least once, then no hopes for you girl :P
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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Sorry how do you mean ... how can i find out without being obvious
mvefaThreads: 11
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Well that's easy, just ask him like what his hobbies are, and when he mentions it, ask if he does that with his girlfriend, then bingo, you know if he has a relationship or not.

Secondly you can go like "oh i have 2 tickets for a concert/movie/hamster race/etc, but my friend cancelled, i dont know who i should take with me...goal!! it is cute when a girl does that!
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Lennoxthecat:
plus i dont even know if he is taken..What if i make him uncomfortable - he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!

If he is really good looking and has a great personality you can pretty much assume he's got at least one girlfriend somewhere...
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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mvefa
Sorry how do you mean ... how can i find out without being obvious

ignore my double post new to this!

Really? He thinks im a good artist, im blonde have big boobs that should get my foot in the door no? I loose all confidence around a man i like ...and like i said i totally embarassed myself and i really do not know if my looks can get me out of that one, he may even not like blondes...last session my male friend was with me too, so at least this time we will be alone so we have to talk!!!
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Lennoxthecat:
Really? He thinks im a good artist, im blonde have big boobs that should get my foot in the door no? I loose all confidence around a man i like

You are fake!!!
This is not the way an English girl would talk.
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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what about one with low self-esteem! I assure you i am English born and bred!
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Slap him with a naked boob.
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Sokrates:
Slap him with a naked boob

hahaha indeed you will then get his attention, or maybe not...if he does not react to it, then he must gay haha...
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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Lol - i could do that! Basically i have only ever gone out with english guys, and for some reason have got it into my head that it's a whole different ball game when it comes to this. My brother is in a realtionship with a Japanese girl and they are set to marry soon and he has had to change so much - and i dont mind that - i would welcome that, but feel in the dark!

Totally getting ahead of myself

I have a picture on FB with me and him after my first session and it is so hard not to look at it all the time!
SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13
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Lennoxthecat:
My brother is in a realtionship with a Japanese girl

For sure there is a bigger difference between English and Japanese culture than between English and Polish.
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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yes there is a massive difference
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But it's impossible to say anything if one doesn't know anything about his personality. When it comes to English-Polish interactions, I think it depends (much) more on personality than native culture.
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Lennoxthecat:
Basically i have only ever gone out with english guys

We are absolutely no different than Brits, there are no special requirements, if he's some twisted serial killer keeping pickled babies in his closet thats because he's fvcked up not because he's Polish, treat him like you'd treat a Brit.
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well i really do not know much accept that i am very attracted to him and that he obviously is interested in the same things as i am (illustrating, tattooing) he has a sense of humour, maybe a little shy,i could be reading that wrong..

you are right i just need to be normal with him, any tips though would he find me using any polish words OTT or would that be flattering?

I would love to tell him how hot he was in Polish!
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Lennoxthecat:
he is doing a tattoo for me

Lennoxthecat:
he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!

So you have something in common and a topic of converstation.

Lennoxthecat:
without being obvious

I would just ask. You are going to chat while he is doing your tattoo, so I think it would be a normal to ask certain questions which will let you know if he is taken or not.

Lennoxthecat:
last session my male friend was with me too

He may have assumed he was your boyfriend.

Lennoxthecat:
he may even not like blondes

dont think you should worry about that.
Lennoxthecat:
Totally getting ahead of myself

relax, have fun and be yourself....nothing to lose :) go for it!!!
SzwedwPolsceThreads: 13
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Lennoxthecat:
well i really do not know much accept that i am very attracted to him and that he obviously is interested in the same things as i am (illustrating, tattooing) he has a sense of humour, maybe a little shy,i could be reading that wrong..

Just talk to him when you see him again, and then in the end, you ask if he wants to go out and have a beer after work or something like that. Don't make it too advanced, and try to relax.
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Telling him he's hot would be seen as a compliment and who doesn't want to be complimented? You should try that.
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PlasticPole:
Telling him he's hot would be seen as a compliment and who doesn't want to be complimented?

"Hi you're hot"
"Yeah i am wanna fvck?"

I dunno its either sockpuppet accounts or unadjusted loners posting here. How much trouble can asking someone on a date be ffs, worst he can do is say no.

"Want to grab a coffe after work?"
"No you're unzipped and your boner is sticking out"
"K... "

That simple.
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Sokrates:
-"Hi you're hot"
-"Yeah i am, wanna fvck?"

Always works. :)
LennoxthecatThreads: 1
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so should i say that in polish...
PlasticPoleThreads: 10
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I'm sure one of the nice guys posting here can help you with that, Lennoxthecat.
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