Do you believe in love by net

Quoting: shewolf

That sounds very true. This might explain things. When you're face to face with someone you might not have the courage to say the things you can say on the internet, through email. Maybe you're too shy or reserved. That's why people get to know each other better on the internet and fall for each other deeper than when they meet in person.

afterlife	Apr 28, 07, 13:58 / #
hi do you believe with love by net??can you feel love by keybowrds not by hands?can you get love with some one just for his or her sayings at net?how can you know that he or she say the truth ? I know one girl knew one man by net and she said to me that she loves him so much.So she travelled to his country to meet him .BUt what shoke me is she directly made sex with him in the first day they meet .Does love mean only sex without real feelings??

angel eyesThreads: 1 Posts: 158 Joined: Apr 20, 07	Apr 28, 07, 14:03 / #
It has happened for people and love means different things to different people. Its not nice to judge just by your opinions . I say if they found love and happiness over the net... fair play and the best of luck!!!!!(need my smilie)

LoneStrangerThreads: 3 Posts: 531 Joined: Jan 30, 07	Apr 28, 07, 14:04 / #
Well... I think Love is possible by even a letter... true love is indeed very powerful. What shocked you shocked me aswell... but there are all kinds of people living in this world I guess.... just drink a glass of water and join in the forum!

afterlife	Apr 28, 07, 14:10 / #
but tell me angel eyes how can woman loves man with no real meeting just from net?? and why poeple think about love just for sex? love has high meaning.To love one means to give him or her your soul and your think and your feelings before giving him or her your body.Remember your body will go under earth at end but your soul will stay with god at sky.So when you love when you should love his or her behaviour and charecters not his or her body. and to love his or her charecters you have to site and be close to him face to face not by screen and keyboards.

ddewors	Apr 28, 07, 14:11 / #
I do agree with both Angel eyes and lonestranger it might happen don't give up

LoneStrangerThreads: 3 Posts: 531 Joined: Jan 30, 07	Apr 28, 07, 14:18 / #
Quoting: afterlife why poeple think about love just for sex? love has high meaning. Yea.... why this Mr. People believe like that? ... I know I dont believe like that! My girlfriend dont.... most of my friends dont..... I feel like you dont!.... Then who is this Mr. People.... which is his surname?.....is he a male or female?... Anyways.... tell this Mr. People to meet with more humans before coming to a conclusion.

afterlife	Apr 28, 07, 14:32 / #
But still I dont understand some poeple how can they trust poeple just by net and do sex with him?To do sex with one means you sould join your souls before joining your bodies. I knew one girl did sex with one man knowing him by net and she did sex with him without candom!!!!!!just she travelled to his country and she made sex with him directly.does she have right???!!

ZgubionyThreads: 21 Posts: 2,037 Joined: Oct 20, 06	Apr 28, 07, 14:34 / #
Quoting: afterlife does she have right???!! She has the right, but she sounds like a dirty ho. Stay away. IMHO

mohdanu	Apr 28, 07, 16:08 / #
Quoting: afterlife BUt what shoke me is she directly made sex with him in the first day they meet .Does love mean only sex without real feelings?? You are separating love and sex. That is not right. I don't say love means sex, but you can also not say that if two have sex, they don't love each other. First of all, as angel eyes also has written, she might be interested in that aspect and that makes her happy. Secondly, there is big difference between meeting personally and chatting through internet. It may seem like two are just meeting and having sex. that is what you feel, but the fact is that when you meet somone personally, you may not dare to go in deeper stages so early as there are more limits and fomalities. This is not the case when you write in the internet. You don't see each other and you actualy get deeper in all apects. It is always a strsange feeling when you then first meet. It is totally different than teh other case. You meet for first time but you feel you know the person so well. Very soon you find yourself no stranger any more and you have become bold enough with each otheter through writing. All that gets very soon transformed to a real phase which is surely more intensive than the normal meeting.

