BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN

I guess my real question is; "What is Black culture?" I mean, like any group, many of its members have different values and sentiments, why do we contribute things as "being Black?" Can I, as a white person, not like jazz? Or soul? I certainly do. And is it not possible for a Black man to enjoy country and western music? Or blue grass? Why do we pigeonhole people when each member of each group, and the human race for that matter, is different. Just easier, I guess.

Also, I want to clarify that I wasn't suggesting that Hip Hop be considered "white culture" or any sillyness like that, just simply saying that we like to think we understand the "minority experience" when the only experience we can truly understand is our own.

Phyllis Dillon was amongst a reasonable number of Jamaican reggae singers to indulge in a bit of country from time to time.

Before I listed those styles of music, I did put the word black in inverted commas.

There is no black culture.
There is no white culture.
There are many cultures, some black, some white, many both or neither.

simple, Scottish overseers "allowed " black slaves to take part in their church services where highland plainsong was the style of hyms. This mutated into Gospal,which produced blues,jazz etc etc...so ,Black culture is actually Scottish :)
Funny,Ive spotted some things I can relate to here. I usd to date a black girl,no white or black guys batted an eyelid,my black mate dated lots of white girls,ditto,only people with the problems were other black girls...go figure :)
On that note,anyone noticed that Denzel never has a thang with white actresses in his movies? Reason for this is that in the one film where he did it caused an outcry from some "sisters" group !

Well, I guess that would depend on where the person originated. Black culture can be pretty broad IMO. African culture, Jamaican culture, American culture Haitian...etc.


What kind of question is this? Who said anything about rules?

I didn't say anything about rules. I'm simply saying, as are you, that if there is a "Black culture" it is unbelievably broad. My point was, that if Hip Hop was to represent "the Black experience", then it isn't doing a very good job. Masks said earlier that while he enjoys hip hop, people are fascinated to find that he does not own a gun. He was joking, but it's not that far off. A lot of people get their only impression of this so-called "Black culture" from Hip Hop music and therefore are given an impression, certainly from mainstream Hip Hop, that "being Black" is about being violent and hypersexual. If that's the case than call me wrong, but I wouldn't suppose so.

no you're right, a lot of white people who have nothiing against black people nevertheless say **** like "you don't act black" or "you're not really black" because I speak good english and I stay out of jail, well that's racist, even if they don't mean it. It's very dumb too which is worse. They equate black with violence or decadence of any shape or form.

Exactly. If I like Otis Redding, Spike Lee, and chicken wings, does that make me Black? Even a little? See how ridiculous that sounds. It's human nature to put people in groups, it's easier to colonize our minds by thinking that all minorities are the same than actually imagine that each one may be different. Thinking you know something about someone before you've met them is a dangerous business. Best to get to know people before you form your opinions of them. I certainly don't know what "being Black" means but I'm sure it's not as simple as baggy jeans and platinum chains.

THE BLACK ARE ALWAYS AFTER OUR WOMEN THIS IS UNNATURAL AND GOT TO STOP

Oh you're going to make lots of friends here I can see

Not me. He shouts too loud man. Next thing you know he'll be using bold, italics and all that other stuff besides capital letters. Only two grammatical mistakes though.

"your" women? Who says they were ever yours? My girlfriend was never yours, she'll tell you herself.

HE REFUSEs HIS OWN GIRLS BECAUSE HE BELIEVE THOSE FROM THE SEED OF THE WHITEMAN TO BE SUPERIOR.

I don't have my own girls, I've never had children

THE WHITEMAN'S WOMEN

I can understand him

No woman belongs to any man except the one she gives herself to, and vice-versa. SO my girl's mine not yours. You sound like some extremist muslim.

your woman is the girl of her father or yours?

Every woman is the girl of her father, should I not date any woman because they belong to their fathers? Now you sound like a mormon :D

this is you in one of your post . "i got a beautiful polish women"

i think you dont have a polish women ,,,is not yours ,because you didnt buy it!!
is better if you say i m with a beautiful polish women.
you and the other guy are wrong.

lat week was the gay week in polish forum and this one look like is the black week .
can you please stop to speak about black or white?

Nice try but you're getting confused by the semantics, trivial details. This guy's meaning when he says "our women" is that all white women belong to him and other whites. That's sexist. But when I say "I got a beautiful Polish woman" that just means "I'm with a beutiful Polish woman" whether I use 'got' or 'with' is trivial.

You understand now?



I wanted to address what this guy said and make fun of him a bit, that's understandable.

you must breed your women in your uterus - all futile for us men - we can never have a women - some women's body can consist in a fraction of what is one sperm-cell(or a half of one) of ours

TSJenkins must not keep "his" women very safe. Masks has got one! I keep all mine in a celler in the basement. TSJenkins, where do you keep yours?

Didnt know you were Austrian EB !!

On his wall or hidden in some Windows sytem folder.

i am finding this topic very interesting and am very happy to know that justyna69 is not rascist! i say that because i have a white mother and a black father and a polish boyfriend and have been to poland twice, i have always liked the polish as my father had polish friends here from the late 1950s but i have to say that when i went to poland 2 years ago, i went to a smallish town and the women hated me! i was there for two months and it was hell to be honest and i felt so dissapointed as im very friendly and hate racism in whatever form it comes from! ive just come back from there again(the same place) and i really thought that it would be much better but unfortunately it wasnt, they havnt changed there! my boyfriend is very unhappy about the way they treated me but his family are lovely and thats a blessing! my hope is that one day they will feel differently about me, i feel like an alien when i walk the streets they all stare and gossip(n i can understand them when they speak) and at weddings or gatherings its like i have the plague! but the men are mostly ok to me, justyna69 please can you help me to understand why lots of polish women accept black, asian or mixed race men but they dont really like women of those races? some polish are darker skin than me so what is it? you might be more reasonable than some.

Leyla where are you from? It's interesting to hear your perspective. I experience some resentment from white guys here in Poland because I'm dating "their" woman - but that's a known issue here. I never really heard issues with interacial dating between a girl and a white man. I think I always assumed that girls would be kinder and more enlightened. Sorry to hear about your trouble, it's not all bad though, most people are fine with it, and I've comme to realize that even those who appeared shocked at the sight of an interracial couple got used to it and became friendly.

good lad!!

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Yeah I'm not that enlightened myself..