I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish)

i need some advise please someone, i am british and my girlfriend is polish and she is goimg to leave me and i love her so much, she found out i sleep with another girl, i did it just once i know its no excuse, she is my my everything and i cant cope without her. i love her with all my heart. i feel so bad and i know she must feel a thousand times worse. we have been together for nearly a year and we are so happy together. im just wondering if its possible for her to forgive me

Find the nearest cliff and jump...

if you loved her why did you cheat on her

Trust to a woman is everything...tough lesson to learn.

so its definitly over, so i can never regain her trust

Well put Frank

how would you feel if the tables were turned, SG?

ITs not up to us were to give you advise you have to talk to her ask if she will trust you again..

For that matter forgive you...

learn the hard way
you will remember this for the rest of your life

yes i know, i think if i was her i could forgive her her if it was just a purely phyical thing. i was weak i wasnt looking to cheat, i hadnt seen her for 2 months, it was the biggest mistake of my life, i have never been in so much pain in my life

You need to tell her that^^^^

i will tell her when i get the chance but it dosent look like i will ever get her bk, its so hard trying to imagine my life without her being apart of it

i agree

easy said then done mate. if it was her you would have left her too, so she has every right to leave you. what goes around comes around, better pray that it doesnt happens to you in the future

but we are so good together, she said that she still loves me

as a wise man once said... if you take a dump in your bed, dont be suprised when you wake up smelling of poo

i feel sick and disgusting inside, i know i would never do it again

Are you for real bro.....

you learned from your mistakes mate, but you can never undo your past, and you have to face the fact that she is leaving, yeah sure she still loves you, but you cheated on her and that broke her heart, you have to pay for what you did

i say surprise her

listen to this guy he knows everything

But there so good together.....

WERE ARE THE SMILIES

you mean they were



stop hiding the smilies in you pocket

you are just pulling his leg, we all know that surprising her wont work

okay if you say so

ok i understand how serious this all is, i will just phone her and telll her im sorry and that i know its over, and just try and deal with it

she might forgive but she sure wont forget

Glad you used your brain for this partanyway.But might be to late..
But please let us knw how it all goes....

she had only found out yesturaday that i cheated, maybe i should leave her alone for a while or do you think it would be a good idea to phone her now?

she needs time alone, its best you send an sms today and call her after a day or two