GoonieThreads: 10 Posts: 297 Joined: Mar 6, 07	Apr 28, 07, 16:16 / #
i dont think i could ever be in a loooong distance relationship no sex = no love lol

daffyThreads: 40 Posts: 2,119 Joined: Feb 5, 07	Apr 29, 07, 06:22 / #
Quoting: southern People who meet through internet are usually more shy than average people who meet in parties,cafes,clubs i disagree :) Im not shy. I moved to another city and used match.com to find people of similar interests - it worled a treat! i made several new friends and my current GF! (now 2 years together!) For me it was just another means of finding someone in a crowded place :) She and I were in different cities too and would not have met otherwise. It depends on what your looking to get out of it. I wasn't looking for a girl in a club and was just in the new city and Dublin is not reputed for being able to pick up people in cafes and clubs (well, sober and for long term rels) Its a very big deal in the major cities and a new way to find people, i even think it gives you more of a chance to find people you click with. IE you fill out your preferences, who you are what you are looking for etc. and you can meet people IF you choose to. I find its a great conversational piece too 'So why did you try online? Or im so glad we could meet and talking about this and that. it adds to conversation. The amount of people i met the ways mentioned above, some where great but had such baggage in the end (like many of us) (and im not saying the net way has no baggage, it can have more - you gotta sniff it out ;) email first etc) but i found that it was great in finding people with similar interests first and working from there so you had a better chance of finding someone you like.... i recommend people try it.

southern	Apr 29, 07, 06:36 / #
It is easy to fined out whether sb is lying in the net.After all you may speak with her on phone.From my experience the impression I got from conversation matched in 90% of cases the character of the person I met.I mean hearing the girls' voice gives an adequate amount of information regarding reliability.Maybe for girls it is the same.

daffyThreads: 40 Posts: 2,119 Joined: Feb 5, 07	Apr 29, 07, 06:39 / #
exactly! and once you've determined its ok (and that the OTHER person thinks so too ;)) you can arrange to met up! there was one girl who i met online, emailed and it was when we MSN'd that i thought RUNNNN!! :D but she wasnt lying, it was a personality mismatch

southern	Apr 29, 07, 06:45 / #
Girls' voice is very important.I like polish girls' voices.However in other countries it is sometimes possible that you draw wrong conclusions due to cultural gap.For example the girl is reserved like most girls in the country and you think she is not interested.Or in the other hand she is very extrovert and you think she likes you but it is just another feature of girls in the country she comes from. I think many common misunderstandings for example between men from middle East and polish girls come from this cultural gap,that is what for polish girls is supposed to be polite conversation for the middle east man is supposed to be sexual promise.

mohdanu	Apr 28, 07, 16:20 / #
Quoting: Goonie no sex = no love lol I think, it is sometimes even not a bad measurment to know if your wife still loves you. :-)

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,834 Joined: Dec 23, 06	Apr 28, 07, 20:17 / #
Quoting: mohdanu but the fact is that when you meet somone personally, you may not dare to go in deeper stages so early as there are more limits and fomalities. This is not the case when you write in the internet. You don't see each other and you actualy get deeper in all apects. That sounds very true. This might explain things. When you're face to face with someone you might not have the courage to say the things you can say on the internet, through email. Maybe you're too shy or reserved. That's why people get to know each other better on the internet and fall for each other deeper than when they meet in person.

sparrowThreads: 4 Posts: 307 Joined: Apr 24, 07	Apr 29, 07, 03:46 / #
Quoting: shewolf That sounds very true. This might explain things. When you're face to face with someone you might not have the courage to say the things you can say on the internet, through email. Maybe you're too shy or reserved. That's why people get to know each other better on the internet and fall for each other deeper than when they meet in person. Yes, totally. Some people just don't have the "courage" to say things face to face. Internet makes it easy to take a friendship a step further.

southern	Apr 29, 07, 06:10 / #
I agree.People who meet through internet are usually more shy than average people who meet in parties,cafes,clubs.Through internet they can express their desires more easily and I also experienced sometimes this sex in first internet date.I would say 50% of girls who meet through internet and are really interested will do that. From my experience also most girls who sleep with you on first date ask for financial support if they are beautiful or are just lonely,shy girls who want to fulfill their desire.

afterlife	Apr 29, 07, 06:31 / #
But most of poeple say lies at net.You can not recognize between truth and lies.Yes I know you can say at net what you may can not say it by face but in the same time you may understand others with lies not with truth. At net you can not discover lies easilly.You may suffer long time in your life when you believe lier at net.

