Yes, I'm sensitive. No, I'm not over sensitive.
No, Poland is not a backwater and barbaric country.
It was spanking for 100%. I ensure you :)
This is what I needed to hear/read. Thank you.
It's not a tradition in America. I don't really care what they do there. I don't love someone in that country. I'm not trying to make the world a perfect place, just trying to ensure that my girlfriend is cared for.
And yes, I'm completely English. Are you going to raise the issue of stonings, the stocks, public beatings, corporal punishment, a long history of torture, invasion, barbarism in modern day or simply the birthday bumps? For the record, I was given the bumps in years past and when it happened it was completely new to me as well. I didn't understand it then and before I knew what was happening I very nearly defended myself the way I thought appropriate.
I understand there's probably a lot of people reading this and laughing at me. Frankly, I don't care. I've come here to learn, understand and try to believe that my girlfriend has not been mistreated. That's all.
Maaarysia: This is my problem. I did not choose to accept someone into my life who accepts violent customs. There are countries where stonings and even rapings take place and people accept them on some level. I don't and never will.