Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers

GOOD QUESTION. I AM WITH HIM, CUZ I BELIEVE HE WILL STOP. I HAVE FAITH

Hopefully you've bought some shares in Ibuprofen. Just so you can make a bit of money whilst you're waiting for the road to Damascus moment.

Actually, scratch that. everyones right, i have no self esteem, im stupid and dont want to be lonely. i cant and wont find a good guy here. thats why im with him. i know there is someone in the USA, but im in stupid UK. im with him for the wrong reasons, but im just weak. no-one is going to help me become stronger. but forget the abuse, he is a decent guy.

was that sarcasm, cuz i dont understand that joke.

but forget the abuse, he is a decent guy.

Blingin are you Polish?

no im British why?

just curious

what i meant was, if you take away his bad behaviour, he is not so bad

huh? tell me what you wanna say, please

So just to recap the salient points.

You are with him because he's a decent guy who hits you, but you don't want to be with him and really want to find someone else in america or on the polish forums, but you can't so you're staying with him instead.

Anyone else suddenly feel like they're on Trisha (Oprah for you of an american persuasion)

Hmm. Good luck, I have a feeling you'll need it.

life is too short to waste living in a state of fear and abuse be it mental or physical.

if he hit you once then he will hit you again.

your making fun of me arent you? yeah, when you feel like nobody wants you and you dont feel like theres away out because no -one opens there arms to you, you would kind of understand. its not easy. you dont get it, i feel like this is it.

Ever heard about the boy that cried wolf?

You decided to tell us you were being hit etc. We all poured out our collective indignation, massaged your ego and said don't go back with him, he'll do it again.

You did your own thing anyway.

He's hit you again.

Now you say you want to leave but also you don't as he's decent blah blah

Fine.

Good luck to you.

Even though this situation is abusive, I think you showed him that you won't just take being hit. This will either make him hit you worse, to overpower you, or he'll back off. I hope he backs off.

you dont need abuse to feel loved. you didnt grow up that way did you?

and you dont need another man to take you away, you need to get away now.
pack and move back home, or to a friends, get your self back together. get
your life back.

my brother said something once. and its true.

A man who hits a woman is a man who cant hit another man.
and there is a song Alice cooper sang, alot of meaning behind it.
if you ever get a chance to hear it the name of the song is " only women bleed"

listen carefully to the words.

I hope only the best for you.

Oh dear.
Do Polish men have bad tempers?
(I'm thinking of you Witek, with your lawn mower, and Greg at the moment ;) )

Sorry honey, but thats cr*p plenty of nice English guys out there, maybe you just attract scum who see an easy target! And if the UK is so stupid, f*ck off to somewhere else!

I have no sympathy for women that stay in abusive relationships in this day and age! You dont have any kids to him you're not married to him, its not like you've been with each other for years....And most of all as Mr H has stated you dont listen to advice given.

i was engaged to an english farmer about two or three years ago and he hit me a few times and when i was younger my mum was in two very abusive relationships .lying awake at night hearing some ****** punching my mum was not nice not nice at all and they dont stop either. yeah you may have got your own back the second time round but it doesnt mean **** im sorry to say. the fact that there was a second time too!! so soon after the first...i have had times where ive felt so lonely and scared to be alone but i would rather be single for a million years than stay in an abusive relationship see i have something called RESPECT for myself . this man has hit you twice now DUH!!! its gonna happen again and then what you wake up in years to come wondering why you wasted your life with someone who obviously doesn't really love you and what if you have children?? have u stopped to think about what would happen if u had kids with this guy?? my mum's second husband ended up assaulting my sister when she was only 15 because of his temper and we had to go to court too. think things thru do you want this to be your life? of course you can find someone else you found him didn't you?????????

being single isn't a bad thing at all it gives you more time to go out with your girlfriends and get high because im pretty sure they woint hit you when your all high....

You both need help

They have a caveman mentality, they look dumb, and generally have low IQ, hence why they do manual labour work...!! If you are a polish girl, you can do a lot better than having a dumb looking ogre!!

i am usually a very nice guy however sometimes i explode and yell at somebody or wreck something.

No you should leave him and leave him NOW. in my polish family this type of behavior from a man is looked down upon and considered very cowardly. Generally men like that end up alone miserable drunks in the Polish culture.

i might sometimes yell or break something but i would never lay a hand on a woman.

a real man would never hit a girl

Shes not going to take our advice guys like Hueg said, crywolf..

Is this c**t being banned from this site?

u bad boy.. lol

Witek, I can not picture you flippin out.. of course when pushed, I think everyone
including women explode. I guess it depends on the situation, what your exploding
about or yelling at.. :)

u r so right!! I now have more respect for you witek..

you talking about the G spot?

* shakes head at witek*

U sir need to go out and get some so your mind is clearer!!

This is probably the best post in this thread, I was thinking the same thing. The saying goes:

THERE ARE NO VICTIMS, only volunteers.