RomanaBrazil: OK, fine....now he seems to ask me many questoins about my mother and stepfather, usually about the inner dealings of their relationship....who does what...who takes care of this/that...do they have one bank account, etc. Has he been in a serious relationship before? That statement above says he probably hasn't and he's asking you those questions because he feels he might be entering into one. What is his relationship history? Perhaps he's asking about your parents because he doesn't know much about his parents relationship, how they worked things. Is he living in a different country from his parents so it makes it difficult to ask them these sorts of relationship questions?
RomanaBrazil: What was this all about?? He tried to explain, but it still went over my head. What did he say when he tried to explain it?
Questions are nothing out of the ordinary, he wants to know everything about you and that's natural if he is into you, which I think he is.
Asking about finances is something that a person who worries about money does. Even some people with large bank accounts worry about money so he's probably checking out how sensible you are with money, you know, so that he knows you don't spend your entire wages on one pair of Jimmy Choos. ;)
Perhaps you need to starting asking HIM some questions of your own. Hope it all works out for you. :)
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