daffyThreads: 40 Posts: 2,119 Joined: Feb 5, 07	Apr 29, 07, 06:33 / #
Quoting: afterlife But most of poeple say lies at net ive met well over 10 people in person from the net. and i can say your stat has no basis in fact. Im quite sure there are people who do lie on it. but you dont meet them as you know what your looking for and can weed them out.

afterlife	Apr 29, 07, 06:42 / #
Quoting: daffy ve met well over 10 people in person from the net. and i can say your stat has no basis in fact but your 10 poeple are not all poeple using net. there are millions using net and there are many of them liers.Listen why we all use nick names not our real names????is this one type of lies or not???? So what about our things of personality , sure we many of us will not say the truth about it.

angel eyesThreads: 1 Posts: 158 Joined: Apr 20, 07	Apr 29, 07, 06:51 / #
Quoting: afterlife But most of poeple say lies at net You can get this in pubs and clubs too you,l meet liars everywhere you go. you have to use your own intuition and common sense and gut feeling which is never far wrong. I was married to a compulsive liar for 13 years. you gotta give people a chance and usually a liar will trip himself up. as they say they gotta have a good memory

polandrockspol	Apr 29, 07, 06:55 / #
Meeting someone on the net has advantages over meeting in person. I think being able to write back and forth gives people a chance to find out something about each others hearts and minds, which of course, need to be somehow in sync or in sympathy for a deeper understanding or love to result. Certainly just like meeting someone face to face there is always the chance that one person or the other may be a scammer or accomplished liar, only really interested in sexploitation or money, but via the web you have some distance between you and the other person, and that makes it easier for shy folks etc. to say things online that they would find difficult to say face to face with someone they just met. For the record I'm American of polish descent, love all things Polish and thats why I'm here, to find out more. And it goes without saying that Polish Women are some of the most incredibly beautiful women anywhere on this planet and should be regarded as such.

daffyThreads: 40 Posts: 2,119 Joined: Feb 5, 07	Apr 29, 07, 06:57 / #
afterlife your not all there in my opinion. usernames are merely an identity to protect ourselves from people like you ;) playing. Its not the name but the profile that you contact a person. if you then approve, you tell them your real name if your serious about your intent on being on such a website the 10 i mention are (again i said about! it was more than) just from my experience! and i know many others who have met. and you hear often of people who've met and married. Keep your pessimism in your searchs on these sites if you wish. I was careful in my selection, making sure they were all true and they all were. as southern said - you can the untrue ones and move on as angel eyes says, you can met liars in the pubs and clubs too! and tbh honest - theres more there than online :D

glowaThreads: 1 Posts: 305 Joined: Apr 6, 06	Apr 29, 07, 07:09 / #
Quoting: polandrockspol Meeting someone on the net has advantages over meeting in person... very few, though.

mohdanu	Apr 29, 07, 11:20 / #
Quoting: afterlife I know one girl knew one man by net and she said to me that she loves him so much.So she travelled to his country to meet him One should notice this right at the beginning. Is it not amazing? A person travels to another country just to meet another one who she has fallen in love with. And you are complaining that she had sex at the first site. Is it not easier to get someone from the next door for sex than traveling to another country? This shows how determined she is and how firmly she has made her mind, which might be a result of deep and detailed (bold) discussions not always practical in normal meetings.

daffyThreads: 40 Posts: 2,119 Joined: Feb 5, 07	Apr 29, 07, 11:40 / #
Quoting: mohdanu A person travels to another country just to meet another one i did this :)

brookbabeThreads: 3 Posts: 10 Joined: Nov 1, 07	Nov 3, 07, 21:06 / #
Thanks for internet and technology. I admire her ,as well I think she afirms in what she wonts,likes and look for.It's positive oportunity to meet and start to know a person over the net.As we sey : each heard have a black sheep. There allowis will be disanest people, but they shuldn't be the danominator and the norm to go by.Love it'sa beautiful feelings and experience,. even concieve on the net

pussycatsbearThreads: 1 Posts: 47 Joined: Apr 15, 09	Jun 2, 09, 07:05 / #
brookbabe: hi do you believe with love by net?? yes, i met my bf thru my cousin's over the net. and it's effective :)