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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 24, 06, 16:03  #61

No they aren't sick, they just aren't naive.

Let face it, read these blogs, all of these Arab, Paki, and Inidan guys are looking for Polish women. All of my arab friends go on about polish women and their looks.

A white girl is a trophy for these guys. I noticed Swedish girls and now even Czech girls have caught on to this.

5 years ago I was in Prauge and all the foreigners were pulling women. Now, I went and it was way more difficult. All my arab buddy's complain about how difficult it is cause the girls assume they are just into them for their rare looks. Which is true in the first place! And they even acknowledge their own hypocracy!

Polish girls have not gotten as much attention until now and so are still naive about this. Slowly, they will catch on. My Polish cousin from Warsaw, was dating an Arab dude who treated her like gold. She dumped him after she found out his true intentions.

Maata, I don't see why people should be called sick for choosing to proliferate their own national identity. There are bad people everywhere. But trends are trends, unless I live in a different planet, thats they way I see the situation.

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Arien
  Dec 24, 06, 16:18  #62

^agrees with you to a certain extent.


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Maati
  Dec 24, 06, 16:22  #63

Yeah, many of those guys are looking for visa and citizenship... but i think there are also long-term relationship with Arab, Indian, Pakistani guys that are based on true love and respect...


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Arien
  Dec 24, 06, 16:33  #64

Quoting: Maati, Post #63
but i think there are also long-term relationship with Arab, Indian, Pakistani guys that are based on true love and respect...


I've seen a pakistani father shoot his own six year old daughter in front of her fourteen year old sister because two sick bastards raped her.

and to think that this sort of behaviour, is actually being accepted in pakistan by local authorities. so what makes you think they have respect for women? what makes you think they will treat their wives any better than their own daughters?

and these are no lies, I've served in the middle east, and I don't say every afghan or pakistani is the same. - and it's different for immigrants, they usually come over here because they disagree with this sort of behaviour in their society too. but I do say that polish girls should be very, very weary about living in pakistan, or any other arab nation for that matter.

they're not exactly respecting women over there. I think we can safely state this without getting accused of being a racist.


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Maati
  Dec 24, 06, 16:58  #65

i don't know... didn't have much experience with arab world...but i know what you mean...i wouldn't wear chadors as well...


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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 24, 06, 23:06  #66

Right on Arien.

Maati where are you from?

This is old news. Some Polish women in my family told me how in the 70's african and middle-eastern students would bring their polish girls back home promising they would be princesses. When they got there, they became one of a 20 female harem. Some made it home right away, some in a few years, and some never.

I don't believe how naive these girls are! The information is right in front of their faces. I was in Warsaw this summer, I saw many Black-African and Muslim men. Mostly students and businessemen I was told. I saw not one Black-African or muslim women. Why? Because they where back at home without the freedom to come to Poland. That should give anybody a good idea of how stuff works with these guys!

Anyway, thats not the point. I had an issue with what Ankaxx, who said she was worried about coming to Poland with her Black Husband and explained that a mixed couple in the US is no problem.

First, I think Anka's choice should be tolerated and that she should not be discriminated agaisnt. But I see no reason why her choice should be welcomed in Poland. As I said in the past few threads, Poland and white people have their own identity that I beleive is worth preserving. By turning her back on that, I see no reason why I should pat her on the back and tell her "good job." This goes accross the board for all races... I think all races' identitities should be preserved. The problem is that the Polish and white population is declining drastically across the globe.

See this article futurepundit.com/archives/001283.html.

I think we, as white people, should think about making a consious effort to preserve it.

Second, Anka says mixed couple in the US are no problem. Judging from her grammar and comments, she has not been in the US for too long. She has no clue what she is talking about. Either by language or actions Polish People what will let you know what they think of you. People in America will tell you one thing to be politically correct and think a complete different way in private. I experience this on a daily basis. Infact, people in America generally do have a problem with mixed couples. Time magazine wrote an article called "The Meaning of White." In it they cited a survey where "a stunning proportion of whites--77%--say their race has a distinct culture that should be preserved."

