English Men vs Polish Men

you are exactly right... I had 3 couches but when I came home the other day there were only 2 there.. the other was in the kitchen/diner and the TV was in a different place...guess it keeps life interesting, but I dont get much say in where they are moved to which can be frustrating.. he was even talking about moving the bed into the living room the other day!

thats very true.. however, I am not entirely sure what you mean by 'you were good and he was ho-hum?'... in what way and did these two women go out with both you and a Polish guy?.. sorry Im confused

We both dated they at different times. He had a small dick, that clear enough?

I think some men no matter how you try to guide them they will be poor in the bedroom

fair enough... I would rather have a good looking guy with a small dick, than an ugly one with a big dick and ego to match.. but maybe thats just me.

Oh he has the ego. This was my best friend..
He has a girlfriend at home, one at work and the gall the screw my girlfriend and tell me it was none of my business. I meanwhile had to keep my mouth shut while the three suckers told me how wonderful he was. I sure you would love him.

Thats why have to laugh when some people go on about how trusting, loyal, honest Polish guys are.

blimey.. well I hope you arent best mates any more. He must have something to have 3 women on the go though. All men (and women) have the capacity to cheat.. I dont think one nation is any more loyal or disloyal than another, its all down to the individual

I still speak to him, go on holiday and am on friendly terms. He split with the girl he was living with, his mistress at work refered to her as 'his situation'. I think he told the mistress that she was dying with cancer and couldn't leave her for the few years this was going on.

He's a smooth talker, women think he a honest nice guy and will swallow anything. I admit was shocked at his callous disreguard for everyone but himself and I've know him for 15years.

The Mistress now live with him and he doesn't let anybody met her in case his fabricated exitance is exposed. I met her once and mention how much he loved his girlfriend - she freaked, apparently the story that there was love involved hadn't been communicated.

You say I've an ego, well, its more that I'm bullet proof, I need to be. He can say 'I shagged your girlfriend' and I can reply 'yeah, and she came back to me because you were crap'.

We don't talk about it, though...

I cant imagine why would you still be mates with him if he went off with your gf, or why you would take her back.. but good luck to you.

No ego, esteem or simply that i was having a massively good time and was in love with her. We had a LOT of sex. I wasn't the first and knew I wouldn't be the last. I had the power over her, a pretty face doesn't give you an orgasm.

There was also the issue that we both knew her ex-husband quite well and are still friends with him. He was Polish as well, and scored highly on shag-score apparently. So that 2.1 to the Poles.

My ex- was dedicated a Pole lover, three in a row.

And neither did you, my friend.....most of it comes from the mind.

95% aparently...

Well, she liked me a lot better than I like to admit.

And for you it maybe 95%, but women differ vastly.

Medically speaking, an orgasm is created by the chemical reactions in the brain....you may have stimulated her somewhat, but most of it came from within her.....trust me on this issue.

hmmm... you seem to be talking about it quite alot...

You know what that means....

that what i was just thinking...

if only some men put less pressure on the physical part of being a man. It's not the only aspect which defines man. But , hey, I am a woman, so what do I know???

100 % agreed, M.


More than most men, sister!

I agree too.. the best sex comes from the mind.. ideally accompanied by some physical stimulation.. or a good tongue lashing..

Ranj - thanks.
I just observe that men often compete with each other when it comes to who is better in this and that and who can perform better. I totally understand that, because women are competetive too.
The only problem is that you should not loose yourself in that competition, you migh win a battle, but in the end of the day, you have lost a war.

Of course it can be a competition, women make judgements on whats good for them, so they take part in as well.

Personally I can't be bothered with competing anymore. I prefer help my friends, its more effective.

Peter,
some women do, not all, besides there is also a huge media influance and it effects both sexes when it comes what's expected of them.

of course. You can''t make statements about anything that apply to all people, men or women of any nationality. Some girls do, some girls don't, as the song goes.

here is another sweeping statement which I believe is generally true (although there are always exceptions of course).. when it comes to cheating I believe that men are opportunists ( in the sense that they are much more likely to react to a situation that presents itself) whereas women are more devious (in the sense that they are more likely to think first and plan an affair).. anyone care to comment?

English guys are awful, they are wimpy, ugly and arrogant. I constantly meet different nationalities in London and there manners and emotional intelligence beat english guys hands down.

They just take care of and value their women better

woooooaaaah.. thats a sweeping statement. Even though I have a Polish boyfriend I feel the need to defend my fellow countrymen. Not all English men are wimpy, ugly, arrogant with no manners and a lack of intelligence.. its probably just the ones that were attracted to you that were like that

Thanks Sapphire. I am too much of a gentleman to argue with ladies in public and would have been unable to defend myself and other Brit blokes

Thanks Szarlotka for thanking Sapphire

Hey.
I'm an englishman, my name's Adam.
I want to officially say - it doesn't matter on your nationality because as we all know you get gits in every country. I doubt anyone can disagree with that lol.

That being said I must agree that, bar us few nice guys, most english guys aren't quite the gentlemen they should be. But in defense of MOST the western men: it's those few Feminists that were mentioned that have killed Chivalry. Yes this is true. Nearly all the guys I know won't hold a door for one of three reasons:
1: Yes they aren't very gentlemanly (these are the few gits)
2: They don't want to come off as too soppy. Because no matter what you say ladies very few women these days respond to a kind gesture first. Deny it if you wish, but you pick a guy who'll openly make fun of you than hold a door for you. It's been proven over and over again. (because you see it as confidence - which yes it is - but ignoring the guy who's trying to impress you and then complaining later doesn't wash with me I'm afraid :P)
and 3: They are frightened that they'll get their head blown off by some crazed feminist.

Now myself I have the philosophy - If you've got a problem that's what it is - YOUR problem. So I shall continue to hold a door and offer my seat and carry the bags, and if someone doesn't like it clearly they aren't the one for me.
But I do hate it being thrown back in my face all the same haha.

Just to clarify - that wasn't a dig at anyone in particular - that's just how it is.

Personally I love the fact that supposedly the majority of Polish women appreciate the Gentlemanly approach, it allows me to be myself without worry :).