WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN?

Polonius3:

George8600 -- thanks for puttign the traits in order. BTW, are you male or female? Would you say the order you chose is more typical of educated women than uneducated ones or would it tend to reflect Polish women in general? Or maybe European or Central European women in general?
I realise people are different and stereotypes are generalities, but most everyone has had some experiences and observations to base an evaluation on.

jump_bunnyThreads: 8 Posts: 332 Joined: May 14, 09	Jul 17, 09, 23:06 / #
Looks, intelligence and education, position, achievements and goals, independance.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07	Jul 17, 09, 23:07 / #
I'm off to a good start ;) ;)

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Jul 17, 09, 23:56 / #
Money,money,money and some pienadze.

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jul 19, 09, 05:38 / #
I assume you wanted me to rank these? Well, I could, but I would be generalizing. Polish women aren't robots, each one is an individual and perceives each different in a distinct way. Just like the women in most, if not all countries. But overall (assumption based, not accurate) I would say: 2 physical attractiveness 8 libido 1 personality (sense of humour, gift of the gab, etc.) 4 education/intelligence 6 professional prestige 7 size of income 3 age 10 nationality 5 common goals and priorities 11 religion 9 family (eg nasty future mum-in law?) It was really hard to rank these...I would say that most exist in the same rank, but since I had to rank each on individually I ended up pushing down a trait on the list as I went.

Polonius3Threads: 1,005 Posts: 4,833 Joined: Apr 11, 08	Jul 19, 09, 12:28 / #
George8600 -- thanks for puttign the traits in order. BTW, are you male or female? Would you say the order you chose is more typical of educated women than uneducated ones or would it tend to reflect Polish women in general? Or maybe European or Central European women in general? I realise people are different and stereotypes are generalities, but most everyone has had some experiences and observations to base an evaluation on.

terriThreads: 1 Posts: 385 Joined: May 3, 09	Jul 19, 09, 15:13 / #
My my point of view (I am a hetero woman) 1. libido 2. libido 3. libido 4. libido need I go on.....

Jihozapad	Jul 19, 09, 15:54 / #
terri: My my point of view (I am a hetero woman) 1. libido 2. libido 3. libido 4. libido need I go on..... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This is the woman of my dreams innit! :D haha

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jul 19, 09, 22:31 / #
Polonius3: George8600 -- thanks for puttign the traits in order. BTW, are you male or female? Would you say the order you chose is more typical of educated women than uneducated ones or would it tend to reflect Polish women in general? Or maybe European or Central European women in general? I realise people are different and stereotypes are generalities, but most everyone has had some experiences and observations to base an evaluation on. Hi Polonius! I am a male as the symbol by by username points out. ^_^ As for your feedback questions, I really can't be accurate. This is all generalizing. Whether your looking at the 3 billion women of the world, the 250+ million of Europe, or simply the 17+ million of Poland, these rankings really can't attribute or describe each and everyone, or basically even a good number of them However these attributes I would say belong to educated women, and I think that says the most. I have met both, but with educated women, they really don't differ where you are in Europe. Intelligence, logistics, and reasoning really takes you on one path that an education gives you. Yet there are SOME things that tend to be more native to Polish women. (Being a Greek-Pole that has lived in Poland myself) I have realized that things such as family, religion, age, tend to be quite important in Polish women in general (even though there are obviously ones whom could care less about those things). Other than that, I would say that the rest of the traits really depend on the individual- the fact that they have Polish blood or grew up in the culture/country has nothing to do with it. It's that psychological argument of nature vs. nurture. Nature would say- it's because they're Polish. Nurture would say they became the people they are with what they look for in (love let's say) because of their life experiences, the way they were taught and home grown by their parents, their education, personal events, and personal interests/perceptions. As you can see one is more descriptive and accurate than the other. Which is why from the fathers of psychology to modern psych, nurture tends to be the answer. Even to a question like yours. Good day!

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07	Jul 19, 09, 22:44 / #
So have we got this nailed down yet or have people realised that all women are different and you can't box them up and put them in categories, where they choose men by ticking boxes and all Polish girls end up with the same results :):):) I have enjoyed reading through the posts though to see what people thought, i bet this is done on spanishforums.com, italianforums.com, bhutaniforums.com and many many more and they have all agreed that the women look for the same things as on polishforums.com :):)

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jul 20, 09, 13:08 / #
tornado2007: spanishforums.com, italianforums.com, bhutaniforums.com I googled...those forums don't exist...which is why they come on here. :-p

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06	Jul 20, 09, 14:12 / #
kazik1: Say it's a beautiful Saturday afternoon and you had nothing to do.. Wouldn't you dress up pretty and put make-up on and cruise the streets trying to find Mr. Right? If you said no, you are a liar!!! What kind of rubbish is this? I am sure there are plenty of Polish girls who dont feel the need to go out cruising for men and would rather enjoy themselves with friends or amuse themselves in other more mind stretching activities.. I know that things are different there and its generally accepted that you will settle down at some point, but you are conjuring up images of desperate packs of women roaming the streets caked in make up looking to trap a guy. PennBoy: Polish girls in POLAND first look at looks, then if he's wealthy or nice or whatever, Polish girls in the west first look at money, but that a generalization of course I wonder what you are basing this on? If the UK can be classed as the 'west' then I think there are far fewer women here looking at money over looks than in some other countries.. but that of course is also a generalisation..........................zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07	Jul 21, 09, 00:09 / #
southern: I concur that english women place great emphasis on looks. What makes you come to that conclusion?

Jihozapad	Jul 21, 09, 00:10 / #
southern: I concur that english women place great emphasis on looks. I've had plenty of good-looking English girlfriends, I'm sick of hearing how "fat and ugly" they all are. As I've said before, if anyone really still thinks that ALL Polish women are beautiful, then they can come with me to Poland next time I go and I'll show them otherwise! haha

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Jul 21, 09, 00:12 / #
I saw them choosing men on vaccations based on looks.I mean I seldom saw combination of beautiful english woman with ugly foreigner although I saw some beautiful english women with ugly english men.

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07	Jul 20, 09, 13:50 / #
George8600: I googled...those forums don't exist...which is why they come on here. :-p lol i like the humour :) I think you know what i meant though

George8600Threads: 20 Posts: 1,114 Joined: Feb 19, 09	Jul 20, 09, 23:47 / #
tornado2007: George8600: I googled...those forums don't exist...which is why they come on here. :-p lol i like the humour :) I think you know what i meant though ^_^ Anyway, anymore questions? I think this thread has been summed up for the post part. Right polonius?

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,955 Joined: May 17, 07	Jul 21, 09, 00:05 / #
sapphire: If the UK can be classed as the 'west' then I think there are far fewer women here looking at money over looks I concur that english women place great emphasis on looks.

Polonius3Threads: 1,005 Posts: 4,833 Joined: Apr 11, 08	Jul 21, 09, 09:26 / #
Many dzięks. Great response! Foolish of me to overlook that little gender squiggle.