Here is the address:
time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1531296,00.html

How are we going to preserve this culture if we intermarry. I support tolerance, but I don't welcome the degenration of my culture and identity.

I hope Anka responds, maybe she can help me see the light as to why certain people are so willing to throw away their cultural identity.

I am not losing sleep over this, but it pisses me off when people call self preservation Rascism!!!

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guest23543 [Guest]
  Dec 24, 06, 23:29  #67

Who gives a damn about preservation? If a race is declining, all of us will be long dead and gone before anybody could start to notice this without looking at statistics. If you love a person, marry them. Who cares? Whether they be your race or not. If you are in love, get married and have kids.

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 24, 06, 23:32  #68

Quoting: guest23543, Post #67
If you love a person, marry them. Who cares? Whether they be your race or not. If you are in love, get married and have kids.


I agree. Marriage should be for love, not for creating a race. I think it would be miserable to live with someone you don't love just to help a race. No one will care about your sacrifice.

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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 24, 06, 23:54  #69

Valid points, but selfish and short sighted as well.

All the more reason, we shouldn't care about global warming or starving in Africa. Screw the environment, we should not preserve that for other generations? Who cares, right, no one will care about our sacrafice. We will be long dead and gone. iT WON'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE!

Have you read the books 1984 and Brave New World. I would like my children to live in a diverse world. I globe with brown eyes, brown hair, and coffee colored skin and one culture seems like a pretty miserable place.

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 00:28  #70

Global warming and Africa's problems have nothing to do with marriage. It doesn't seem possible that all light haired, blue eyed people fall in love with and marry dark haired, dark eyed people. And even if it were true, people don't really gain true happiness by looking at other peoples' hair and eye color. Not true happiness. If the world is going to be a miserable place in the future, it won't be because of brown hair, brown eyes.

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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 01:06  #71

I like logic and numbers. We are getting into a phylosophical discussion. I don't think we need to go here, but this is interesting and lets see where it goes!

Quoting: guest02, Post #70
Global warming and Africa's problems have nothing to do with marriage.


This is an unsupported statement. You have not explained why this is so? Technically I don't even need to respond to this. Here is the premise: If you think that we should preserve the natural environment for future generations, then why should we not also think about preserving the world's cultures and genetic charachteristics? Are they any less important?

Quoting: guest02, Post #70
It doesn't seem possible that all light haired, blue eyed people fall in love with and marry dark haired, dark eyed people.


Your right, improbable in the near future. If you take the current trend to infinity, then there is no doubt what the result will be.

Quoting: guest02, Post #70
And even if it were true, people don't really gain true happiness by looking at other peoples' hair and eye color.


Are you sure? People have preferences, some brought on by genetics and other by nurture. In my opinion, people with less knowledge about their culture's history and background tend to be more willing to give it up. They devalue it.

For example, how about the Jews. Their knowledge and value of their culture has preserved them for thousands of years. Knowing that their way of life and culture is preserved is true happiness for them. Obviously there are exceptions.

Quoting: guest02, Post #70
If the world is going to be a miserable place in the future, it won't be because of brown hair, brown eyes.


How so? Again unsupported? It would be pretty miserable to have one culture and one identity. Thats whats going on across the world right now. People are getting sick of the American Mcdonalds and Starbucks culture. Its taking over the whole world! People hatre it! We are fighting a war of ideology with the Middle east as we speak. Our culture agaisnt theirs! Maybe we should try to respect and preserve each other cultures instead.

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 01:24  #72

Are you saying we should marry someone based on hair color and eye color or based on culture and ancestry? There's a difference between the two. Even people who marry someone of the same race and culture don't care about their heritage as much as the Jews care about theirs. What about two people of the same race who have different hair and eye color?

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 01:32  #73

There's huge diversity among the Jews. Some are light haired, light eyed, while others have dark hair, dark eyes and dark skin. Should the lighter Jews refrain from marrying the darker ones to preserve light hair, light eyes for the future?

