English Men vs Polish Men

i think polish men are more polite, romantic, considerate and attentive. i have only had one proper english boyfriend and one polish and the polish guy was by far more romantic and paid me more attention. my english friends only want a shag and will make the minimum effort required to achieve this with girls. i work with lots of Polish people and they are all very polite and take an interest in conversations. I think the difference in culture has alot to do with it. From my expereincve Polish people are generally brought up to be more polite.

I was brought-up to act as a *lady* so my goal is to find a *gentlemen* in return. :) I can't stand rude people, whom only care about 'what do I get out of this if I am kind or care?' (thinking about themselves first.)

I just act kind to others, in good-manners to respect and behavior; because that is whom I am. :) (I enjoy being kind to others.) Not for gaining anything in return.

It is a lovely thing to know, that in the UK, men are still being braught-up to treat women as a lady. and I feel that it does not matter if you are a woman or man, you need to treat others as you would like to be treated. (whether you are Polish, English or not.)

U said it PERFECT!!!! :) Very Wise!!!

My polish boyfriend is much more romantic than any British guy I have gone out with. He is much more direct therefore has no problem saying how he feels about me. I think Polish people are more direct in general.

I think they are still a bit more traditional than many young UK guys. So buying flowers, talking romantically etc seems to be very important in how they express themselves.

I notice that his friends are much more romantic towards women generally too. They are in thier mid 20's and actually want to date girls rather than just only picking them up for the one night. In fact I think they find British girls a little confusing as there are a lot who will go out dancing with their friends, snog the face off a guy (or more than one!) and then say see ya! I'm told by his pals that it would be at least polite in Poland to walk the girl home and ask for her number.

But hey I don't speak the lingo so maybe thats what they tell me...(-;

aint being funny or nuffin like but werent you saying, ooh just a couple of days ago, that you thought he might be cheating on you...?

he is a romantic cheater:) with class.

Muliti talented to these Polish chaps ;-)

....yes thats very true.. but that doesn't mean to say he's not romantic! and Romance is the topic here, not in/fidelity!

I knew I should have changed my name! (-; !!!

I bet he has imaginative ways of saying sorry- rose petals one week, chocolates the next. Who could resist?

hahahahaha!(-;

something like that....

In fact he hasn't done the rose petals yet..will have to suggest it...

Never trust a man bearing flowers! ;-)

even if he is a gardener? P

Exactly.

Is a cheap source of flowers an unfair advantage?

no, never. I was teasing Shell:).

This does all remind me of that Polish colleague of mine who is in love with a girl at work. She's in love with him too, which is nice for them. Every day she seems to have been given yet another flower. (Everyone say "Aaah!" but you have to provide your own sick bags!) There are benefits working with plants.

I'd just consider him a cheapscate in that case :) <jk>