How will i explain to him I'm not ready to marry him

deeply_inluvThreads: 2 Posts: 30 Joined: Nov 20, 09	Dec 2, 09, 13:43 / #
Hi guys deeply_inluv here needs advice how will i explain to my Polish fiancee that I am not ready to marry as he always talks about getting married next time he comes back. As I wanted to spend time with him for a while and just be with each other. I dont want him to think that I dont love him coz I do love him but its just I am not into getting married yet and our situation is not clear as he works and still studying. He married before. Everytime I explained about it he alwasy told me that I dont love him.

szkotja2007Threads: 38 Posts: 2,544 Joined: Dec 29, 06	Dec 2, 09, 13:55 / #
So you are engaged to be married. He travels from the US to the Phillipines to see you - but you dont want to marry him ? Going to be a tough one for him to take.

deeply_inluvThreads: 2 Posts: 30 Joined: Nov 20, 09	Dec 2, 09, 14:06 / #
we will get married but not this time. i know in my heart that he is the one i want to marry but i just want to spend more time so u know in the future if the real colors will come out no regrets and will not cost him money for the divorce.... hehehehe