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Stupidwelsh [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 01:42  #74

There’s also a great diversity amongst Muslims and Christians

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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 02:31  #75

Quoting: guest02, Post #72
Are you saying we should marry someone based on hair color and eye color or based on culture and ancestry?


Culture and ancestry first, but the two go hand in hand. Don't they? When you think of a dude in lederhosen, do you think of a typical Japanease guy or typical German.

Quoting: guest02, Post #72
What about two people of the same race who have different hair and eye color?


and

Quoting: guest02, Post #73
Should the lighter Jews refrain from marrying the darker ones to preserve light hair, light eyes for the future?


No the lighter people should not refrain from marrying the darker people of similar cultures. The problem is the extremes. The complete dilution of a groups culture and identity.

Its not the end of the world if 2% of foreigner's mix in Poland. What I do care about is if 10 million foreigners show up and the original Polish population drops to 20 million. There is no way that won't have an effect on Poland's culture and national identity. Poland is still mostly Polish, I think the Poles should think about whether they need to follow the model of other Western Countries. Lets not get crazy with inviting in the entire world. The Swiss have a better model.

These aren't new concepts. 1 in 10 swedes are now muslim. The rest of the country is asking itself what it means to be a Swede. In London there are more people registered as muslims, then in the church of england. English are asking themselves why the goverment is allowing such immigration. Read these blogs and the news!

Shouldn't we preserve our culture and identity? I guess this comes down to values. It seems like you all think happiness and complete social freedom are the most important.

I think we have a duty to the past and to the future. How many Poles died fending off the Teutonic Knights? How many died fending off the Bolsheviks? How many defending Poland from Germany and Russia and Turkey and Sweden!

These wars were not only over culture, but over national identity as well. The German's wanted to erradicate the slavs.

Have all these people died so that we, as Poles, can throw our national identity and culture as slavs into the melting pot of the races?

I don't think so, it makes no sense to me. Its like putting out an arson's fire in your house, so you can set it on fire yourself later.

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 02:46  #76

Your point of view makes sense. Many of us are already a mix of ancestries because of everything that's happened throughout history. One country conquers the other and the men bear children with the women. The idea of a pure race seems ancient. But if it does still exist, then, yes, it should be preserved. If not, people will definitely wish to have it back. It reminds me of the Native Americans who are trying to recapture the ways of their ancestors. The problem is that they are now part European and they can't get rid of that. The same thing will happen to Europeans.

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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 10:16  #77

Thank you for understanding my pont of view. By no means are the Poles pure, there has been an influence from the Swedes, Germans, Mongols, and Tartars. But our identity and culture has remained pretty consistent for the last 1000 years. A small influence is ok its the huge one that is a threat.

Mixing won't happen to all Europeans. Like I said, it will be a cold day in hell when it happens to the Swiss.

And it does not have to happen to the Polish!

Most of my family, even those in America, have been taught about what it means to be Polish and they know what our ancestors died for. I was raised in America and speak polish fluently. My sibling was born here and speaks fluently as well. I am proud to be American, but at the same time Polish. And even if I marry an American, I marry her on the basis that I will get a 50% share in teaching the child polish culture.

I know many more Poles like this here for their MBA and college. Althought they mess around, they know their place is in Poland. My friend always said "My grandfather fought with the AK during the Warsaw uprising, when the Russians came they pulled out all his teeth torturing him. How could I turn my back on being a Pole. I am from there and I am returning."

My problem is with understanding people like Ankaxx, who show up for what appears a very short period of time, and throw away this national identity in record time. Did it ever occur to her how many people have fought to preserve it. When she accuses the Poles of rascism, did it ever occur to her that people who's ancestors fough to preserve the Polish culture and identity may take offense to her decision to throw it away.

