I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish)

Daffy, your close enough.

Don't think my GF is like that. She would probably - shout, scream, through a tantrum, say how bad irish doors are compared to Polish doors, go into a big rant about how in Poland they are given classes on how to open the doors with style and the education system concerning opening doors is so much superior.
But she still wouldn't be able to get the door open :-p

If you say so!

99nat122413 Nice! You said it perfectly! I am ashamed to say that I was cheated on and stuck around. He played the daily reminder game with me and it worked (among other things) All you can do is try to earn her trust back slowly. Baby steps. You thought things were tough before you cheated... just wait if she takes you back. If you are ready for the challenge then good luck. Once your cheated on, you never forget. You can forgive but you'll always wonder. No matter what she's always going to have the right to question you. It never goes away. In many ways it makes things stronger and others it makes things worse. Be strong and confident though, don't whimper and guilt her into taking you back. Be a man, admit your faults and work your arse off for the rest of your life making it right, because it will take that long.

Send her the biggest bouquet of flowers and bombard her with sms and talk. However be prepared for her leaving you or getting even by going with another guy. if you really loved her then you wouldn't do it?

So you wouldn't then?

Quoting: MEUSA
I think people who cheat have no morals and their is a God! If u cheat ur also a liar and sleezy.........People who cheat have lower self worth and poor relationship to God and humans. They simply care about self indulgence and being cruel. I never cheated and Im 42. My british boyfriend did and he went with an ex. I am a nice girl type and he went with a ***** who knew he was mine! Love is not lust.....love is loyal and desire to make love to the soul of the other........cheaters also get cheated on because they hang with low lifes in the end......I believe love is no cheating!


Wow...therapy is always good....

Life is more complicated...

We are biological machines designed by millions of years of evolution to cheat. We are the descendents of the cheaters (simply because if the cheaters have a few more offspring by cheating, after multiple generations a lot of the remaining specimens will be of the cheating kind). Thus it is not easy to fight your true nature...

Life isn't complicated, that's the easy bit. Mr Niger explained all that years ago we're just passengers.
Now quantum mechanics and how people can possibly believe Derek Acorah is real, that's the real leap Al.

We either do the right thing or we don't.



Nothing complicated in that.

Ever heard of the story of the scorpian and the frog?

lol

<opens the popcorn>

It's fable time.

Wasn't that the one where the french onion seller tried to obtain weapons grade plutonium from a middle eastern type and it turned out to be denatured.

Moral of the tale, always check who you're dealing with.

Lol hueg you're the best :)

you ned to suffer the consequeces, she has herrights - her right to being loved by one man who lves her only. adultery is bad and now you kow why. if you seek orgiveness and truly feel that you are in the wrong ask her to forgive you. peace

I din;t realise people had these rights. Fantastic! Who do I complain to if this right is being violated?

Bast*r* if i had a polish women i would cater for her every whim

My sentiments exactly

Can happen....life is all the time learning....not possible to make no mistakes......we are human beings.....and I believe everything has a reason....you will find out......later on

You kindred !
You are a lucky ;)

You went in for two!! ;)

Radioman... well... sometime I`ll go to Poland...on a vacation... I want that whim would knock me down ;)

sad gay so if she never find out, wouldn't u do it again? what is 2 months?nothing! would u ever tell her yourself that u done it ?

think you mean sad guy...or do you know a secret....?

yep I mean sad guy, I don't have any secret. sorry

I feel the same way. In fact, I'm so in love with my Polish girl, I told her that I'll give her the world. So all of you - get off the planet. :)

I heard Mars is warmer this year.