Maybe I am completely off track? I have talked to Poles about this before. It appears as if young poles are so pissed about the goverment that they forget about the beauty of their own culture. All these Poles bang on about the Indian culture and how wonderful it is. No doubt, it is a great culture and should be preserved. But it has some very bad aspects as well. Men paying dowry for wifes, the caste system, the fact that girls are being aborted in record numbers since child limitation was set. Many new Poles are completely ignorant to this fact or prefer not to talk about it. Cause, surely, their culture is by far the worst!

Polish women, right off the boat, complain about Poland for 20 min and then two minutes later go on about the muslim cultures and how great they are. THAT IS A PERSONAL INSULT TO ME. Listen the only reason you are here in America, England, or anywhere else is because you came from a culture where there are more women graduates from college than male graduates. If the Poles were like the muslim culture you would be at home making babies.

This can be a very touchy subject, I have never talked to a Polish person who has chosen to marry another race. I hope Ankaxx responds and sheds some light for me.

Who knows? Maybe in a year I will meet a muslim girl and my world will turn upside down and I will think: how could I have been so ignorant? Something tells me not likely. I won't want to wonder whether I will be able to serve alcohol at my wedding.

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Grzegorz_
  Dec 25, 06, 10:52  #78

Quoting: guest3, Post #77
All these Poles bang on about the Indian culture and how wonderful it is.


Which Poles ? I bet that 99% of people in my area can't say even a few words about the Indian culture.
And If you say that "Polish Americans" are so cool then tell me what they actually did for Poland ? Look how Jews in America lobby for Israel and "Polish Americans" can't even put pressure on the government to change the visa rules.


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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 11:18  #79

Quoting: guest3, Post #77
Most of my family, even those in America, have been taught about what it means to be Polish and they know what our ancestors died for. I was raised in America and speak polish fluently. My sibling was born here and speaks fluently as well. I am proud to be American, but at the same time Polish. And even if I marry an American, I marry her on the basis that I will get a 50% share in teaching the child polish culture.


You should definitely inisist on teaching your children the Polish language and culture because many parents don't do that and their kids regret it when they become adults. They feel like they are missing an important part of themselves.

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Patrycja19
  Dec 25, 06, 11:21  #80

Quoting: guest02, Post #79
You should definitely inisist on teaching your children the Polish language and culture because many parents don't do that and their kids regret it when they become adults. They feel like they are missing an important part of themselves.


agree. same happened in our family. MY parents knew Polish, and would only
talk it when they had a secret going on. but both learned it growing up in
catholic schools, and parents, when my siblings and I went to public schools
and this is not taught there. nor did they teach us.


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Edited by: Hobbitual  Dec 25, 06, 11:28  #81

Quoting: Stupidwelsh, Post #74
There’s also a great diversity amongst Muslims


Especially the raped concubines

And that's just in this country! (GB) lol

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 12:09  #82

Quoting: Patrycja19, Post #80
agree. same happened in our family. MY parents knew Polish, and would only talk it when they had a secret going on. but both learned it growing up in catholic schools, and parents, when my siblings and I went to public schools and this is not taught there. nor did they teach us.


My family was completely quiet about their Polish heritage and they seemed okay with it but I'm the one who regrets it. I think there was once a lot of prejudice against the Polish so they kept it quiet instead of standing up for who they were.

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Patrycja19
  Dec 25, 06, 13:20  #83

Quoting: guest02, Post #82
My family was completely quiet about their Polish heritage and they seemed okay with it but I'm the one who regrets it. I think there was once a lot of prejudice against the Polish so they kept it quiet instead of standing up for who they were


I had heard from other family members that when they came, because of all
the war, fighting that they just wanted new lives, and to forget what happened
and I can understand that to a point (forgetting the bad) but not what your
culture stands for. I guess it all goes hand in hand.

One of our Uncles came here, to avoid getting drafted , but they caught up with
him through his father and was going to jail him ( his father) if he didnt return.
He had to write a letter to the govt stating that he had stole money from him
in order for them to not jail him. And the truth was he just left Poland on a whim
with his friends to come here, they all boarded a boat and that was it. None of his
friends or him wanted to be a part of any war. this was in 1905.


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josecitomadera [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 16:27  #84

The Polish people suffered greatly because one man wanted to maintain racial purity. He invaded a country which had no qualms with them. The ideals and policies of this man considered Poles as inferior and subhuman. This man wanted to create a permanent genetic and racial apartheid. One of his plans was to totally exterminate the slavs and poles. He backed off this plan yet still believed poles were inferior. He systematically killed millions of jews in the interim in Poland. This man was Adolf Hitler.

Anytime I hear of a desire to maintain any culture via approbation of miscegenation, it frightens me. So thoughts of so called cultural, racial, ethnic purity are nonsense. Let people freely intermix and enjoy the cornucopia of human diversity. It's our genetic diversity that has maintained the species alive. Differences make life more interesting and divisions kill us all.

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josecitomadera [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 16:36  #85

The preservation of a race should not be forced through antiquated laws like the nazis put into place. That's ridiculous. I am puertorican. Puertoricans marry every race on the planet. No PR cares about that. There is still puertorican pride and parades. My father tells me that when the first martians land on Earth, puertoricans will be there to greet them with banners asking for marriage, LOL.

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guest02 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 18:45  #86

josecitomadera,

If you marry a Polish woman, will you teach your children Spanish and also your Puerto Rican customs or will you allow it to become forgotten?

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josecitomadera [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 19:16  #87

You can teach them both customs. Heck, I'll learn Polish right alongside them. I feel that all races, ethnicities, cultures should embrace our common humanity. Afterall we are the only "homo" genus left on Earth, correct?

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Hobbitual [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 19:33  #88

Quoting: josecitomadera, Post #87
Afterall we are the only "homo" genus left on Earth, correct?


Yes, but evolutionary change towards asexual reproduction means an increasing number of "homo"sexuals

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guest23543 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 22:04  #89

Quoting: josecitomadera, Post #84
Anytime I hear of a desire to maintain any culture via approbation of miscegenation, it frightens me. So thoughts of so called cultural, racial, ethnic purity are nonsense. Let people freely intermix and enjoy the cornucopia of human diversity. It's our genetic diversity that has maintained the species alive. Differences make life more interesting and divisions kill us all.


*Standing ovation applause*

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guest3 [Guest]
  Dec 25, 06, 23:21  #90

Josecitomadera:

You don't know your Polish history very well. Also, you are Purto Rican and so I don't see why you would care about preserving Polish culture. Some people actually do. Many intelligent well educated Poles think it is a dsigrace that Poles turn on their heritage so quickly as soon as they see the first 50 cent video.

Quoting: josecitomadera, Post #85
Puertoricans marry every race on the planet. No PR cares about that. There is still puertorican pride and parades.


Thats Puerto Ricans... I don't know your culture. I know my culture has been fighting to preserve itself for the last 1000 years. Now once we have thrown off the communists and we have no more enemies form the outside, ignorant poles seem to devalue the importance of their culture. Right now Polish people are their own worst enemey. They are failing to preserve the culture they have fought for all along. Why fight for it if you are just gonna give it up in the end?


Hitler tried to erradicate people. I am not suggesting that the poles erradicate all other cultures. I am just saying we should try to preserve the polish culture.

You get "scared" because you are ignorant and don't understand the difference between Hitler's racil superiority plan and a people's cultural preservation.

Quoting: guest23543, Post #89
Let people freely intermix and enjoy the cornucopia of human diversity.


Have you taken Biology 101? If we let all people intermix there will be no more cornucopia to enjoy!!! Blonde hair, slanted eyes, blue eyes, for example, are all recessive. These traits can dissappear.

So please spare me the lecture on enjoying the cornocopia. There will be no corcnocopia if we decide to intermix.

Also, Mr. Josecitomadero, Spanish-Americans are not declining steadily like the white race. Infact, in the next 50 years Spanish-Americans in America may be the majority.

I'd liek to see if you would be singing the same tune if your culture was on the decline.

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